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Something Good

1. 27 Wild(er) Days with Laurie Wagner, my teacher and dear friend. “I’m bringing the Wild Writing practice to you at home through a series of short videos that will arrive in your inbox each day for 27 days. In each video I will share some delicious aspect of the practice that has served me for the last 30 years, as well as read you a poem and give you a jump off line to get you started. From there you’ll write for 15 minutes, and then boom, you’re done.” Laurie is offering this self-paced Wild Writing opportunity at a discount — from January 3 – 7, you pay only $27 (on the 8th, the price goes back to $49). Also from Laurie, Twenty Four Tamales For Christmas and a Few Things You Learn Along the Way.

2. Stressed? Instead of distracting yourself, try paying closer attention. “When something sad, stressful or hurtful happens, so many of us look for a way to distract ourselves from the ensuing pain and discomfort. It may seem counterintuitive, but an effective way to manage our negative reactions to life’s stressors actually involves slowing down and paying very close attention, says Jon Kabat-Zinn, the founder of mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR).”

3. Why Therapists Are Worried About Mental Health in America Right Now on The New York Times. “The Times recently asked mental health professionals from across the country to share how their patients — and they themselves — are coping with the coronavirus crisis.”

4. How volunteering can help ease loneliness on The New York Times.

5. Resolutions for a Life Worth Living: Attainable Aspirations Inspired by Great Humans of the Past. “Life-tested wisdom on how to live from James Baldwin, Ursula K. Le Guin, Leo Tolstoy, Seneca, Toni Morrison, Walt Whitman, Viktor Frankl, Rachel Carson, and Hannah Arendt.”

6. Good stuff from Seth Godin: Choice vs. convenience and Don’t waste the good days. That second one in particular hit me hard. I’m trying so hard to allow for that kind of focus, to shift my effort in that way, but it is HARD, (or rather I make it hard).

7. Good stuff from Austin Kleon: My year in 101 quotes and 100 things that made my year (2021).

8. From respair to cacklefart – the joy of reclaiming long-lost positive words. “We have been bombarded with negativity recently; but the English language is a treasure trove of joyous vocabulary.”

9. Merry Christmas, Happy New Year: A Stop-Motion Music Video Tells the Warm and Fuzzy Story of Woodland Friends. In related news, A Moving Stop-Motion Short Reveals the Power of a Family’s Cooking Traditions.

10. Wisdom from J Clement Wall: “Maybe the lesson to learn from the year that has passed is one that we all already now. We have to make this moment count. No matter what came before, or what happens tomorrow, we have to live the moment we’re in, yeah? Pick north in this moment. Be kind, be mindful, make art, hold hands, be proud, be happy, be sad in this moment. Then do it again a gazillion times because our lives are made of these moments and nothing more. They are what we have. They are everything.”

11. A New Year’s Blessing on Lion’s Roar. “Zen teacher Karen Maezen Miller offers some words to help us all start the year off right.”

12. Wisdom from Elizabeth Mattis Namgyel: “Let’s be fierce in our commitment to value and utilize even the most challenging circumstances as a way to deepen our understanding and cultivate compassion for others as well as ourselves. Let’s continuously find creative and skillful ways to serve living beings and this precious planet, our home, and look at life around us as the rich ground for awakening from self-absorption. If we can do this, how can we possibly lose?”

13. Why I ‘Go to Bed’ Early as an Introvert (Spoiler Alert: I’m Not Sleeping).

14. They set out to hike three of America’s longest trails in less than a year. What could go wrong?

15. Writer’s Resolution, 2022: The Necessary Act Of Selfishly Seeking Joy from Chuck Wendig on Terrible Minds.

16. Diana Ross Proves She’s Still The Boss on Her New Studio Album “Thank You”.

17. 6 Ways To Get Ready For A Wildfire.

18. 100 ways to slightly improve your life without really trying.

