Something Good

1. Poetry: Produce, Bear, Surrender by Chloé Leisure (she also happens to be one of my dearest friends), For When It’s Hard and For Every Secret Agent of Change and On Your Twenty-Second Birthday and Even If I’d Rather Not Know It and One Before the Big Adventure and Letter to Others in the Dark by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, The Plum You’re Going to Eat Next Summer by Gayle Brandeis and For You Who Have Loved Old Dogs by Silas House and If Night You Were a City by Adam Wiedewitsch and Parts of a Body House by Erika Meitner on The Slowdown with Maggie Smith, My Mother Told Us Not to Have Children by Rebecca Gayle Howell and Sitting on a Bench, I Doze Off Piecing Together the Day by Lance Larsen and Tabula Rasa by Matthew Wimberly and Memorial by Janna Schledorn and Almost a Friend by Esat Alpay on Rattle, Folded by Luis Muñoz and Noon by Eugenio Montale and Silence Comes from Somewhere Else by Nikola Madzirov and Love Lies Bleeding by Christina Rossetti on poets.org, Goodtime Jesus by James Tate shared by Patti Digh (that last line is so perfect), The Mighty Sage by Julia Fehrenbacher, The Pool by Jena Schwartz, Allowed To Be Ordinary and A Friend’s Voice by James Crews, Peach by Dorianne Laux shared on Heart Poems, Leave It by Maya Stein, The Most Beautiful Thing by Andrea Scher, How to Change Your Life by Maria Popova, and I Am Not All That Has Happened and Beloved by Julia Barton.

In related news, One thing can say many things from Pádraig Ó Tuama, and Watch Movies Like a Poet (“my guide to gathering poetic images and atmosphere from film”) from Alix on Earth & Verse, and Wendell Berry’s Life on Earth by Katie Myers.

2. Pendulation by Josie George on What is Here? “What are you doing to keep going right now?”

3. I Couldn’t Save My Ex. Can I Save the Planet? “Discerning what work is ours to do in times of climate breakdown” by Satya Robyn.

4. Good stuff on The Beautiful Mess by John Pavlovitz: Things I Learned Since My Father Died and Christians Could Stop Trump’s Violent, Hateful Chaos At The Polls—And All They’d Need Is Jesus.

5. An Existential Guide to Death on The Shadowed Archive.

6. This morning, “a simple check in” from Erin Geesaman Rabke.

7. More questions than answers, “AKA. The way it should be” from Jeanette Winterson.

8. Good Stuff on The Marginalian: The True Purpose of Tarot and How to Break Free from the Tyranny of Certainty: The Japanese Concept of “Ma.”

9. Letter From Scotland, “Some thoughts on going deeper, and writers’ residencies, from a glen near Edinburgh” by Alexander Chee.

10. Recommitting to Creative Play, “with the help of my kindergarten self” by Anne Butera on In an Artist’s Garden and Studio.

11. Mossy catwalks, mycelial designs and Monty Don: the growth of gardener style on The Guardian, “Aspirational clobber, hot horticulturists and a TikTok content rise suggest gardening has never been cooler.” In related news, ‘The End Of An Era’: Frances Tophill, Rachel de Thame and Others React To Monty Don’s Gardeners’ World Departure.

12. How to host Lightning Talks. “The magic of a mini TED in your living room” by Gillian Morris on Supernuclear.

13. Pitter patter and some notes from the swirl by Lisa Olivera on Human Stuff.

14. Just a little loose. “Some things are still here because somebody bothered to fix them” by Jasmine on The Tiny Joy Project.

15. Solace by Seth Godin.

16. You need a reason to draw. “I’ll give you a bunch” by Danny Gregory.

17. The Telling. “Where we were when the world changed [on 9/11]” by Elissa Altman on Poor Man’s Feast.

18. Jokapäiväinen, “Finnish (YOKKA-pai-vai-nen): noun; Everyday, quotidian, diurnal, mundane” by Ella Frances Sanders on Orion Magazine.

