Something Good

1. Poetry: Anniversary by Edward Salem and Sonnet Overheard at Phone Booth by Elane Kim and Smalltown Lift by Brian Blanchfield and The plum you’re going to eat next summer by Gayle Brandeis and Community by Emily Bright on The Slowdown with Maggie Smith, Messages Back Home by Ananya Venkateswaran and Monarchs by Caryn Lazzuri and What Work Is by Matthew Buckley Smith and Milk by Frank Dullaghan on Rattle, Sparrow Child by Julie Barton (because this, those first two lines: “I’ve worn sorrow like wet feathers, unable to find lift”), Dear Peace by James Crews, Origin Story by Esther Lin shared by Patti Digh, They Say the Heart Wants by Danusha Laméris on Heart Poems, and that place in myself by Maya Stein (do yourself a favor and click on the link included to hear Maya read it).

2. Good stuff from Patti Digh: I am carrying my red metal lantern again (“After a long darkness, a small and steady light illuminates my way”) and “Oh my god. Dude.” (“Four words that said everything”).

3. The Simplest of Gestures, “On making friends with your work” by Jami Attenberg on Craft Talk.

4. Calm in the storm on The Imperfectionist. “Keeping your centre of gravity immediate and local means treating the world of national and international events as a place that you visit – to campaign or persuade, donate or volunteer, to do whatever you feel is demanded of you – and that you then return from, in order to gain perspective, and to spend time doing some of the other things a meaningful life is about.”

5. Good stuff from Elissa Altman on Poor Man’s Feast: The Most Dangerous Man on Earth is a Malignant NPD Who Is Out of Options (“On the Normalization of Evil”) and we are not in pieces (“The good things that are holding me together”).

6. Harrison Hill Tells Us About Nothing Ever Being the Same Again, “another installment of my occasional Tells Us series, in which I ask an author to tell us about five things” from Cheryl Strayed.

7. 16 Lessons From 16 Years of Self-Employment from Alexandra Franzen.

8. Dusking: The Dutch twilight ritual helping people slow down.

9. Why Pain Is Different From Suffering. “We’re basically trying to avoid pain and discomfort because we think that by doing so, we will be able to avoid suffering. What this showed is that there’s actually a hidden variable that most of us are completely unaware of. Suffering does not equal pain. Suffering equals pain times resistance. So if you can dial resistance down to zero, you are not doing away with the pain, but you are completely eliminating the suffering.”

10. The Stolen Minutes by Danny Gregory. “Finding time in a busy life.”

11. A rock in your shoe, “A small thing you kept walking with” from Jasmine on The Tiny Joy Project.

12. The Cliff’s Notes, “Stringing together the days” by Jena Schwartz.

13. Naming our Sacred Gifts, “I know you’re tired but come, this is the way” from Alix on Earth & Verse. 

14. Not to Complain, But…“Actually, yes—to complain. In great detail” on “The Isolation Journals with Suleika Jaouad.”

15. “something larger than money, larger than death” my 6 favorite quotes from Britchida.

16. Artemis II Lunar Flyby Image Gallery. “The first flyby images of the Moon captured by NASA’s Artemis II astronauts during their historic test flight reveal regions of the Moon’s far side, as well as an in-space solar eclipse. Released April 7, 2026, NASA astronauts Reid Wiseman, Victor Glover, and Christina Koch and CSA (Canadian Space Agency) astronaut Jeremy Hansen captured the images during the mission’s seven-hour flyby on April 6, 2026, showing humanity’s return to the Moon’s vicinity.”

17. If Only I Sent This“A modern archive for unsent memories, anonymous confessions, and heartfelt messages you were never ready to send.”

18. Americans still opt for print books over digital or audio versions; few are in book clubs, and other interesting results from Pew Research Center.

19. Over 70 Powerful Winners From the 2026 World Press Photo Contest.

20. ‘I got everything I dreamed of – when I had no ability to handle it’: Lena Dunham on toxic fame, broken friendships and her ‘lost decade’ on The Guardian. “Stardom came fast and hard for the wunderkind who created the hit HBO series Girls aged just 23. Now she’s written a tell-all memoir about why she was forced to retreat from the spotlight.”

21. Josh Thomas on his nemesis, men’s shorts and fighting Harry Styles: 10 Chaotic Questions on The Guardian. (video) “Who is Josh Thomas’s preferred celebrity body swap? What’s the weirdest thing he has done for love? Michael Sun sits down with the comedian to talk the ideal length of men’s shorts, fighting famous people and his most controversial pop culture opinion.”

22. How to change your life when you are in a rutwisdom from Ted on the Mary Tyler Moore Show. (Facebook reel)

23. Hillary Waters Fayle Creates ‘Portraits of Place’ from Seeds, Foliage, and Petals.

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. Slower and shorter, but still one of my favorite things.

2. Mom’s birthday is tomorrow. They are going to attempt a party of sorts for her, a gathering in the main room with cake and singing, but there’s always a chance she’ll rather stay in bed. I’m glad she gets to spend her birthday at Tokarski, and hope it gives a chance for the people who’ve cared for her for the past year to have a more official “goodbye” and celebration with her before she moves. She’s already been getting visits and wishes from people who can’t make it on the actual day and the flowers I ordered her are supposed to get delivered today.

3. Friends. Writing with my Friday morning group, visiting with Chloe’ in person, brainstorming some ideas with her for more regular gatherings with bigger groups, and sharing Instagram reels with Carrie and Kari and Shellie, ordering a bunch of new cards from a smaller company to use to send some snail mail, texting with Chelsey and my cousin Christie.

4. Shipping success. The Ubox my brother packed with the things I’d saved from Mom and Dad’s house arrived with everything perfectly intact. My favorite thing about working with U-Haul is their obvious commitment to employing women (only one person during the entire process, on the phone or online or on site, was a man), in particular to drive the trucks that deliver and pickup the Uboxes (all the drivers were women, and when I mentioned it to one of them, she said, “yeah, U-Haul loves their female drivers”).

5. My tiny family, small house, little life. We’ve been doing lots of what feels like spring cleaning, partly because cleaning out Mom and Dad’s house made me want to do better in my own, to get rid of things we didn’t need anymore and organize what we keep, and because I knew I was collecting some of their stuff to bring here and needed to clear space for that. It’s comforting to have some of their things here with me. My favorite thing about that kind of cleaning and organizing is knowing what I have and where it is and choosing it, wanting it to be in my house and in my life. I’ve really been noticing lately how much more attached Ringo is to me as he ages. I never used to be his first choice, but now even when Eric is home, Ringo chooses to stick by me, always wants to know where I’m at and what I’m doing. 

Bonus joy: access to healthcare and the ability to afford it including extra things like MRIs (I’ve been having migraines almost daily for over a week, so my doctor is sending me in for a scan just to be safe), ibuprofen, the smell of lilacs, bees on the dandelions, down blankets and pillows, our new futon mattress, organizing my spices (y’all, I’ve got A LOT, and short of building a custom cabinet there are just no good options for keeping them clean and accessible, but I did my best and it’s better than it was), getting in the pool and the sauna, a good sleep mask, listening to podcasts, the show Shrinking (I just finished the third season, and really like it), cheese, oranges, green tea, hot coffee sweetened with hot cocoa powder, hugs, making each other laugh, Haflinger wool slippers, finding my missing headlamp at the bottom of an empty reusable grocery bag in the back of my car (too bad it wasn’t before Eric already ordered me a new one), one of my yoga students realizing she had COVID before we met for class, chewy crunchy foods, a big glass of cold clean water, rain in the forecast, sitting in the backyard with Eric and Ringo, canceled plans, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.