Monthly Archives: February 2022

Something Good

1. Artist’s Elaborate Paper Cut Art Emerges From Nature and Myth. In related news, Origami artist’s latest creation used one piece of paper creased 5,377 times.

2. Majestic Photos Capture the Dwindling Population of Madagascar’s Ancient Baobab Trees. “In the fall of 2018, one of Madagascar’s most sacred baobabs cleaved and crumbled. The ancient giant was estimated to be about 1,400 years old and offered food, fuel, and fiber to the region before its trunk, which spanned 90 feet around, collapsed. Known as Tsitakakoike, which means ‘the tree where one cannot hear the cry from the other side,’ the baobab was also entwined with local lore and thought to house the ancestral spirits of nearby Masikoro people. Its loss was devastating to the community and an ominous sign of how the climate crisis is permanently damaging these centuries-old trees.”

3. How a Butterfly Refuge at the Texas Border Became the Target of Far-Right Lies on The New York Times. In related news, A butterfly conservatory is shutting down due to right-wing harassment.

4. 18 Queer Florists to Follow on Instagram. Additional bonus: one or two them may be in your area or where there’s someone you love that you want to send a bouquet to.

5. How ‘Wintering’ has changed my perspective and improved my mental health. “Wintering isn’t just cozy socks, glowing candles, and knitting while tucked under a quilt. Though it can certainly be those things too. Mostly it’s about seeing winter, and any hard or dark times in our life, for what they are – essential. Wintering is about shutting off the constant busyness and go-go-going of our lives that we sometimes use to mask our pain or anxiety or sadness so that we can recover, heal, and grow.”

6. I’m A Vet Who Helps People Say Goodbye To Their Pets. When My Dog Was Dying, I Couldn’t. “Despite my years of training and experience, when it came to Mathilda, I couldn’t make the compassionate decision to let her go when she was ready.”

7. Where I Live: Arsenal by poet Naomi Shihab Nye. “The Where I Live series aims to showcase our diverse city and region by spotlighting its many vibrant neighborhoods. Each week a local resident invites us over and lets us in on what makes their neighborhood special.”

8. On the Hidden Pain of V.C. Andrews, the Woman Behind The Flowers in the Attic. “Andrew Niederman Considers the Toll of Chronic Pain on the Writing Life.”

9. So you’ve got COVID. Here’s what to do. In related news, ‘Too sick to rest’: How long COVID helped one doctor learn to slow down.

10. How to (Ethically) Get Rid of Your Unwanted Stuff.

11. Tori Amos: Tiny Desk (Home) Concert.

12. Creativity can’t be forced. Take restorative breaks, zone out to find new inspiration.

13. The Meaningful Mundane: 6 Classic Books That Depict Black Girlhood. One of my favorite “coming of age” novels made the list — Annie John by Jamaica Kincaid.

14. We Asked Black Queer Icons to Share Their Dreams for the Future.

15. 5 Ways I’m coping (and the celebrities that are helping with that).

16. An 8-Year-Old Wrote a Book and Hid It on a Library Shelf. It’s a Hit. on The New York Times.

17. You can’t just swap out ‘Maus’ for another Holocaust book. It’s special.

18. Heroes Lost. Heroes Remembered. “Health care professionals have been, and continue to be, heroes. They are frontline soldiers in the war against this deadly virus. So are those who stocked shelves and kept supply lines running. We also owe a deep debt to the scientists who rushed to understand this elusive killer and developed vaccines, treatments, and tests.”

19. It’s OK to not be passionate about your job.

20. 20 Pets Who Got Bigger, but Didn’t Shake Off Any of Their Habits. “Like humans, pets pick up habits that they keep for their entire lives. Most of them connect with a toy or accessory so deeply that they keep it close even after it’s not fit for playing anymore. This just proves how similarly our pets’ brains and ours work, and maybe that’s why we grow to feel so close to them.”

21. The Only Remedy for FOMO (fear of missing out) from Courtney Carver on Be More With Less.

22. Black History is Your History by Ijeoma Oluo. “The true study of Black history is American history. It is not only what we have accomplished, but the circumstances that our accomplishments were created in. It is not only the horrors that have been visited upon us, but the systems that have built and perpetrated those horrors. It’s not only the hatreds and bigotries held by white people in the past, but the ways in which those hatreds and bigotries have been codified and made so ubiquitous for future white generations that it has been normalized into invisibility.” In related news, Who is Black History Month actually for?

23. Good stuff from The Atlantic: Where’s the Cancel-Culture Outrage Over Banning Books? (“Joe Rogan is still here, but books are disappearing from libraries”), and Book Bans Are Targeting the History of Oppression (“The possibility of a more just future is at stake when young people are denied access to knowledge of the past”), and The Octavia Butler Novel for Our Times (“The pandemic has revealed the depths of our mutual dependence. Fledgling shows us how to coexist”).

