Monthly Archives: May 2023

Something Good

1. Books I want to read: Soil: The Story of a Black Mother’s Garden, and How to Love the World: Poems of Gratitude and Hope, and Inciting Joy: Essays. I just finished Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow and You Could Make This Place Beautiful and really enjoyed both.

2. My Taste Is Basic. So What? “In an essay from her new book ‘Quietly Hostile,’ author Samantha Irby explains how three simple words can stop judgmental friends in their tracks.”

3. How to be more creative, according to psychology. “From keeping dream diaries to using particular emotional regulation strategies, here’s the research on how to boost creativity, digested.”

4. Depth“Personalized journal prompts to help you understand and navigate how you feel. Powered by AI, built by Reflection.app.” Y’all, I’m still so unsure about how to feel about AI. In related news, Professional human loser and AI as intern from Austin Kleon. Also this, Man Fakes His Entire Life for a Month With Convincing AI-Generated Photos.

5. The Benefits of TikTok’s Latest Really Good Idea, ‘Soft Hiking.’ Or an alternative title for me, “When What You Were Already Doing Becomes A Thing.”

6. Mary Ruefle on the joy of blackout poetry from Austin Kleon. Also from Austin, The thing that sticks out.

7. Keep Going: sustaining a creative practice“Austin Kleon’s little books are packed with wisdom for creatives. Keep Going is about sustaining a creative practice – with kindness and fun.”

8. Rachel W. Cole’s latest newsletter includes a really great question to ask yourself: “If I didn’t need to take any action (maybe if action was prohibited), the hunger I would admit to having is…”

9. 12 Things to Remember When You Are Overwhelmed from Courtney Carver on Be More With Less.

10. The Story of Why I Decided to Become a Mom from Alexandra Franzen. I could write a similar piece about why I decided not to.

11. A Primer on Growth by Gretchen Schmelzer.

12. Maya Angelou on Writing and Our Responsibility to Our Creative Gifts.

13. Fight, Flight, Freeze, & Fawn Response: What’s The Difference?

14. Fresh, Solid, Calm, Free from Kaira Jewel Lingo’s latest newsletter.

15. “Trust Your Experience” from Robert Jones, Jr.

16. How Dare You, America: Bearing witness to the lynching of Jordan Neely in New York City from Frederick Joseph.

17. Patient Quick Guide To Talking About Weight with Healthcare Providers from Ragen Chastain.

18. How to respond to willful ignorance from Patti Digh. “A curated list of possible responses to choose from.”

19. Recipe I want to try: No-Bake Cranberry Oat Energy Bites.

20. The unlikely (but welcome) return of Everything But The Girl.

21. Here’s why you need to be cultivating awe in your life. “Research shows that people recently exposed to awe are kinder, more environmentally friendly, and better connected to others.”

22. Hyper-realistic vegan needle-felted animals by Elizabeth Perez.

23. The Plastic Horse.

24. Sculpture Honoring the Life of Freya the Euthanized Walrus Is Unveiled in Norway.

25. She ripped up her manicured lawn and challenged the norms of gardening stories“In Soil: The Story of a Black Mother’s Garden, Dungy describes her years-long project to transform her weed-filled, water-26. hogging, monochromatic lawn in suburban Fort Collins, Colo., into a pollinator’s paradise, packed instead with vibrant, drought-tolerant native plants.”

26. Making People Uncomfortable Can Now Get You Killed on The New York Times from Roxane Gay.

27. How To Plant A Lemon In A Cup: Make Your Home Smell Fresh And Boost Your Mood.

28. Photographer Documents How People Live in Cramped Rented Rooms in Seoul.

29. Lyrical Illustrations Celebrate the Diversity of Wildlife and the Joy of Observation.

30. Perfectly Drawn Tattoos Look Like Stickers Placed on the Skin.

 

 

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. This week we even got out early enough one morning to catch the sun rise on the trail by the river. And instead of a wild turkey high up in a tree, there was a cormorant. There were also heron fishing and lots of deer, and of course geese and a few kinds of ducks, along with other kinds of birds and lots of things budding and blooming. Ringo also saw (smelled?) something at the base of a giant tree that got him very riled up but it was too dark for me to see what it was, and I wasn’t sticking around to find out.

2. Mulnix Animal Clinicand in particular Dr. Gaffney. We’ve been taking our dogs to this clinic for the past 20+ years. We miss Dr. Mulnix so much (he passed the year he decided to retire, didn’t even make it to the celebration that was planned that summer, so we never really got to say an official thank you or goodbye) but Dr. Thomas stayed on, took over, and has grown the clinic to include all female veterinarians and an updated facility. Dr. Thomas was Sam’s vet after Dr. Mulnix stopped working and had also seen Obi and Dexter from time to time. Dr. Gaffney joined the practice just after we got Ringo and has three cattle dogs of her own, so we knew she was the perfect fit for him. And we were right. She loves him so much, and it means so much to me to know that she is doing her extra best to care for him. Ringo went in for his annual exam yesterday and he’s doing really well, and when/if he isn’t, I know they are there to help.

3. Spring. It’s finally happening. It’s a few weeks late this year because of the weather but this week our maple tree is getting leaves and my peonies are coming up and I can see tiny flower buds on the lilac bushes. It’s still a few weeks out before we can plant anything new and there’s still some question about the grasshopper population or the availability of Nolobait this season so I’m not making any definite plans but am looking forward to whatever we are able to pull off this year.

4. Reading. I have been spending WAY less time on social media and one thing that allows me to do is read more. Besides laughing and flowers and trees and dogs, books have always been one of my most favorite, beloved things.

5. My tiny family, tiny home, tiny life. I am so looking forward to this summer, hanging out more with Eric, working on the house and garden, sitting in the backyard, taking naps, cooking together, sitting on the couch doing nothing, making each other laugh. This week in my Facebook memories, the picture of Ringo standing on the end table came up — he was so feral, so wild when he was younger, not that he’s changed that much! 🙂

Bonus joy: bran muffins, peanut butter balls, raspberries, good TV and movies, listening to podcasts, my primary care doctor, getting all the yearly appointments and checks out of the way, dark chocolate covered walnuts (sorry Eric, I found your secret stash), giving a gift that makes someone cry and hug you, bright yellow chrysanthemums, the hydromassage chair, the pool, sitting in the sauna with Eric, going to bed early, down pillows and blankets, a warm shower, a big glass of cold clean water, clean sheets, stickers, kitchen counter love notes, a big mug of green tea, sitting in the yard with Eric and Ringo, how soft new grass is (Ringo says it tastes good too), sunshine, shade, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.