Gratitude

1. Morning walks: I didn’t get as many pictures this week because most mornings it was still dark when we walked. As we start to shift from summer into fall this happens and we don’t always adjust our schedule to walking later until it starts to get colder. I was a bit sad because even in the dark I could tell, especially at North Sheilds Ponds, the fall colors were really starting to show. And yet, I would gladly give up a few pictures of that to share with you to experience what happened instead, what happened because we were out in the still dark: a pair of Great Horned Owls. I couldn’t get close enough to get a better picture because as soon as Ringo saw them, he started to bark and they flew away, but Eric saw them again this morning when it was a bit lighter and he was able to get a bit closer.

2. My tiny Oregon family. Meaning my brother, his girls and his grandkids (who I call “the girls” and “the littles”). We’ve been working through all of the details of the financial elements of our parents’ estate and keep telling each other how glad we are that we are doing this together, that we don’t have to experience the horror stories we hear about other families as they divide and divvy up what is left. There is a yearly lantern festival by the river where they live and this year, Chris got two lanterns in honor of Mom and Dad, and they all went to visit them and walk around. Chris brought home the lanterns after and put them on his front porch, where they remind me of Halloween decorations. Also of note, Warren started his first year at the “big school” where he now gets to go with his big sissy, Lia. Another fun fact is Chris’s house is so close that his back yard is right up against the school property, so he can see the kids on the playground at recess, and it’s the same school where the girls went.

3. Practice. Yoga at Red Sage plus a dog and Teri who hasn’t been able to come recently, my Friday morning writing sangha almost full and such tender gorgeous writing, yoga at the gym — I forgot how nice it was to have someone else tell me what to do.

4. Baking. There hasn’t been much this summer because it’s been too dang hot. This week, I made carrot cake and gingerbread muffins with cream cheese buttercream frosting, enough that I got to share a bunch but also eat it myself. So good.

5. My tiny family, small house, little life. Eric is finally feeling better and I’m so glad. He’s going to be extra busy with work commitments until Thanksgiving and to have him not feeling good on top of that was no fun. Ringo went for a checkup with his regular vet this week and continues to do so well for an almost 13 year old. I realized this week why I take so many pictures of him when he’s sleeping, besides that he’s so cute — it makes me so happy to see him so relaxed and content.

Bonus joy: laundry, groceries, listening to music and podcasts and audio books, poetry, comedy, a new notebook, stickers, my favorite pens, my new laptop (seriously, how did I put up with my old broken-down slowpoke computer for so long?!), pizza, cake, Autumn Crisp grapes, slightly green bananas, book club, the book that Eric wants to pick for his session of book club being one I really want to read and had already added to my list, a warm shower, a big glass of cold clean water, indoor plumbing, our whole house fan, cooler temperatures, everything turning gold, owls, rivers and ponds and the ocean, acupuncture, aqua aerobics, the hydromassage chair, sitting in the sauna, a massage with Danielle, crying, naps, pasta, Zoom, my favorite coffee mugs, other people’s dogs and kids, streaming content, the flowers Eric got me when he went to get groceries, potatoes of all kinds, texting with Chloe’ and Chris, tarot cards, wool slippers, down blankets and pillows, Ringo’s PEMF mat, wireless internet, shampoo that smells so good, basket boxes, naps, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.

Something Good

1. Poetry: Produce, Bear, Surrender by Chloé Leisure (she also happens to be one of my dearest friends), For When It’s Hard and For Every Secret Agent of Change and On Your Twenty-Second Birthday and Even If I’d Rather Not Know It and One Before the Big Adventure and Letter to Others in the Dark by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, The Plum You’re Going to Eat Next Summer by Gayle Brandeis and For You Who Have Loved Old Dogs by Silas House and If Night You Were a City by Adam Wiedewitsch and Parts of a Body House by Erika Meitner on The Slowdown with Maggie Smith, My Mother Told Us Not to Have Children by Rebecca Gayle Howell and Sitting on a Bench, I Doze Off Piecing Together the Day by Lance Larsen and Tabula Rasa by Matthew Wimberly and Memorial by Janna Schledorn and Almost a Friend by Esat Alpay on Rattle, Folded by Luis Muñoz and Noon by Eugenio Montale and Silence Comes from Somewhere Else by Nikola Madzirov and Love Lies Bleeding by Christina Rossetti on poets.org, Goodtime Jesus by James Tate shared by Patti Digh (that last line is so perfect), The Mighty Sage by Julia Fehrenbacher, The Pool by Jena Schwartz, Allowed To Be Ordinary and A Friend’s Voice by James Crews, Peach by Dorianne Laux shared on Heart Poems, Leave It by Maya Stein, The Most Beautiful Thing by Andrea Scher, How to Change Your Life by Maria Popova, and I Am Not All That Has Happened and Beloved by Julia Barton.

