Daily Archives: April 24, 2012

Three Truths and One Wish

1. Truth: You can’t do everything. Knowing this, there are decisions to be made. At first, this was easy for me. I had accumulated a lot of unnecessary clutter, and a few too many toxic people. In those first innocent days of simplifying, it was really clear what to stop doing, what to get rid of, who to avoid. Getting rid of all the should, have to, obligation, pleasing and performing, striving to be perfect, being bullied, and negative energy was easy once I got started. It was clear when saying “no” was really saying “yes” to something else, something more important and meaningful. Like Austin Kleon suggests in Steal Like an Artist:

Steal Like An Artist - “Be boring”

image by austin kleon

It got harder when I had to start choosing between two things I wanted and loved, when I only had the time, space, and energy for one of them. That’s NOT so easy. Everything left after the first round of elimination is all desirable and loveable, worthy of my time and attention, but I can’t do everything.

2. There is enough time, and time is short. This seems like a brain teaser, and yet the truth of it is so clear. We all know exactly what it means. We don’t need to push, we can relax, but impermanence is real. This video is a perfect illustration of this truth.

Lotte Time Lapse: Birth to 12 years in 2 min. 45. from Frans Hofmeester on Vimeo.

3. Rest and relaxation are key, to balance out all the working and effort. I need to fully learn this, embody it. I need to learn to rest, to slow down, maintain balance. I am headed for a collapse if I don’t, and soon. I need to learn to use my brakes, stop and refuel. I need to pace myself, check myself before I wreck myself.

One wish: That we can all get boring and find the time, space, and energy for what we love most, and let go of what’s no longer working, and RELAX into what is, where we are, as we are, and never forget that gentleness is our superpower.

U is for Un-

un- : indicates not or contrary to, deprivation

I used to be: unable, unanswerable, unapproachable, unassisted, unaware, unbalanced, unbearable, uncertain, uncivil, unclean, unclear, uncomfortable, uncommitted, unconscious, undecided, uneasy, unformed, ungrateful, unhealthy, unhappy, unheard, uninspired, unloved, unmindful, unproductive, unsettled, unsound, and unworthy.

un- : reversal of an action, release or removal from intensified action

Now I am, I aspire to be: unabashed, unabated, unadorned, unadulterated, unaffected, unarmed, unassailable, unassuming, unattached, unbelievable, unbound, unbeaten, unbridled, unbroken, uncoiled, uncommon, uncompromising, unconventional, uncovered, undaunted, undeniable, undone, unhinged, unerring, unexpected, unfailing, unflappable, unflinching, unfolded, unforgettable, unfurled, unglued, unguarded, unleashed, unmasked, unmistakeable, unmoored, unraveled (or better yet, unravelling), unreal, unrelenting, unrestrained, unstoppable, untangled, unwrapped, unwound.