Daily Archives: November 6, 2012

Three Truths and One Wish

1. Truth: This presidential election will bring change, no matter who gets elected. The only thing we can ever count on is change, it’s the nature of life. In this specific case, the cultural climate could change, so might the economy and so many other “big” things. Things might get better, they might get worse, but we know there will be some shift.

2. Truth: Whatever is different because of the outcome of this election, it won’t change my core values, and it most likely won’t have a significant impact on the way I live my daily life. My dogs will still need walked, I will still be a writer, a committed practitioner of yoga and meditation, I will still love Eric, I will still do my work, I will still be a woman, a human, and I will still try to keep my heart open.

3. Truth: No matter who is President elect when this is all over, no matter what else changes, I will continue to work towards cultivating compassion and courage, being less confused and more mindful, doing what I can to ease suffering where I find it, and inspiring others to do the same.

One Wish: That we shift from a culture of competition to one of compassion, that we let go of thinking in terms of “us” and “them” and instead develop a deep understanding that we are in this together, we share a common human experience, and that we know that even more important than our vote is our choice to be kind, to love, to keep our hearts open and do what we can to ease suffering in ourselves and in the world.

NaBloPoMo Prompt: Election Day

The NaBloPoMo prompt for today is “If you were President of the United States, what would be your first act in office?” At first I wasn’t going to write about it, because I couldn’t even imagine it. Mostly because I don’t understand why anyone would want to be in politics or government, let alone President. It seems to me like the sort of thing you’d be interested in because you imagine it would put you in a position with the power to change things, but that the reality of it would be something else entirely–kind of like how I got into education because I imagined I could make people’s lives better, but instead I’ve encountered a system every bit as confused and resistant to change as anywhere else.

Then I thought a little more, and realized my answer. If I were President of the United States, my first act would be to pledge that my term in office would be guided by the principle of compassion. In order for people to clearly understand what that meant, I could present the Charter for Compassion, and make it clear that this would be the primary focus of the next four years, every decision that needed to be made, every interaction, and that I would expect everyone else to abide by the same ethic. I would insist that as a culture we make a shift from competition to compassion. Then I’d ask for a moment of silence, invite people to use it to pray or meditate or contemplate compassion or simply be quiet and still, and then we’d break for cookies.

This is why, kind and gentle reader, I will never be President.

The Charter for Compassion

The principle of compassion lies at the heart of all religious, ethical and spiritual traditions, calling us always to treat all others as we wish to be treated ourselves. Compassion impels us to work tirelessly to alleviate the suffering of our fellow creatures, to dethrone ourselves from the centre of our world and put another there, and to honour the inviolable sanctity of every single human being, treating everybody, without exception, with absolute justice, equity and respect.

It is also necessary in both public and private life to refrain consistently and empathically from inflicting pain. To act or speak violently out of spite, chauvinism, or self-interest, to impoverish, exploit or deny basic rights to anybody, and to incite hatred by denigrating others—even our enemies—is a denial of our common humanity. We acknowledge that we have failed to live compassionately and that some have even increased the sum of human misery in the name of religion.

We therefore call upon all men and women ~ to restore compassion to the centre of morality and religion ~ to return to the ancient principle that any interpretation of scripture that breeds violence, hatred or disdain is illegitimate ~ to ensure that youth are given accurate and respectful information about other traditions, religions and cultures ~ to encourage a positive appreciation of cultural and religious diversity ~ to cultivate an informed empathy with the suffering of all human beings—even those regarded as enemies.

We urgently need to make compassion a clear, luminous and dynamic force in our polarized world. Rooted in a principled determination to transcend selfishness, compassion can break down political, dogmatic, ideological and religious boundaries. Born of our deep interdependence, compassion is essential to human relationships and to a fulfilled humanity. It is the path to enlightenment, and indispensable to the creation of a just economy and a peaceful global community.