In related news, One thing can say many things from Pádraig Ó Tuama, and Watch Movies Like a Poet (“my guide to gathering poetic images and atmosphere from film”) from Alix on Earth & Verse, and Wendell Berry’s Life on Earth by Katie Myers.

2. Pendulation by Josie George on What is Here? “What are you doing to keep going right now?”

3. I Couldn’t Save My Ex. Can I Save the Planet? “Discerning what work is ours to do in times of climate breakdown” by Satya Robyn.

4. Good stuff on The Beautiful Mess by John Pavlovitz: Things I Learned Since My Father Died and Christians Could Stop Trump’s Violent, Hateful Chaos At The Polls—And All They’d Need Is Jesus.

5. An Existential Guide to Death on The Shadowed Archive.

6. This morning, “a simple check in” from Erin Geesaman Rabke.

7. More questions than answers, “AKA. The way it should be” from Jeanette Winterson.

8. Good Stuff on The Marginalian: The True Purpose of Tarot and How to Break Free from the Tyranny of Certainty: The Japanese Concept of “Ma.”

9. Letter From Scotland, “Some thoughts on going deeper, and writers’ residencies, from a glen near Edinburgh” by Alexander Chee.

10. Recommitting to Creative Play, “with the help of my kindergarten self” by Anne Butera on In an Artist’s Garden and Studio.

11. Mossy catwalks, mycelial designs and Monty Don: the growth of gardener style on The Guardian, “Aspirational clobber, hot horticulturists and a TikTok content rise suggest gardening has never been cooler.” In related news, ‘The End Of An Era’: Frances Tophill, Rachel de Thame and Others React To Monty Don’s Gardeners’ World Departure.

12. How to host Lightning Talks. “The magic of a mini TED in your living room” by Gillian Morris on Supernuclear.

13. Pitter patter and some notes from the swirl by Lisa Olivera on Human Stuff.

14. Just a little loose. “Some things are still here because somebody bothered to fix them” by Jasmine on The Tiny Joy Project.

15. Solace by Seth Godin.

16. You need a reason to draw. “I’ll give you a bunch” by Danny Gregory.

17. The Telling. “Where we were when the world changed [on 9/11]” by Elissa Altman on Poor Man’s Feast.

18. Jokapäiväinen, “Finnish (YOKKA-pai-vai-nen): noun; Everyday, quotidian, diurnal, mundane” by Ella Frances Sanders on Orion Magazine.

19. So Many Tender Things by Laurie Wagner.

20. No One Owns 9/11 Mourning by Frederick Joseph. “Twenty-five years after September 11, the struggle over who belongs at its memorial reveals how much of its human cost we still refuse to recognize.”

21. ‘I’m sick of her talking about it’: 11 readers share how GLP-1s have affected their relationships on The Guardian. “As weight loss drugs have risen all around the world, it has reshaped users’ relationships for better and for worse.”

22. I’ve been squandering my attention. Maybe you too? by Andrea Scher.

23. CARING IS EMBARRASSING (so embarrass yourself), “the mighty wisdom of being cringe” by Brad Montague on The Enthusiast.

24. I bet there’s a story there. “The absolute miracle of junk drawers” on The White Pages.

25. A landscape of Symbols, “Creating from dreams, meditation, intuition” by Alix on Earth & Verse.

26. Tenderheart by Joanna Byrd on Short Reads. “Feeling sorry for a snake.”

27. Sara Bareilles Confronted Grief, and Found Herself on The New York Times. (gift link)