Gratitude Friday


1. Sam. I’m not sure what I’d do without him right now, THE dog, (well, I know what I’d do — probably rescue two more dogs immediately). I had Little D on top of Dexter’s crate, along with his ashes, collar, and a clay paw print. Sam noticed it there and asked to have it. At first I said no, just like I did when Dexter was still here, “no, that’s Dexter’s toy.” It only took a few minutes of that sweet face, the way he’d look at me, look at the toy, look back at me, sitting so polite and patient, before I gave in and let him have it. We played for a few minutes and then he got in his crate with it, which is when I took this picture. Sam is his own kind of sad about losing his brother.

2. The promise of our garden harvest. Most of our strawberries didn’t survive the heat, some of the flowers I transplanted are a bit droopy and wilted, and most of our lettuce was eaten by bugs, but there are baby cucumber and zucchini squash, tomatoes and peppers, and Eric has been using our basil when he makes pizza.

3. Tribe, smart, creative, loving friends, both online and in the flesh, all real, who are working on the same things I am, doing the same practice, setting the same intentions, giving me support and offering inspiration, making me smile.

4. Books. I just ordered the new Neil Gaiman novel, The Ocean at the End of the Lane, (his wife wrote a really good blog post about it, The Ocean at the End of the Lane (A Book & Marriage Review)), and Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche’s new book, The Shambhala Principle: Discovering Humanity’s Hidden Treasure, and I can’t wait to read them. I am so grateful that there is so much beauty and wisdom so easily accessible.

5. New Girl, Season One, now available on Netflix streaming. I had missed the first part of the season, started watching late on, but now that it’s on Netflix I can catch up, (I clearly had missed WAY more than I realized). I love that show. The comedy happens in the context of people caring about each other, living together, and in the mess of that relationship, utterly beautiful and awkward and full of grace and completely complicated, the comedy naturally arises rather than resorting to stereotypes and meanness like so much other comedy seems to do. It’s smart funny, heart funny, real funny.

Bonus Joy: Yoga and weight training. I hadn’t been for a few weeks because first I was sick, then Dexter. It was good to get back to it.

6 thoughts on “Gratitude Friday

  1. Lisa Kaftori

    It’s precious to see Sam with Little D ♥
    Even when we are experienced with loss, healing is a journey requiring great courage. I send you, Eric and Sweet Sam love & virtual hugs♥♥♥

  2. piercedfuzzis

    Awwww. They do their best to help us get back to normal, whatever that is, as they are coping. All of our kids were sad when Our Peach was gone, even the Bourbon who only got to try to eat her twice 😉

  3. Carol

    Oh, Jill… I am so sorry for your loss! I was gone to take care of my Beloved Uncle/Best Friend with no access to internet… He passed last night from cancer… Your posts have gotten me through this difficult time, and I am sending my prayers your way. Dexter & My Uncle Delmar are playing catch in heaven 🙂

    1. jillsalahub Post author

      Carol, I am so sorry that you are experiencing your own loss. I’m so glad I was able to offer you some comfort, and so grateful for that which you are sending my way. It’s such an awful club to be a member of, and yet, if we love and live long enough, we all end up here eventually. ♥ I don’t know if you’ve ever seen it, but one of my favorite poems about loss is In Memoriam by John O’Donohue, you can read it here:


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