19. Moments of joy from 2021 from NPR. “It’s true, 2021 was not easy — but moments of joy, humor and appreciation were as much a part of the past year as were its challenges. In case you missed them, take a listen to some of our more fun and relaxing moments of 2021.”

20. Swedish Death Cleaning – The New KonMari Method?

21. 10 Insightful Tips From People Who Prove It’s Never Too Late on The New York Times.

22. The Dogs of 2021 (video) on Instagram.

23. The guerilla gardeners of TikTok. “When green space became essential during the pandemic, these intrepid gardeners realized there wasn’t enough of it.”

24. Nine Badass Black Women Who Are Changing the Workout Game. In related news, When it comes to exercise, ‘all movement counts.’ Here are 4 tips to make it a habit and Sometimes You Have to Hate Exercise Before You Can Love It Again on The New York Times.

25. Here’s what bell hooks’ friends and colleagues want you to remember about her.

26. Melding Two Crafts, Caroline Harrius Embroiders and Cross-Stitches Ceramic Vessels. Using various methods of non-traditional stitching/sewing to make art is my current obsession.

27. 11 Questions to End the Year On Purpose.

28. The Most-Rejected Books of All Time (that eventually got published).

29. Electric Lit’s Favorite Short Story Collections of 2021. In related news, Electric Lit’s Favorite Nonfiction Books of 2021 and Our Favorite Tiny Desk (Home) Concerts Of 2021.

30. This Year, Try a New Approach to Wellness. Because this: “Something that I’ve been thinking about lately is just how different we all are. We are all at vastly different places in our lives and in our journeys with our bodies, food, self-care, etc. And the process of learning how to best care for our bodies, minds, and spirits is long, complex, and unique to us.

The truest truth I’ve found is that we’ve got to experiment. We’ve got to try things on and feel them out in our own bodies and minds. I believe that the process of learning how to listen to our intuition is the key to this. We do have deep wisdom within us and it can guide us if we let it. ” Amen.

31. Recipe I want to try: Marry Me Cookies.

32. Free food market in Aurora bridges gap between food waste and hunger.

33. My Dog Taught Me How to Be a Better Human.

34. On the Years When Jane Austen Couldn’t Write. “An Illustrated Look at the Effects of Worry and Uncertainty on a Literary Icon.”

35. The person who got me through 2021: Monty Don inspired my new, obsessive love of gardening.

Something Good

Greyrock: Image by Eric

1. I Don’t Know What’s Best for You from Courtney Carver on Be More With Less. This is so good, and something I really needed to hear.

2. Our Favorite Healthy Habits of 2021 on The New York Times. When I clicked on this link I fully expected it to be a mashup of the typical “new year, new you” nonsense that starts up this time of year, but they were actually sane, workable ideas.

3. 10 Stories That Gave Readers Hope in 2021. “Here at YES!, we’re fortunate to have windows into moments of hope, progress, and positive change.” In related news, What went right in 2021: the top 26 good news stories of the year.

4. Good mental health isn’t about being happy all the time. “It’s okay to feel your feelings.” All of them.

5. Breaking up with social media.

6. When My Wife Developed Alzheimer’s, the Story of Our Marriage Kept Us Connected. “To prepare for a future of losing her, bit by bit, I began reciting a love letter.”

7. The Daily Realities of Being Fat, Black, and Queer in Public Spaces.

8. Desmond Tutu, Whose Voice Helped Slay Apartheid, Dies at 90 on The New York Times. In related news, Desmond Tutu, an icon who helped end apartheid in South Africa, dies at 90, and Desmond Tutu’s laugh was contagious. His fight for freedom was deadly serious. I saw him speak once at CSU and that thing about his laugh is 100% true.

9. Intimate portraits of a hospital COVID unit from a photojournalist-turned-nurse. In related news, A nurse practitioner talks about Omicron, nursing shortages, and what to do about seeing loved ones during the holidays.

