Gratitude Friday

1. SNOW! So much snow! 23 inches. Eric was out shoveling throughout the day the storm got here, probably close to six hours of shoveling heavy, wet snow that one friend called “cement.” It’s always sad to see all the limbs and whole trees that come down, the crocuses that just bloomed buried, but we truly do need the moisture and being “stuck” at home with nowhere we need to go, even after a full year of the pandemic, is still a lovely retreat.

2. Comfort. While Eric shoveled snow, I made a breakfast biscuit bake, Ringo approved. Eric has been home this week not working (spring break) and it’s been nice to have him around, again when there’s nowhere we need to go. Some people lost power during the storm, but ours only blinked a few times. Warm showers, clean sheets, toast, that corner of the couch, clean pjs, down blankets and pillows, podcasts, good TV (watched The One on Netflix, so good), reading, long naps.

3. Vaccine Phase 1B.4 in Colorado. To be more specific, that means we can get ours now. I’ve been refreshing my healthcare app all morning, waiting for them to catch up so I can make an appointment. I’m getting a mammogram today so I don’t have to put that off because of my shots, (turns out the immune response it causes in your lymph nodes can throw off the results, so if you’ve had the shot, you have to wait 4-6 weeks until you can get a mammogram).

4. BABIES! We’d already had a couple new ones join the family this past year, but two others just got here, a earlier than expected.

5. My tiny home, my tiny family, my little life. Ringo was pretty reserved about it the day of the storm, but in the days since, when it’s warm enough for us to go out in the backyard with him, he’s been loving all piles of snow and the attention and the play. It’s been lovely having lazy days, afternoons in particular, with Eric home this week. Sure, it would be nice if we could go see a movie or go out to eat, but that will happen again someday and for now, two introverts in love don’t mind this version of things.

Bonus joy: clementines, grocery pickup, stimulus checks, my writing sangha, hanging out and writing with Mikalina, snow tires, snow plows, sunshine, texting with my mom and my brother, naan, seeing patches of green under the snow, birds singing and at the feeder (sometimes simultaneously), a new notebook, so many good books and the time to read them, being retired, sitting in the sauna with Eric, getting all the laundry done and put away, masks, other people’s dogs, reading in bed at night while Ringo and Eric sleep.

Something Good

Image by Eric

1. How to Practice by Ann Patchett. “I wanted to get rid of my possessions, because possessions stood between me and death.”

2. The 5 greatest regrets of the dying and how to avoid them.

3. 6 Ways to Calm Your Overthinking Introvert Mind. I’d add the subtitle, “Not Just for Introverts.”

4. 5 Things I Experience as a Highly Sensitive Introvert That I Didn’t Know Weren’t ‘Normal’. In related news, What It’s Really Like Being a Highly Sensitive Introvert.

5. A Dazzling Series of Photos Captures the Soft Glow of Firefly Mating Season in Japan. I’ve never seen a firefly in real life, and I’m not sure I ever will.

6. 75 Artists On How They Spent a Year in Coronavirus Lockdown on The New York Times.

7. Good stuff from Austin Kleon: My diary of a plague year (week one), and A quote a day, and They bring me tokens of myself.

8. A Story Of Youth, Hope And Loss — And The Mystery Of COVID-19.

9. Who are we now, after a year of this? In related news, March 11, 2020: The Day Everything Changed and Nostalgia, One Year In on The New York Times.

10. ‘I am not who I was’: Michael Rosen on surviving Covid. “In this exclusive extract from his new book Many Different Kinds of Love, the author writes about his urgent diagnosis, days in hospital and returning home.”

11. To Write, Stop Thinking. “The writer Kathryn Harrison believes that words flow best when the opaque, unknowable aspects of the mind take over.”

12. Here’s the best writing advice from Colson Whitehead’s 60 Minutes interview.

13. Recipe I want to try: Focaccia Pepperoni Pizza (this seriously looks SO yummy!).

14. Complete Sleep Walking Compilation from Celina Spooky Boo. (video). One of my most favorite pandemic finds. These videos make me laugh no matter how many times I watch them, (which is A LOT).

15. Gwyneth Paltrow’s Intuitive Fasting Obsession is Dangerous.

16. How to Apologize, a poem from Ellen Bass.

17. My HSP Struggle With Depression — and the Road to Healing.

18. 15 Things Anyone Who Loves A Woman With Anxiety Should Know.

19. We Cannot Transcend Mental Illness In The Context of American Capitalism.

20. Lightweight ‘Traveler’ Camper Has Retro Exterior, Adaptive Interior. It’s clearly been a long year because I totally want this camper.