Wishcasting Wednesday

from Jamie's post

from Jamie’s post

Today, and for the last time, Jamie asks, “What do you wish for?” It’s taken me all morning to be able to show up here, attempt an answer. I’m sad, for all kinds of reasons, and this is another — Jamie is no longer going to host Wishcasting Wednesday on her site. She’ll offer the practice in other ways, but this version of it is ending. I didn’t expect that, not today, and even though change is inevitable and sometimes even for the best, I’m feeling tender about it.

This season is always rough. There’s not as much light, the days are shorter and colder, the sky is gray and dark more often, everything in nature going to sleep, there are no more flowers or fruits, green has turned to gray and brown. I don’t travel to visit with family (we go in the summer), so my tiny little family is alone for the holidays. I am reminded of everything, everyone we’ve lost, we miss. In the rush to prepare for various celebrations, crowds of people gather but in their hurry they can be so rude, so mean to each other, so unkind. I understand that feeling of overwhelm, of irritation. I’m feeling it myself. There’s so much left to do before tomorrow, before next week, before next month, and sometimes I just want to slow down, to stop, to hibernate, to rest, to forget. It’s a season of letting go and it’s hard.

Don’t get me wrong, I love twinkle lights and pie and warm sweaters and hot apple cider and Christmas music and snow as much as anyone, but there’s also something really sad and lonely about this time of year when it feels like everything is changing or so far away, over or gone.

I’ve wished with Jamie 68 times, and I’ve wished with other people who were also practicing. I am so grateful to Jamie for continuing to guide us, provide prompts and a place to share, for as long as she did. I wish along with her for open space where new ventures can grow and new adventures can begin.

Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what’s going to happen next. ~Gilda Radner

I wish to remember that as Ram Dass said, “we are all just walking each other home.”

I wish for us all to remember that we are fundamentally whole, basically good, inherently wise and compassionate, and wish that we can forgive ourselves and others when the way we act is not in accordance with that truth.

I wish for us to know that every being just wants to be happy and safe, loved, but that we get confused sometimes about how to make that happen.

I wish that we all begin to ask “where do I see suffering?” and do what we can to ease it, in ourselves and in the world.

I wish that we keep our hearts open, to joy and love and suffering, that we meet what arises in the moment, allow it to touch us, and when the time comes, let it go.

9 thoughts on “Wishcasting Wednesday

  1. justine

    Sending you hugs. When I heard that Wishcasting was going to be an e-course now on the podcast update, I thought of you and your weekly posts! Don’t you think you can continue it anyways? Maybe writing all 68 prompts down and pulling them out of a hat at random and continuing the tradition for yourself? Just a suggestion. I know there’s a logical work-around… that it’s the change and the feeling of loss that is the actual pain. That’s what the hugs are for. And holy heck, that Ram Dass quote? ::love:: Happy Thanksgiving

  2. krissie

    I didnt wish with jamie every week or much at all, but I did like reading the links of blogs that did, and coming here to see what you posted! I felt sad about it ending also, and like you feel that this time of the year gives me a strange feeling, a mixture of sadness, change and insecurity, mixed in with the usual holiday feelings too!
    so as you wish for yourself, so I wish for you too Jill!

  3. Diana BunnyKissd Bukowski

    Even on the weeks when I didn’t participate, I still stopped by to see what everyone was wishing for, and I will miss it. This time of year can be very emotional. I hope you find some joy and as you wish for yourself, Jill, so do I wish as well.

    1. jillsalahub Post author

      Something about your comment reminded me of another quote, one from Mother Teresa, “If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.”


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