Category Archives: yoga

N is for Neutral

In yoga, I learned to always “return to neutral.” This means before moving into the next pose, on the other leg or other side for example, that you return to neutral, to center, to rest. This is in part for safety, to slow you down, keep you from speeding too fast into the next pose and possibly hurting yourself.

Neutral is also related to “mind the gap,” observing the space between thoughts and experience, the awareness that comes before the thought, before judgement–vast space. In shamatha meditation, we are taught to notice the moment between breaths–not breathing in or out, but rather the space of rest between. Neutral is the moment, the space that is unattached to hope or fear.

Neutral is unbiased, neither positive or negative, center, middle, moderate, unattached, not supporting or favoring, having no color, no judgement, no side, uncommitted, calm, detached, patient, indifferent, inert, relaxed, easy, unconcerned, undisturbed, gentle, inscrutable, satisfied, serene, still, unemotional, unmoved, untroubled, equitable, and impartial.

Neutral is not being triggered by events or caught up in emotions or distracted by thoughts. Neutral is peaceful abiding, calm awareness, the acceptance of reality, what is as it is. It is non-attachment, overcoming desire, letting go and letting be.

Neutral is a concept of meditation and mindfulness, “the sacred pause” that Tara Brach speaks of in this video, this guided meditation. “It gives us a chance to come home to our hearts again.”

Something Good

1. How I spent my weekend: “Fearless Creativity,” a writing and meditation retreat with Susan Piver at Shambhala Mountain Center.

My brain feels like this:

And my heart feels like this:

2. What We All Need, a post from Metta Drum. “You can be free. You can be big enough for your own life.”

3. Walking and Yoga, an excerpt from Running with the Mind of Meditation by Sakyong Mipham. I can’t wait to get my copy of the book and read the whole thing. All the excerpts I’ve seen so far are very inspiring. Also from Sakyong Mipham, 5 Tips for Running with the Mind of Meditation. And finally, Meditation for Running and Walking, a guided meditation by Sakyong Mipham that you can record, download on to your mp3 player, and listen to as you walk or run. I feel calmer, more at ease just listening to him.

4. Meditation: Am I Doing it “Right”? by Susan Piver. I may have shared this already, but if you missed it the first time, it’s a really good read, and you don’t have to practice meditation to understand what Susan is talking about. We could all benefit if we would just “Stop trying so hard all the time. If you can’t, then relax with yourself as one who just really, really wants to try. It’s OK.”

5. 8 things I’ve learned about life, the universe & everything — from 80+ life coaches, from Unicorns for Socialism. This post is so great.

6. An Invocation for Beginnings from Ze Frank. I love him so much.

7. A Credo for Making it Happen from Danielle LaPorte. Inspiring.

9. Pussy Willows.