Gratitude

1. Morning walks. We had a few really cold mornings this week. One included a slight dusting of snow and another didn’t happen until 11 am because it was so cold.

2. Fort Collins Food Co-op opened in its new location. Beavers Market, only half a mile from my house, was operated by the Beavers family from 1976 until 2021. On their final day open, the family posted a statement on Facebook, a letter to their customers, that said, in part, “We have reached a point in our lives where it is time to say goodbye to the long hours and responsibility of owning and operating the store and say hello to our next chapter of life. Please know that this is one of the most difficult things we have ever done. The store, our employees and our customers have meant everything to us, and it is extremely bittersweet to say goodbye. We have poured our hearts and soul into Beavers Market and words will never express how much it means to us and to our family. We thank you from the bottom of our hearts for being part of our journey.”

I can’t overstate how beloved this little market was in our community, a place where the bigger chain stores could have easily made it impossible for them to survive. It had an extra special place in my heart because as soon as I walked inside, I traveled back in time to the small neighborhood family owned market in my little town where I grew up, Ditter’s Market in Sublimity, Oregon, which opened in 1890 as a drug store and tobacco shop but branched out into general merchandise a few years later. I never got over my amazement at how similar the two stores were, and now, neither one of them is still there.

New owners who had a tiny chain of other stores across the U.S., four total including Beaver’s, promised to keep things the same, but that didn’t happen and the new market never really thrived and finally closed down just four years later. It was sad, but it had never really replaced Beavers, so maybe it was finally the end of an era, time to let go of that simpler, sweeter time.

Which is why we were so surprised and pleased when it was announced that the local food co-op, itself serving Fort Collins since 1972, bought the building and announced they’d be moving in. It was an added bonus that they kept the Beavers logo for their marketing and merchandise, as well as the same commitment to serving the community that was the heart of Beavers Market. The co-op is also a beloved part of the community, so the marriage of it’s mission and the Beavers location is a particular kind of perfection. I’d been a member of the original co-op location back in the late 90s, but we’d moved away from Fort Collins and just never joined again. The day the co-op opened in the Beavers location, I once again happily became a member.

3. Reddit. I don’t always love it, because anywhere a lot of people congregate and share their opinions and preferences and struggles can get to be too much for me very fast. However, I’ve had lots of questions about things lately, have wanted to hear a collection of diverse opinions and experiences and get some advice, and it’s really one of the best places on the internet to find such a thing.

4. Online, on demand streaming content. Do I have too many subscriptions? Yes, yes I do. And yet, being able to find an old clip of one of your favorite skits from The Carol Burnett show, or watch a new comedy special or blooper reels or movie trailers, or listen to a podcast, or hear a bedtime story read by your favorite gay grandpa who lives in the mountains and looks a whole lot like Santa, or listen to your new favorite song over and over and over and over… it’s a good thing.

5. My tiny family, small house, little life. Things are good here, always so good.

Bonus joy: a warm shower, groceries, cleaning out a cabinet or two, putting out the trash, a big glass of cold clean water, Reese’s eggs, avocado, pickled red onions, scrambled eggs, writing with my Friday morning sangha, the dogs and humans who were at Red Sage for yoga this week, the pictures of Jon and Chelsey and their new place (even though I miss them), texting with Chloe’ and Chris, FINALLY texting with Carrie (I didn’t really give her a choice, I bombarded her with GIFs until she texted me back), other people’s kids and dogs, reading and writing in the morning with a few mugs of hot drinks, libraries and librarians, poets and poetry, comedy and comedians, the riot of bird song in the morning, making each other laugh, slow and steady, naps, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep. 

Something Good

1. Poetry: Bright Bindings by Countee Cullen and Dissonance by Wana Udobang shared on Poet.org’s “poem-a-day,” Everywhere and Acceptance and Every fortress I have ever built and Today’s Headline and The Spreading and New Soundtrack by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, Pause and Sonic and Stone and Some Days by Julie Barton, The Presence of Everything by James Crews, Family Album by William Trowbridge and After a Winter of Grieving by Sam Hamill and January Report from the Food Pantry Coordinator by Jeff Sypeck and What Is My Life About? by Julie Price Pinkerton on The Daily Rattle, Liminal by Maya Stein, and Katherine with the Lazy Eye. Short. And Not a Good Poet by francine j. harris and Historical Site by Tommye Blount on the Slowdown.

2. The Sound of the Genuine, “from Howard Thurman’s 1980 commencement address at Spelman College.”

3. This Will Change How You See Your Life (The Beauty of the Ordinary) on Reflections of Life. (video) “Even in life’s most challenging moments, beauty quietly waits to offer us comfort. In times of pain or loss, noticing the small things around us — the warmth of sunlight, the comfort of a friend — can remind us of life’s gentle grace. These seemingly ordinary experiences, so easily overlooked, become subtle guides back toward hope and healing…Resilience doesn’t mean ignoring hardship; it means facing it with courage, allowing ourselves time to process and grow. Gratitude can be a lifeline, a way to hold onto the blessings that remain, no matter how difficult things may seem. Though the journey may be marked by grief, embracing the beauty in each day can help us move forward. In this way, the smallest moments of light can offer strength when darkness surrounds us.”