10. ‘Magic’ Weight-Loss Pills and Covid Cures: Dr. Oz Under the Microscope on The New York Times. “The celebrity physician, a candidate in Pennsylvania’s Republican primary for Senate, has a long history of dispensing dubious medical advice on his daytime show and on Fox News.”

11. Peter Dinklage on recasting the hero of “Cyrano.” This movie looks SO good.

12. An Alternative Economy of Care in Portland. “Crisis Kitchen is one of a network of mutual aid groups in Portland working to build a more supportive and just community.”

13. Building Bridges Without a Foundation for Peace Won’t Work. “At worst, our bridge-building efforts champion superficial civility, celebrate false unity, and uphold an unjust status quo. But at our best, we can expand movements to advance peace, justice, and democracy. Indeed, the future of America depends on it.”

14. Insecure’s final season was about legacy. The show will leave a lasting one. In related news, The romantic drama has never been what makes ‘Insecure’ so good.

15. Pandemic Self-Assessment, a cartoon from Connie Sun.

16. Doughnuts: The fried treat that conquered the modern world. My people were peasant colonizers, but they did bring doughnuts…

17. People share the most useful thing they’ve learned in therapy to help those who can’t afford it.

18. Opt Out of the Frenzy and Say Yes to a Simple Christmas. Also from A Life in Progress, Overwhelmed by Life? Gift Yourself an Abundance of Rest.

19. Ritual of Escape. “For Toronto-based writer Tendisai Cromwell, walking in nature is an act of care and a quiet resistance to the effects of racial trauma.”

20. My Buddha Body: How I Learned to Practice Yoga in a Plus-Size Body. “Michael Hayes had to find his own way in yoga and in the world. Now he helps others do the same.”

21. But What If A Pinecone Hits Her In The Head? by Ijeoma Olou. “It’s been such a delight to watch all of this go down. To watch a man who absolutely refused to pet any dog, no matter how cute, and quite visibly wish that the encounter with said animal would end as quickly as possible, now look longingly at every dog we see out in the world.”

22. Photographer Captures People And Their Bedrooms To Show Their Different Ways Of Living.

23. Relax, Relate and Read: The Best Books to Give (and Get) This Holiday Season. In related news, The Award-Winning Novels of 2021, and The 10 Best Feminist and Female-Centered Books of 2021, and The Ultimate Best Books of 2021 List.

24. How we built new traditions during the pandemic. “We asked our viewers and readers what new traditions, for the holidays or otherwise, they started during the pandemic…read what brought them solace, in their own words.”

25. The Best Albums of 2021.

26. The 8 Worst Things About Working at a Bookstore.

27. How your brain copes with grief, and why it takes time to heal.

28. 20 Thought-Provoking Questions to Help You End the Year Well.

29. I Moved to a Remote Cabin to Write, and I Hate It. “What to do if you followed your dream, only to realize it wasn’t what you wanted after all.” The headline and tagline don’t really make it clear: this is some really good writing advice.

30. Dormancy on Rita’s Notebook. “There is so much clamor in the world, and so often lately all I can hear is a grating din. I want to see if I can create a pocket of quiet within it…I don’t know if this experiment is as much about becoming some other kind of writer as it is about becoming a different kind of reader. All I know is that somehow, I’ve lost my way, and I want to find it again.”

31. Good stuff from Lion’s Roar: Making Offerings to Our Ancestors, and How to Work with the Winter Blues, and The Best of bell hooks: Life, Writings, Quotes, and Books.

32. 25 Most Interesting Webcams of 2021.

33. To find a form that accommodates the mess from Austin Kleon.

34. Bonsai and the delicate art of feeling better.

35. 2021: The Year That Almost Was from Chuck Wendig on Terrible Minds.

36. The Year in Pictures on The New York Times.

37. Time Capsule 2021: Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer. “If you could make a time capsule of 2021 in images and words, what would it look like? The Alipore Post, a fabulous international online journal of art, poetry, interviews and collaborations, invited me to make such a time capsule–what a year it’s been.”