24. ‘Photos’ of What Cartoon Characters Would Look Like in Real Life. “What would famous animated characters from movies and TV shows look like in real life? One digital artist has created a fascinating series of AI-assisted ‘portraits’ that provide the answers to that question.”

25. Andrea Gibson: Together Again. Saturday, Feb 12, 2022 – 1:00 PM MST, you can rewatch for the next seven days if you can’t make the livestream. “It brings me so much joy to invite you to an intimate virtual reading of poems and stories from the coziest couch in my living room. As many of you know I took much of the last year off from even virtual events as I was doing chemotherapy. I have missed spending time with y’all so much, and am filled with stories and poems and FEELINGS I know will be so connecting to share. I named the event TOGETHER AGAIN because it speaks to how special this moment in my life is to me. At the end of the reading I’ll be doing a live Q&A so if you have questions (or answers!) please bring them.” Also from Andrea, a new poem: What I Mean When I Say My Heart Has Melted.

26. A spinal fluid leak derailed my life of travel and food, but taught me to find beauty in the small things.

27. How-To: The Art of Creating a Cozy Bed.

28. The Irresistible Allure of Snacking Cakes. “My family fell under the spell of Yossy Arefi’s simple recipes for cakes that are meant to be eaten anytime.” Yeah, I’m gonna need this cookbook. In other words, recipes I want to try: all of them.

Gratitude

1. Snow. We got another ten inches this week. That along with extra cold negative temperatures inspired a midweek snow day for Eric — yay! I had made a funeral casserole the night before because I knew the cold and snow were coming, that something warm and delicious would be just the ticket. Eric stuck our Christmas tree in the snow burm of our side flower bed and the first morning I walked out and saw it there, I thought someone had planted a tree, like some sort of weird prank.

2. Working on my book. I haven’t said too much about it recently because a lot of other stuff came up and I sort of lost my way with it. I still write every day, no matter what, but I was in the weeds with the book project. It’s like making a collage, pulling pieces together not really knowing how it will all come together, where it will land. I’ve written so many pieces of it already and stored it away — on this blog, in files on multiple computers, in writing I’ve done with Laurie Wagner and my Friday morning writing sangha, and in the many many notebooks I’ve filled, even some of the recent conversations I’ve had with my therapist have led directly to writing. It can feel overwhelming and super confusing how to put it all together. This week I’ve been more actively working on it and it feels really really good.

3. Cooking, in particular trying something new. Eric and I have a favorite restaurant, Mount Everest Cafe, run by a Tibetan family. Their food is SO good. Eric and I made a few curry recipes this week to see if we could replicate some of our favorites. My eggplant curry turned out pretty good (not as good as Mount Everest) and Eric’s was weirdly bland for all the spices in it. It wasn’t a total fail, but we are ordering take out from Mount Everest this weekend to cleanse our palates.

4. Ringo being a jerk. Weird thing to be grateful for, yes? And yet, this past week he wasn’t feeling great, his arthritis was acting up and causing his front legs especially to ache. The way I knew it was beyond what he normally lives with is when things he always does that are super annoying — digging up the couch, humping the pillows, wanting to play, nudging me in the butt or nipping at my clothes to get me to pay attention, getting on our bed when I’m getting dressed for a walk to bark and sing and dig — weren’t happening. His physical therapy vet had some good ideas for how to help him and he’s feeling so much better … and being a total jerk. (Only the first of these pictures is from this week, the rest are simply examples of said behavior).

5. Morning walks. The one we took the day before the storm came supports my theory that the prettiest skies happen as a storm is rolling in.

6. My tiny family, tiny home, tiny life. How many times or ways can I say they and this are everything I ever wanted?

Bonus joy: Vaccines and pain meds and gummy supplements, snow tires and plows and shovels, ice scrapers, down and wool, a crunchy gala apple, apple pie filling as an oatmeal topper, dark chocolate covered caramel, house plants, sunshine, a big glass of cold water, a warm shower, clean sheets, pay day, the hydromassage chair, the pool, the sauna, the sound of our furnace, birds in the feeder, texting with Chloe’ and Mom and Chris, naps, good TV, listening to podcasts, finishing a book, starting another books, good music, that tiny little computer we call a smartphone that I can easily carry with me and use to access just about anything I need, a new dog treat pouch (I felt bad for needing another one until I realized it was at least six years old), blank notebooks and good pens, drinking a hot cup of coffee in front of my HappyLight while I write in the morning, raspberries, reading on my Kindle at night while Ringo and Eric sleep.