4. Lunch with a Jumping Spider by Betsy Mason.

5. Good stuff from Jamie Attenberg on Craft Talk: How to Stay Creative (“Even when the world sucks”), and How to Get Your Engine Going (“Getting back into the work after some time away”), and Why Not Now? (“The question I’m always asking myself”).

6. Who Wins The Race? “The enchantment, complexity and challenge of storytelling” by Josie George on bimblings.

7. editing is a form of love, “and other lessons from writing” on Poetry Unbound.

8. On Quitting, and What Remains. “The afterlife of a former self, revisited” on The Isolation Journals with Suleika Jaouad.

9. Good stuff on The Beautiful Mess by John Pavlovitz: America’s Boys Deserve Better Than MAGA Masculinity and MAGAs Hate Bad Bunny Because He Reminds Them That They’re Losing.

10. Joyful artwork from around the world! “Images to brighten your day (and the world)” from Brad Montague on The Enthusiast.

11. The treatment failed but I got what I needed. “Ketamine didn’t cure my pain, but it let me relive a perfect October afternoon with my dead husband” by Elizabeth Kleinfeld.

12. Not Talking by Gail Folkins on Short Reads. “Weighing silence.”

13. We will be talking about the bravery and love of Minnesotans for decades. “But the good people of that state still need your help right now” by Garrett Bucks on The White Pages.

14. Terms and conditions of being alive. “You agreed to be human, that was always enough” by Jasmine on The Tiny Joy Project. I didn’t put this with the Poetry item at the beginning of this list, but I could have.

15. Identity is not a fixed sentence but a living draft by Patti Digh. “Aging does not require erasure, dignity can coexist with absurdity, and reinvention is not only possible but necessary.”

16. Compassion as Protection: Practicing with Those Who Cause Harm, Kaira Jewel’s February 2026 Newsletter. “In the Plum Village tradition, we are taught that compassion is the best protection. This teaching does not ask us to be passive, naïve, or self-sacrificing. It asks us to be wise, embodied, and rooted in reality.”

17. Feel it all by Amy Marie Turner.

18. Home by Marji Macy on Writing at Red Lights. “Can we welcome those who are unalike us into our home?”

19. Tip for tap by Seth Godin.

20. The Surprising History of Tarot Cards.

21. The troubling rise of longevity fixation syndrome: ‘I was crushed by the pressure I put on myself’ on The Guardian. “This unofficial diagnosis describes the anxiety-driven, compulsive obsession with living as long as possible. While it might seem healthy to monitor your diet, exercise and biomarkers, it can come at a huge emotional cost.”

22. Given the toxicity of social media, a moral question now faces all of us: is it still ethical to use it? on The Guardian.

23. I grew up with Alex Pretti. “The kind-hearted ICU nurse shot by federal agents was my childhood best friend.” In related news, The Woman Alex Pretti Was Killed Trying to Defend Is an EMT. Federal Agents Stopped Her From Giving First Aid.

24. 6 Mindset Shifts That Have Changed My Life for the Better.

25. How to nurture deeper friendships without going out or spending a dime.

26. Sarah McLachlan: Tiny Desk Concert. (video) “During a Sarah McLachlan performance, the chills come when you least expect them. One of the most expressive singer-songwriters of her generation, McLachlan makes the goosebumps happen with her gloriously gentle, iridescent voice — particularly through her negotiation of the break between its registers. She does just that in the first song of this Tiny Desk, an almost country-fied version of her 1997 hit ‘Building a Mystery.’ With Luke Doucet’s impossibly delicate guitar arpeggios as her guide, McLachlan takes the song beyond its edge at the very last minute, gliding into a high note that remains unresolved. It’s one of several moments here that feel miraculous.

McLachlan has long been a purveyor of such small graces. Despite her renown as founder of the Lilith Fair tour, she has been underestimated as a major player in the reinvention of pop balladry, when she updated a folk-based sound with modern-rock flourishes and a fresh, feminist perspective. Here, playing alongside her longtime collaborators Doucet and Melissa McClelland — a husband-wife duo who’ve made many beautiful albums under the name Whitehorse — she highlights the side of her art that’s grounded in deep feeling and unassuming virtuosity. At one point, she apologizes to those watching because her back is to them while she’s at the piano. But from whatever angle experienced, this is one of the Tiny Desk’s warmest and most poignant sets.”

27. And this new comic from The Awkward Yeti.