Something Good

Special Personal Request: Kind and gentle reader, my dear friend Chloe’s sister, Aimee Brookens, DO, is raising funds to help pay six months of rent and cover the renovation costs of opening a medical clinic. “Unity Health Center will prioritize caring for the uninsured, underinsured, and those utilizing Medicaid while emphasizing equitable and responsible care for minority groups and all historically underserved populations including BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, Hispanic or Latinx. By creating a welcoming environment and building a trusting relationship between the medical team and patient, Unity Health Center will create a medical home that fosters healing and growth in the Greater Lansing [Michigan] community.” ANY amount you can give to help would be greatly appreciated, tax deductible, and donations can be made online at Unity Health Center. Thank you!

1. Poetry: Learning the Soft Way by James Crews, and in related James Crews news Episode 163 of Emerging Form podcast: James Crews on the Radical Act of Rest, On My History of Kissing Everyone At Parties by Isabelle Correa on The Slowdown with Maggie Smith, Twenty Seven Haikulings from Costa Rica and Nicaragua and Maximum Strength and When I Feel I Do Not Belong and Waking to Twenty-Two Degrees on April 24 and I left the ocean and Letter to an Unnamed Star by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, Wage Love by Moudi Sbeity on Heart Poems, Cynthia Wanders My Neighborhood by Thomas Centolella and In the not-not-woods by Malia Maxwell and Love Poem to Taco Bell by Rebecca Bornstein on Poets.org, Bravery Is Your Companion by Julie Barton, Become Unusable by Frederick Joseph, The Kraken by Dante Di Stefano and My Father’s Painting by Bryan Walpert and Sleepless City of Rising Light by Matt Joseph on Rattle, A question that’s guided me for 30 years by Pádraig Ó Tuama on Poetry Unbound, What the Doctor Said by Raymond Carver shared by Patti Digh, Poet Ada Limón Has a Trick for Public Speaking (“Plus, her entertaining strategy, favorite lip gloss, and a beautiful way to think about death”), Initiate yourself into the world of magical things, “Do not wait to be invited {3 poems from Hermit Season}” on Earth & Verse, and this from Kristin Noelle‘s recent newsletter:

“This is a blessing for the ones who feel sad

For the ones whose limbs feel heavy
and hearts feel weighed down.

For the ones who can’t quite name the cause,
or there’s too many causes to name.

If you’d like, you could start here:

One long, slow breath.
One long, slow exhale.
One hand on your heavy heart.

‘Dear heart,’ you could say.
‘Dear heavy heart.’

And after a few more breaths,
you might move that hand to cup your cheek
and with a grandmother’s tender love,
you might hold your hand there.

‘Precious one,’ your hand could say.
And, ‘Yes, love,’
Which is to say Yes,
you are feeling all of this.
You are holding all of this.
This is all so heavy now.

Maybe there’s nothing else to do just now.

Maybe there’s no where else to be.

Maybe sadness can be here,
and like the green that emerges silently
from barren branches in spring—
green that at first is not green,
but scraggly nubs of no-green—
like that green, maybe not-sadness will arrive in time
and offer you new gifts
beyond the ones that sadness brings.

There is so much life pulsing beneath the surface of you.
Swirling in the spaces around you and between you
and all that is.
The impulse to shift
to grow
to mutate
to break apart
to come together
to fall down
and rise up
to change seasons
to push out blossoms that look and smell sweet.
Sadness can’t stop any of this.

So maybe it’s okay that it’s here.

‘Precious one,’ I say to you with your sadness.
And: ‘Yes, love.'”

Also, in related poetry news, a new podcast, The Poetry Hotline. “The plan will be to have a biweekly podcast where I invite my poet friends to read a poem aloud, to talk briefly about their piece and maybe answer a couple of questions. Then, I will give a little pep talk at the end.” Or, the short version: “A biweekly poetry newsletter, pep talk and podcast. Poetry as a life preserver.”

2. This actually is my first rodeo (“Why being new at life is not the same as failing at it”) by Jasmine on The Tiny Joy Project. 

3. What to Do When the Signs Stop. (“How I learned to talk to Andrea again”) by Megan Falley.

4. Accidental art therapy by Jenny Lawson.

5. Life is a Potluck, (“sometimes all you have to offer are scanned notebook scribbles”) by Brad Montague on The Enthusiast.

6. Good stuff from The Awkward Yeti: Courage Building and Mondays.

7. Good stuff from Open Secrets: So It Goes (“Could getting rid of my estranged family’s gifts heal me?”) and I’m Italian? (“How a DNA test, not mine, changed my life”).

8. A Missed Goodbye, or Perhaps Not by Swasti Bhattacharyya. “Life continues. There is no need for goodbyes.”

9. Good stuff from Jamie Attenberg on Craft Talk: About a Tree (“I see it every day”) and When Changing Tense Makes You Tense (“The right but annoying move”).

10. Rehabilitating the Active Imagination: Samantha Harvey on How to Be a Reader in the Age of Fractured Attention on The Marginalian.

