Gratitude

1. Morning walks. This week we even got out early enough one morning to catch the sun rise on the trail by the river. And instead of a wild turkey high up in a tree, there was a cormorant. There were also heron fishing and lots of deer, and of course geese and a few kinds of ducks, along with other kinds of birds and lots of things budding and blooming. Ringo also saw (smelled?) something at the base of a giant tree that got him very riled up but it was too dark for me to see what it was, and I wasn’t sticking around to find out.

2. Mulnix Animal Clinicand in particular Dr. Gaffney. We’ve been taking our dogs to this clinic for the past 20+ years. We miss Dr. Mulnix so much (he passed the year he decided to retire, didn’t even make it to the celebration that was planned that summer, so we never really got to say an official thank you or goodbye) but Dr. Thomas stayed on, took over, and has grown the clinic to include all female veterinarians and an updated facility. Dr. Thomas was Sam’s vet after Dr. Mulnix stopped working and had also seen Obi and Dexter from time to time. Dr. Gaffney joined the practice just after we got Ringo and has three cattle dogs of her own, so we knew she was the perfect fit for him. And we were right. She loves him so much, and it means so much to me to know that she is doing her extra best to care for him. Ringo went in for his annual exam yesterday and he’s doing really well, and when/if he isn’t, I know they are there to help.

3. Spring. It’s finally happening. It’s a few weeks late this year because of the weather but this week our maple tree is getting leaves and my peonies are coming up and I can see tiny flower buds on the lilac bushes. It’s still a few weeks out before we can plant anything new and there’s still some question about the grasshopper population or the availability of Nolobait this season so I’m not making any definite plans but am looking forward to whatever we are able to pull off this year.

4. Reading. I have been spending WAY less time on social media and one thing that allows me to do is read more. Besides laughing and flowers and trees and dogs, books have always been one of my most favorite, beloved things.

5. My tiny family, tiny home, tiny life. I am so looking forward to this summer, hanging out more with Eric, working on the house and garden, sitting in the backyard, taking naps, cooking together, sitting on the couch doing nothing, making each other laugh. This week in my Facebook memories, the picture of Ringo standing on the end table came up — he was so feral, so wild when he was younger, not that he’s changed that much! 🙂

Bonus joy: bran muffins, peanut butter balls, raspberries, good TV and movies, listening to podcasts, my primary care doctor, getting all the yearly appointments and checks out of the way, dark chocolate covered walnuts (sorry Eric, I found your secret stash), giving a gift that makes someone cry and hug you, bright yellow chrysanthemums, the hydromassage chair, the pool, sitting in the sauna with Eric, going to bed early, down pillows and blankets, a warm shower, a big glass of cold clean water, clean sheets, stickers, kitchen counter love notes, a big mug of green tea, sitting in the yard with Eric and Ringo, how soft new grass is (Ringo says it tastes good too), sunshine, shade, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.

Something Good

Image by Eric

1. The Roots of Things from Jami Attenberg. In related news, For this poet, working on her garden is exploring history, race and sustainability, (“Poet Camille Dungy made her lawn into an eco-friendly pollinator’s paradise of native plants. Her memoir links diversifying the landscape and diversifying the voices who write about the natural world”), and Blooming How She Must: A Profile of Camille T. Dungy, and Soil Book Review, (“In her radical and vibrant memoir, Camille Dungy plants poems next to critical analysis next to environmental history next to African American history”).

2. The PEN Ten, PEN America’s weekly interview series. 10 questions asked of one writer a week. “PEN America stands at the intersection of literature and human rights to protect free expression in the United States and worldwide. We champion the freedom to write, recognizing the power of the word to transform the world. Our mission is to unite writers and their allies to celebrate creative expression and defend the liberties that make it possible.”

3. Let Your Heart Be Broken“We spend our lives trying to anchor our transience in some illusion of permanence and stability. We lay plans, we make vows, we backbone the flow of uncertainty with habits and routines that lull us with the comforting dream of predictability and control, only to find ourselves again and again bent at the knees with surrender to forces and events vastly larger than us. In those moments, kneeling in a pool of the unknown, the heart breaks open and allows life — life itself, not the simulacrum of life that comes from control — to rush in.”

4. What Thieves Are Not Interested In from Robert Jones, Jr.

5. Why the Bud Light boycott represents a new phase in anti-brand protests“The boycott has quickly morphed into a promotional event for ‘anti-woke’ brands.”

6. Kindergarten children dropped seeds in the crack of the sidewalk to see what would happen.

7. The One You Feed | Practical Wisdom for a Better Life: How to Embrace Life’s Paradoxes with Rosemerry Wahtola-Trommer(podcast)

8. The Best Things I’ve Done to Cope With Anxiety.

9. 7 Simple Ways to Be Kinder to Yourself.

10. Creating a Culture of Slow: 8 Ways to Transform the Pace of your Home.

11. Study Tests the Validity of Weight Loss Research Claims from Ragen Chastain. 

12. Social Media Report Card: Time To ReSkeet the Blooski, Apparently? from Chuck Wendig on Terrible Minds.

13. An Unwitting Consumer Finds Himself Out of His Depth in the Stop-Motion Animation ‘Five Cents’.

14. The Banana Diaries: Easy Vegan Recipes.

15. Love the child you have from Jena Schwartz.

16. Creative Peptalk 407 – Hit Creative Block Waiting for All The Answers? Listen to This Chat with Poet Maggie Smith(podcast) “In this episode we will explore a different way to approach creative work, that by its very nature allows for creating in the space where yourself still confused and Maggie also delivers a creative career prompt at the end that is very useful for finding new opportunities to do more of what you do best!”

17. How to Have the Fat Talk“Virginia Sole-Smith on the War on Juice, How Puberty Got So Anti-Fat, and Parental Terror.”

18. How to Be a Mindful Bodhisattva on Lion’s Roar. “Mindfulness is more than just a meditation practice. Mindfulness is life, and life is love. That’s why it’s the whole path of the bodhisattva, says Zen teacher Norman Fischer.”

19. The truth of where you are now.

20. Colorado governor signs 4 gun control bills.

21. “Swedish Death Cleaning” comes to life in new series. What is it?

22. Comedian Matt Rife on Not Being Hot and Wearing Socks With Flip-Flops“The popular performer opens up about his international tour, stage style, biggest insecurities, and more.”

23. No, Really, I’m Awful“In John Mulaney’s new Netflix special, Baby J, the comedian brilliantly destroys his likable persona.”

24. My Husband Asked for a Divorce After His Dementia Diagnosis.

25. Ceramic ‘Curiosity Clouds’ by Manifesto Celebrate the Natural World in Functional Organic Forms.

26. Absolutely stunning dresses and corsets inspired by butterfly wings, designed by Bibian Blue.

27. Proof of Lifea new album from Joy Oladokun. In related news, Fuse, the new album from Everything But The Girl.