19. So Many Tender Things by Laurie Wagner.

20. No One Owns 9/11 Mourning by Frederick Joseph. “Twenty-five years after September 11, the struggle over who belongs at its memorial reveals how much of its human cost we still refuse to recognize.”

21. ‘I’m sick of her talking about it’: 11 readers share how GLP-1s have affected their relationships on The Guardian. “As weight loss drugs have risen all around the world, it has reshaped users’ relationships for better and for worse.”

22. I’ve been squandering my attention. Maybe you too? by Andrea Scher.

23. CARING IS EMBARRASSING (so embarrass yourself), “the mighty wisdom of being cringe” by Brad Montague on The Enthusiast.

24. I bet there’s a story there. “The absolute miracle of junk drawers” on The White Pages.

25. A landscape of Symbols, “Creating from dreams, meditation, intuition” by Alix on Earth & Verse.

26. Tenderheart by Joanna Byrd on Short Reads. “Feeling sorry for a snake.”

27. Sara Bareilles Confronted Grief, and Found Herself on The New York Times. (gift link)

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. Saturday morning I had planned on sleeping in, skipping the walk, taking the morning slow and getting some laundry done. Instead, Eric woke me up (or rather Ringo did when Eric opened the bedroom door and he got up on the bed and booped me awake) at 6:30 to ask if I wanted to go with them, that they hadn’t left yet. Even though my half-awake mind was grumbling about it, listing all the reasons I should stay behind while they went without me, I got up and got ready to go, because the thing I know (and this is true of both morning walks and yoga) is that I will never regret going but I might regret not going. And once again I was right.

2. Peaches and watermelon. I know I said last week was probably the last of them, but I managed to squeak out a few more.

3. Practice. Yoga at Red Sage and the gym, writing with my Friday morning sangha, meditating, writing in my journal in the morning, reading poetry, pulling a few tarot cards.

4. The colors of fall. The past three days and have really felt and looked like fall, and I am so happy! It’s my favorite season in Colorado.

5. Comfort food. Sometimes “eating healthy” means taking care of yourself in a different way, and eating nourishing food doesn’t always mean only vegetables. And usually if I want something baked, like a cake, I’m better off making it myself rather than trying to buy it somewhere.

6. My tiny family, small house, little life. Eric has been sick but is thankfully feeling better. He got me my very own murder of tiny brass crows, hid them around my computer to surprise me. I came out after reading, writing, and having my morning drinks, and he asked if I’d noticed anything, but I had no idea what he was talking about, didn’t understand, hadn’t seen them yet because I was sitting at my other desk. It wasn’t until later that afternoon that I sat down and reached for my keyboard and saw two tiny crows sitting on my spacebar and looked to my left and saw more scattered on the desk, a few perched on the modem, and more lining the shelf in the corner. I called out to tell him now I understood what he was talking about, but he didn’t hear me because he was fast asleep on the couch, where he’d been spending a lot of his time. Ringo got acupuncture this week with Bronwen, who even though she pokes him with needles still manages to be one of his favorite people. He’s doing really well for almost 13 years old, was making us laugh last night chasing his tail after dinner, trying to get someone to play fight with him.

Bonus joy: texting with Chloe’ and Chris, good books, listening to podcasts, other people’s dogs, chrysanthemums, cooler weather, down blankets and pillows, comedy, poetry, short videos, pasta, a big glass of cold clean water, my new laptop, watching Death in Paradise with Eric, listening to music, cream cheese buttercream frosting, a couch comfortable enough to spend the night on, battery operated candles, garbage collection service, a washer and dryer in my house, bluetooth speakers, gummy supplements, that Ringo is easy to give pills and other supplements to (because he gets a lot of them), our futon and the wool topper, wool slippers, being able to help, pictures of the little humans in my family, the doodle notes Chris makes, inviting my father-in-law to come stay with us for Christmas (not sure yet if he will), horses, owls, indoor plumbing, sitting out in the yard with Eric and Ringo, stickers, new Birkenstocks, lip balm, lotion, an electric toothbrush, canceled plans, getting things delivered, prescription glasses, mint and ginger drops, naps, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.