11. Reclaiming Our Hijacked Attention from Kaira Jewel’s April 2026 Newsletter.

12. I Missed the Fox, “And I think it means something” on The Isolation Journals with Suleika Jaouad.

13. No Crumb. “A list post including dreams, food, books, the garden, and more” by Erin Geesaman Rabke.

14. For Americans Who Feel Lost in America on The Beautiful Mess by John Pavlovitz.

15. The Case for “Strategic Laziness,” According to Artists and Athletes. “Rest and creativity go hand in hand. As these pros explain, downtime improves performance, focus and long-term success.”

16. This Is a Gardening Show review – Zach Galifianakis’ charming new series feels like perfect TV on The Guardian. “Part lesson, part lark, these 15-minute episodes are a total joy. They have such a deliriously light touch they will make you want to run outside and plunge your hands into the soil.”

17. The Best Literary Fiction of April.

18. Nobody talks about why most of the people who actually change their lives didn’t follow a system, didn’t read a book, and didn’t set goals, they just finally admitted something to themselves and everything downstream of it slowly reorganized. “The warehouse shift that shattered my color-coded self-help journals taught me what thousands of productivity gurus couldn’t: real transformation happens when you’re too exhausted to maintain the lie anymore.”

19. Repetition, Repair, and Restoring the Broken Chain, “A prompt from my daughter” by Jena Schwartz.

20. Imagining Her Back to Herself, “She was more than the way she was found” by Patti Digh.

21. Live Simply: 10 Lessons for a Lighter Life by Courtney Carver on Be More With Less.

22. Of Teachers and Cheaters, Rules and Tools. “Great artists steal, right?” by Danny Gregory.

23. Tick-Tock, Mister Wick from Chuck Wendig on Terrible Minds on his 50th birthday.

24. In times of destruction, create something: things to make by Isabel Abbott.

25. My family tried to eat fewer ultra-processed foods for five years. Here’s what we learned on The Guardian. “Cutting UPFs from our grocery list was expensive, laborious and time-consuming.”

26. 4 Things That Are Not Your Responsibility — Even If Your Anxiety Says They Are. “Consider this your permission slip to let go of the pressure.”

27. What to Do If You Hate Your Job—but Can’t ‘Just Quit’.

28. Why rest alone doesn’t restore energy.

29. And finally, I love this idea from Austin Kleon.

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. We for sure felt the coyote close by at Kestrel natural area this week. Because it’s been such an early, long, warm spring, I keep expecting to start seeing animal babies but that’s probably still a few weeks out. We saw our neighbor walking alone at the ponds and found out that our longtime neighbor dog, her partner for the past 14.5 years, Ringo’s enemy at the fence but friend in the streets, had passed. Good dog, Rizzo. 🐾💔 We miss you. 

Special edition gallery of all the animals Ringo and Eric saw on their walks this week. I was so surprised by the video, how close the heron let the deer get to it.

2. The pool at the gym being open. There have already been a few days that the heater wasn’t working, but after being closed for close to a full month to put in the new tile and paint and then another closure when some fool dropped and broke a bottle and got glass in the water so it had to be drained and cleaned, I’ll take it even when it’s cold. Getting in multiple days a week, followed up by sitting in the sauna, makes a huge difference to how I feel. Seriously, just looking at this picture makes me happy.

3. Moving day for Mom. I’m anxious to hear how it goes later today and hope she settles in as easily as she did the last time she had to move. I’m confident we found her a good place where she’ll be well cared for and have good company and be comfortable. And it turns out she qualified for hospice care for at least one more month, so they will be visiting her at her new address, providing some extra support that I think will help her make the transition smoothly.

4. Practice. Eric bought me some tulips when he was at the store this morning and I put them in one of my dad’s pottery steins on my meditation shrine. I didn’t realize how much it was going to mean to me, how comforting it would be to have Mom and Dad’s things in my house.

5. My tiny family, small house, little life. With all the new things from Mom and Dad’s and some cleaning up and clearing out of our things along with replacing some furniture that was not great to begin with and now close to 25 years old, I’ve been having fun rearranging and organizing around here. My peonies are filling out and filling up with buds that will most likely bloom before we leave for Oregon. With the long warm spring, my lilac bushes are still full of blooms at least a full week or two longer than usual.

Bonus joy: my irises blooming, the smell of lilacs when the wind blows, sitting in the backyard with Eric and Ringo, onion buns, hot coffee sweetened with hot cocoa, aqua aerobics, seeing my “gym dad” Frank, all the women in the sauna that one day, Sunday morning Pilates, rain, the particular yellow of the neighbor’s Honey Locust tree, how long the redbuds bloomed this year, the three wild turkeys I saw this morning by the feed store, getting all the laundry done and put away even the extra loads, Ringo’s visit with Bronwen and how cute their relationship is, Ringo’s visit with Kelly and his “really good” bloodwork, how excited Ringo got when I was writing with my Friday morning group and Chloe’ logged in and people said “Hi, Chloe'” and he knew what that meant and wanted to see her and so she adjusted her camera to show him Franny his dog friend, finding the right shelves for plants by the front door where the “good light” lands in the mornings, watching The Pitt (even though this season feels a bit more intense), listening to podcasts, sleeping in, being cold and cuddling up, down blankets and pillows, our new futon mattress with the wool topper, a big glass of clean cold water, potato chips in my sandwich, peanut butter, marionberry jam from Auntie T, pancakes, naps, reading in bed while Eric and Ringo sleep.