Something Good

1. Poetry: What is Here? and The Poem You’re Going to Write Tomorrow and In the Garden and One Intention and In My First Pilates Class, I Reckon with Impossibility (which I printed out and gave to my Pilates teacher) by Rosemerry Wahtolta Trommer, Invisible Work by Alison Luterman, When Crimea was still a place of light by Lyudmyla Khersonska and Be Less Poetic by Tariq Al-Arabi and [The rage that shatters a man into children,] by César Vallejo and Consolation of Poetry by António Osorio and The Valley of Aijalon by Babette Deutsch and The Cocoon by Robert Frost and [We waved them off long ago. So why] by Dimitri Psurtsev on poets.org, Are You Not Tired Yet? by Mohammed al-Khatib, translated by Tayseer Abu Odeh and Sherah Bloor and Missed Time by Ha Jin on The Slowdown, Harry Styles by Greg Hughes and On the Past by Marvin Glasser and What Walls Are Good For by Dick Westheimer and To the Young Man Who Cried Out “What Were You Thinking” When I Backed Into His Car by Lynne Knight and The Jogger by Rebecca Starks on Rattle, the first of September by Maya Stein, The Invention of Goodness by James Crews, and End of August by George Bilgere on Heart Poems.

Poet Wendell Berry died this week. In related news, Wendell Berry, Writer Who Extolled America’s Agrarian Past, Dies at 92 on The New York Times, (gift link: “A Kentucky farmer, he railed against agribusiness and championed small family farms and the environment, winning widespread acclaim”), No Unsacred Places (“Remembering Wendell Berry in both word and deed”) by Erina Kim-Eubanks on Sacred Imagination, and Membership, Belonging, and Barbershops (“For Wendell Berry, 1934–2026”) from Patti Digh, and Our Real Work (“Inspired by Wendell Berry”) by James Crews, and How to Have Enough: Wendell Berry on Creativity and Love by Maria Popova on The Marginalian, and Thank you, Wendell Berry (“A remembrance”) on Orion Magazine, and The Ground At Our Own Feet (“In honor of the amazing man and writer, Wendell Berry”) by Julia Fehrenbacher, and How to Be a Poet by Wendell Berry.

2. Is Anyone Else’s Mental Health A Mess, Or Is It Just Me? on The Beautiful Mess by John Pavlovitz.

3. It’s Brave to Feel Deeply. “An invitation to stay tender in a world built to numb you” from Sara Kuburic on Notes From My Phone.

4. In Paris, “There is no need” by Jeanette Winterson.

5. Pedaling toward God by Laura Lentz on Writing at Red Lights.

6. Just This. Just Now. Just Here. “Somewhere between water, pigment, and page” from The Isolation Journals with Suleika Jaouad.

7. Losing a parent is a bewildering, lonely experience. Here are the things I wish I had known before by Gaby Hinsliff on The Guardian. “There’ll be exhaustion, love tinged with occasional rage, even moments of black humour. But my mum would want me to tell you: don’t be afraid.” I feel this in particular, “Washing up at her kitchen sink a fortnight ago, looking out at the same scarlet fuchsia I remember blazing in the garden when my father died, it struck me for the first time that soon I would no longer be anyone’s daughter. What I didn’t know then was that the loss of both parents would feel less like the end of a relationship and more like its transition to a new stage, of finally being able to see them clearly as people in their own right.”

8. Let This Practice Change You by Jena Schwartz. “You don’t have to be skilled. You don’t have to be good. Just show up and get ink on your hands.”

9. Rusty and Penny by Patti Digh. “On becoming the last one standing.”

10. The crumbled receipt from Jasmine on The Tiny Joy Project. “You wonder what the heck is this receipt and unfold it to see a few items, a date and a time. Maybe it all comes back to you, maybe it won’t. Either way, this little piece of paper is proof that you were here. Little proof that you did something while you were here.”

11. Chicken or Egg? How to hatch ideas by Danny Gregory.

12. Have You Said All You Have to Say? “Another way to check in with your work” by Jami Attenberg on Craft Talk.

13. Enrollment and learning by Seth Godin. “Why are you taking this class?”

14. Welcome people into your world! “Creating a visual language to use in your publications” from Alix on Earth & Verse.

15. Shame has kept me quiet about my depression and anxiety for too long by Elizabeth Kleinfeld. “On decades of being called lazy—and everything that label got wrong.”

16. You don’t have to wait for their funeral to notice their outstretched hand by Garrett Bucks on The White Pages. “On when we anoint and when we ignore.”

