Monthly Archives: December 2022

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. The quiet, the space, the animals, and the rising sun. I still haven’t gone out for one since I got home from the hospital and I’m missing it. It has been COLD (as it has been everywhere, apparently), down to -17 degrees one day.

2. A white Christmas. Especially here, where it can be so sunny and nice even in winter, I was so happy to get some snow this week and that it will mostly stick around through Christmas.

3. Christmas music and movies. It’s such a limited amount of time that they are enjoyable. Too soon or too late and they just don’t make sense, but at the right time, they are the best.

4. A more diverse diet. Because of my hospital stay and currently sensitive GI tract, I’ve had to be careful, but as I feel better, I get to add things in. Who knew I’d ever be so happy to eat a carrot or an orange? I also made gingerbread muffins today and the one I ate tasted so good I almost wanted to cry.

5. My tiny family, tiny home, tiny life. Eric has been taking such good care of me and Ringo is exhausted but also so happy to have us both home.

Bonus joy: naps, watching The Great British Baking Show with Eric, sitting in the dark in the morning with the Christmas tree lights on, not needing the pain meds, Ringo back to running with Eric without hurting, racoons and otters, birds at the feeder, baby elephants, books, cooking with Eric, slowing down, talking to Mikalina about the cool project she’s starting, texting with Mom and Chris, a warm shower, a big glass of water, clean sheets, down blankets and pillows, how warm our house stays even when it’s so cold out, electricity, internet and wifi, all the rescue dogs who got homes for Christmas, Christmas cards, the hydromassage chair, the pool, the sauna, writing in the morning with a cup of hot mint tea, meditating, headphones, medication, citrus, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.

Something Good

1. 50 ways to be ridiculously generous — and feel ridiculously good from Alexandra Franzen.

2. Wisdom from Andrea Gibson“When your heart is broken, plant seeds in the cracks, and pray for rain.”

3. 24 Powerful Ways To Finish The Year Off Right.

4. And then what? from Austin Kleon.

5. Best of 2022a collection of lists on The New York Times.

6. The Bird Site is FuckedChuck Wendig from Terrible Minds on the current state of Twitter. In related news, Twitter Users Say Elon Musk Should Quit as C.E.O. on The New York Times. “After weeks of turmoil since he bought the company, Mr. Musk surveyed Twitter about whether he should remain in charge, and said he would abide by the result.” 

7. Mike Birbiglia’s 6 Tips for Making It Small in Hollywood. Or Anywhereon The New York Times. This piece is six years old, but I was reminded of it listening to Mike’s podcast Working It Out. For anyone who wants to be creative and authentic and funny and might be a little bit awkward, he gives the best advice.

8. The Kindred Adaptation Reclaims Octavia Butler’s “Grim Fantasy” for a New EraIn related news, ‘Kindred’ Review: Octavia Butler Comes to the Screen on The New York Times.

9. In case you missed it: You can order free COVID tests again by mail.

10. How Is Everyone Making Those A.I. Selfies? on The New York Times. “Images generated with Lensa AI are all over social media, but at what cost?”

11. How did Colorado community colleges double their graduation rate? By better meeting student needs.

12. My Biggest, Fattest Year Ever: Things I Did While Fat from Ijeoma Oluo.

13. Mary Oliver’s Drunk Cousin on Instagram. One of my favorite poems from this account is I’ll Hold it for You.

14. Poems from HannahRoWrites on Instagram: December, Same, and How to be lucky and sad.

15. Instagram Reel of a Peony opening.

16. Recipes I want to try (found on Instagram, all reels): Smashed Sweet Potatoes, and Gingerbread Cake, and Spicy Chili Garlic Peanut Noodles, and Creamy Tomato Basil Soup.

17. Cecily Strong says farewell to Saturday Night LiveI’m happy for these funny women when they have other opportunities and I can’t even imagine one year of the grind that is producing SNL, let alone eleven, and yet I’m still sad to see them go.

18. Gift wrapping ideas: Furoshiki (“Yoko Nakazawa grew up wrapping her bento boxes with her mother using furoshiki, which is a traditional Japanese patterned cloth used to wrap items,” video) and this video.

19. Surreal Narratives Energize Karlotta Freier’s Vibrant Dreamlike Illustrations.

20. An Introvert’s Guide to Simplifying Your Life.

21. 24 Cartoons That Will Deeply Resonate With Introverts.