Something Good

Peony from my garden rendered to look like an oil painting

Kind and gentle reader, my Something Good list is going on vacation just like me, and that means most likely there won’t be a new list until the first part of July. As I always do when I take a break from posting these, I want to remind you that there’s a whole archive of lists, 720+ of them, so you either need a break as much as I do, or you could start working backwards and see what you may have missed. In the meantime, stay tender, keep your heart open, and don’t give up. 💛

1. Poetry: Quiet Together and I Am No Sensei and Even with Perseverance by Julie Barton, What Goes On and The Day Before Graduation by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, The Twenty-Year Workshop by Lynne Knight and Next Time by Stuart Watson on Rattle, City Chickens by Alison Luterman on The Sun magazine, Native Grasses by Lynnell Edwards and Missing by Mary Morris and The Burning Kite by Ouyang Jianghe translated by Austin Woerner shared on The Slowdown by Maggie Smith, Our Lady of the Garden by Pádraig Ó Tuama on Poetry Unbound, Künstlerroman by Sarah Ghazal Ali and Every Person Is an Address, Every Person Is a Calendar by Megan Fernandes on Poets.org, Instead of AI and Mother Maple by James Crews, This Thing in You by Julie Fehrenbacher, Dig and fill and empty and burn by Amanda Sandlin, Advice from a Raindrop by Kim Stafford on Heart Poems, and Untitled by Matt Moberg shared by Patti Digh. In related news, How to Read Poetry by Patti Digh.

2. Recipe I want to try: High Protein Ham and Cheese Biscuits. Oh how I adore a good biscuit.

3. Stillness: A Mini Photo Zine by Alix Klingenberg. I love her “scrying the photograph” writing exercise.

4. Good stuff on The Beautiful Mess by John Pavlovitz: I’m Not Afraid Of Artificial Intelligence; I’m Afraid Of Natural Stupidity and An American Mourning.

5. 7 Permission Slips for Gentle Adulting by Courtney Carver on Be More With Less.

6. Five True Things by Laurie Wagner.

7. What’s Left When the Well Runs Dry by Elizabeth Kleinfeld. “On caregiver burnout, Buddhist practice, and why self-care is a prerequisite—not a reward.”

8. Weeding by Kari on A Grace Full Life.

9. The Goal Is Not to Miss You Less by Megan Falley. “What if time does not heal all wounds?”

10. I lost my beloved husband after 35 years, then my sister and my father. Here’s how I rebuilt my old happy self on The Guardian. “I tried everything from gong baths to junk food and intermittent crying as I attempted to deal with my grief. Nothing helped – until I started tuning in to what my body was telling me.”

11. Five practical ways to feel better and make a difference. “Dr Mark Williamson, director of Action for Happiness, shares five small changes that really can make a difference to your life.”

12. Why Mental Health Matters So Much for Introverts.

13. The Biggest Tell That Something Was Written by AI on The Atlantic. “So we end up with canned perfection—writing that can’t really be argued with, because it has no underlying deliberative reasoning process, no train of thought. As I wrote on X recently, AI writing is almost impossible to edit, because even when it sounds plausible, a closer look will show that every element is equally off: The tone is bland; individual word choices are baffling; the structure lacks sense; key pieces of the argument are missing; facts are false. Working on AI text, as an editor, is like trying to operate on a body whose skin, muscles, veins, bones, and organs are all compromised. There’s nothing to leave intact, nowhere to begin.”

14. Pendant, Gravid, Asking to Fall on The Isolation Journals with Suleika Jaouad.

15. From the archives: writing the book that gave me back my life. “On Giving Myself Permission to Create” on Poor Man’s Feast by Elissa Altman.

16. Is it true that … we should all be taking creatine? from The Guardian. “The supplement is a proven sports performance enhancer, but research is ongoing and for most people it’s an optional extra, not an essential.”

17. ‘My body is fat, not wrong’: how body neutrality – not positivity – helped me shed a lifetime of shame on The Guardian. “If I’d been taught this way of thinking as a child, I can’t begin to imagine how much easier things could have been.”

18. Shelf Life: Maggie Smith. “The author of A Suit or a Suitcase takes ELLE’s literary survey…In this ongoing series, authors share an assortment of their most memorable reads: the books that have shaped their lives as writers and as human beings.”

19. And finally, these random things I saved to my phone this week.

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. Since Eric is on summer break, we’ve been doing these together, all three of us, which has been really nice. One of my favorite things is that he always spots things I wouldn’t see if I were walking on my own — like the deer lying in the grass this morning or the mama duck and her four babies swimming in McMurry Pond the other day. We’ll be leaving next week for Oregon, and we’ve been talking about all the good places we’ve found along our route over the years to walk dogs. We make the same comment about them all the time as we walk them, “if we lived here, we’d walk here all the time.” This morning, as we were walking around the ponds just north of our house where we’ve lived for 25 years now, Eric joked, “if we lived here, we’d walk here all the time.”

2. Peony season! This is one of my favorite times of year. My first peony bud opened on Sunday, which just so happened to be my dear friend Chelsey’s birthday, and they’ve been slowly popping ever since. So many blooms! I want to add one of the coral varieties and something yellow and a Claire de Lune to my garden. Did you know peonies can live for over 100 years? One of my favorite Mary Oliver poems is Peonies.

3. Practice. Yoga with Red Sage and writing with my Friday morning sangha — oh how I will miss them when I’m away! I might try to show up on some Friday morning to write, but I never know what the internet connection is going to be like on the coast. I’m looking forward to mediating when we get there, with the view out the back window to rest my eyes on.

4. Ringo’s care team. He seems to be on track to heal up the “booboo” on his elbow. We got him some sleeves to help protect it as it heals and even though he doesn’t really like them he is SO cute in them. And yet, he does wear them, and that’s another thing to be grateful for, how good Ringo is about getting shots and taking pills and getting acupuncture, etc. I tried while we were waiting to build a pair of elbow protector pads myself using some fabric tape, a toddler sock, some cotton batting, and his harness, but it was a failure, kept slipping down. Even though I’d prefer it if he had not a single thing wrong right now (or ever), I am so grateful to all the people who support us in keeping his belly and joints happy, and his elbows protected.

5. My tiny family, small house, little life. I’m looking forward to our time away at the beach, but I’m just as happy here — anywhere with them.

Bonus joy: getting in the pool, getting to visit with Sally and Janice while we hop around during aqua aerobics class, sitting in the sauna, the hydromassage bed, good books, good TV and films (sometimes even the ones that aren’t very good, because for example sometimes you need a cheesy romcom with a totally impossible happy ending), listening to music while I drive around with the windows rolled down, texting with Chloe’ and Chris, listening to podcasts, starting a new podcast or TV series I know is going to be good, practicing with Sarah Blondin, potato chips, ice cream, onion poppy seed buns, stretching, my white Siberian irises getting ready to bloom, strawberries, using my dad’s beer steins for flower vases, potting two new spider babies from plants that originally came from Eric’s mom, a big glass of cold clean water, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep, these sweet pictures of my dad who has been gone for 2.5 years.

P.S. Kind and gentle reader, my blog is going on vacation just like me, and that means most likely there won’t be a new Gratitude post until the first part of July. In the meantime, may you be safe, happy, healthy, and at ease. 💛