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Gratitude Friday

This post is a mashup of The Little Bliss List and Joy Jam, and as such is meant to celebrate: the little things that brought me hope and happiness this week, the sweet stuff of life, those small gifts that brought me joy this week. By sharing them, I not only make public my gratitude, but maybe also help you notice your own good stuff and send some positive energy out into the world.

1. A new washing machine. Something weird about me that you might not know: I love doing laundry. It’s comfort, therapy, so peaceful and simple, the warmth and the clean smell and the hum and spin, beeps and clicks of the machines, the “setting things right” and renewing of order that happens taking the clothes from dirty to clean, wet to dry. It was unsettling for me when our old machine broke and it took a week for the new one to arrive and be installed, (and believe me, I get that this is a first world problem, and as such, I’m grateful to be lucky enough to have such “problems”).

2. Clean sheets, (see list item #1).

3. Dalai Lama chant, gifted to me by the kind and generous Sherry Richert Belul, at the request of my equally awesome reader and friend Tina. It’s a little over an hour long, and I have been listening to it constantly. It has been such a comfort, helping me to feel centered amidst a swirl of uncertainty.

4. The Open Heart Project and Susan Piver, as well as all the practitioners committed to meditation. When I am struggling with my practice, when I’ve dropped it altogether, I know that when I come back, this resource, this support will be there waiting for me. And I know that even when I am not practicing, they are, and many of them are dedicating the merit of that activity, their kindness rippling out to meet me where I’m at.

5. Cultivating Courage ecourse with Andrea Scher. This class and the beautiful humans in it, all of us working so hard to be brave and Andrea making the space for us, has been an inspiration.

Bonus Joy: Another week with Dexter.

Gratitude Friday

This post is a mashup of The Little Bliss List and Joy Jam, and as such is meant to celebrate: the little things that brought me hope and happiness this week, the sweet stuff of life, those small gifts that brought me joy this week. By sharing them, I not only make public my gratitude, but maybe also help you notice your own good stuff and send some positive energy out into the world.

1. The love and support of amazing women. Susan, Andrea, Hannah, Sherry, Julia, and Tina (and so many others who didn’t even realize they were) offered me so much kindness and comfort this week, (it was a rough one).

2. The last tomato of the season. We woke up this morning with a dusting of snow on our cars. The day before, I got home at 5pm and it was 78 degrees, and by 8pm it had dropped to 42. This means no more tomatoes, but last night before the full freeze I picked the last ones and fed them to Dexter, and the very last one was perfectly ripe and deep red. With his nose starting to bleed again (yes, the cancer is doing its thing), this will be his last tomato season, and that may have been the last one I ever pick and give him. And after I did, he pressed his nose into the palm of my hand and gave me a kiss.

3. The tree outside my office window. It’s amazing. And oh yeah, I’m on the third floor, so it’s big too.

4. Good news at the end of a long and stressful morning of tests. That’s really all I want to say about that right now, just know I cried with relief, and feel so much compassion for the other women who were there with me who didn’t get such good news.

5. Sitting on a patio on campus on the last warm day. At one point, a gust of wind blew golden leaves my direction, the sight and sound of which made me almost cry, it was so beautiful.

Bonus joy: The nap I am about to go take–so needed.