17. At the aquarium, my four-year-old son is obsessed with the Atlantic sturgeon by Mia Herman on Short Reads.

18. The Weirdness of Using Social for the Hyperlocal, “how i’m using and not using social media for a new community space” by Elise Granata on Group Hug.

19. Good stuff from Elissa Altman on Poor Man’s Feast: a list for a complicated week (“Some Bits of Beauty During a Difficult Time”) and on being the enemy (“Coming to Terms with What My Mother Thought of Me, and the Complexities of Grief”).

20. I Thought I Was In Love With My Roommate. I Wanted To Be Her. by Kristin Amico on Open Secrets Magazine. “Decades later, a social media surprise reminded me I had become the woman I once wished I could be.”

21. The Top 10 Data Center Myths from Moms Across America. “Data centers have become one of America’s hottest debates. They are sold as essential pieces of infrastructure that create jobs, generate tax revenue, support national security, and keep our cell phones going. Meanwhile, on the ground, host communities are confronting the consequences for their water, health, air quality, utility bills, farmland, public budgets, quality of life, and even their ability to control what gets built in their own towns. In a storm of conflicting claims and corporate talking points, what does the evidence actually show? Let’s examine 10 of the biggest data center myths, and separate fact from fiction.”

22. One of my favorite quotes from Pema Chödrön: “Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing. We think that the point is to pass the test or to overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don’t really get solved. They come together and they fall apart. Then they come together again and fall apart again. It’s just like that. The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy.”

23. The longlist for the Booker Prize 2026.

24. The 2026 Audubon Photography Awards: Winners.

25. This man’s ‘rubbish’ pet drawings went viral. Now, thousands want one.

26. A Prayer for Nepal and Tibet, and How to Help on Lion’s Roar. “James Gritz reflects on the devastating flash floods in Nepal and Tibet and shares resources for those looking to support relief efforts.”

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. Ringo and I did most of them by ourselves this week, as Eric was sick enough to be home from work but also sick enough he couldn’t go along. Each one that typically wasn’t my day to walk, as we are back on a “regular” schedule with Eric back at work fulltime so we alternate days, I thought to myself, “I’m the lucky one” — lucky to be out seeing the sunrise, lucky to be the one who gets to see all the animals (lots of owls lately), lucky to be able to walk, lucky to be with Ringo, lucky to be alive.

2. Canceling plans. Eric started feeling sick on Monday and at first, we assumed it was COVID, so I canceled everything on my schedule for the next few days, until we were sure it wasn’t anything contagious that I could pass on or that would take me out too. Except, the day that I thought I was safe to get back to my regular schedule, I had not one but two migraines and had to cancel all those plans too. Luckily, the only situations and relationships where I’m important are with Eric and Ringo, so canceling with everyone else but still being able to show up for them is workable. And for the one time I wasn’t able to help them with what they needed, there was Instacart.

3. Watermelon and peach season. I am most likely eating the last of these today but while they were here and I was able to have as much as I wanted, they made me so happy.

4. Ringo Blue. He was SO good this week, content to just rest and hang out with us as long as he got his morning walk and all his meals. With Eric feeling bad and needing extra care, and then me having an off day, it helped so much that Ringo was just okay with all of it. This is for sure one of the benefits of an old dog.

5. My tiny family, our small house, my little life. Just now, I can tell that Eric is feeling better because he is in the kitchen listening to his favorite old-time radio station, Radio Classics on SiriusXM. Earlier he was outside sitting in the backyard. This week he spent a lot of time sleeping, which is so unlike him I knew he didn’t feel good. I’m so glad he’s starting to feel better. This week was another reminder that we live in bodies that are impermanent and that more time together is never promised so we need to be so grateful and present, enjoy it while we have it and take such good care of each other.

Bonus joy: a new laptop, payday, pizza, our futon with the wool topper, air conditioning, our new to us lawn furniture, the new rug I got for the end of our bed so Ringo doesn’t slip on the wood floor when he gets up in the morning, deactivating my Facebook, new poetry collections, good books, YouTube shorts, listening to podcasts, having good music playing while driving with the windows rolled down, chrysanthemums, the trees turning gold, the cooler mornings, a hot cup of coffee and a warm mug of tea, a warm shower, rosemary mint shampoo, ibuprofen, seltzer water, urgent care, health insurance, asters, rabbitbrush, owls, crying, texting with Chris and Chloe’, getting to hang out with Carrie last week, people who share from their gardens, other people’s pets and kids, naps (so many naps), healthy eyes, being able to read, book club, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.