Category Archives: Something Good

Something Good

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1. Getting Words on the Page with Jena Schwartz, (use the special coupon code CREATIVESUMMER to get 50% off the regular course price until August 31). And this post where she says, “Too often, we keep ourselves from writing because we afraid of not being good, or even good enough. That’s why I come back, both in the course and in my own writing practice, to these three steps.”

2. Ring the bells that you can ring“Imagine if you thought of all your mistakes as future art?”

3. On a Day When Stillness Seems Possiblea poem from Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer. In related news, (and my apologies if I’ve already shared this), The Pen and the Sword: Poet Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer shares All the Honey (podcast). Also, With the Stars All Around, another poem by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer about which she said, “I wrote it for Finn the week before he died–he was struggling mightily while in Ecuador, and we were talking on the phone a lot and I felt so helpless. I wrote it for him, but later, of course, I realize (especially with those last lines) how much I was writing it for me.”

4. Three Essential Steps to My Recovery: Rage. Reclamation. RelationshipI don’t usually like sharing things that are “old” but there are exceptions — this post is from 2019, but it’s from Carmen Cool and now just so happened to be the right time for me to read it.

5. Why Introverts Are More People-Oriented Than You May Think.

6. This excerpt from A Future We Can Love: How We Can Reverse the Climate Crisis with the Power of Our Hearts and Minds by Susan Bauer-Wu: “If we reflect deeply and examine the psychology of self- versus other-orientation, we’ll come to recognize that many of the fears, anxieties, and stresses that plague us are rooted in excessive self-focus. Excessive self-focus makes us tense, our sense of self fragile, bringing ego brittleness, and it leads us to overreact in the face of a challenge. On the other hand, if we can open our hearts a little bit and orient toward others, this simple shift makes us feel more expansive, even more courageous, I would say. There is a sense of freedom that comes in the absence of the heaviness of self-agenda. We can feel more relaxed even. Also, being in touch with our shared humanity with others, we feel less lonely and more connected with others. So, if we are truly serious about our own long-term well-being, we need to open up our heart and orient more toward others. And, of course, if we truly care about the world and its inhabitants, compassion has to be at the core of how we view the world and relate to others.”

7. Good stuff from Seth Godin: Remarkable pronouncements, The good news, (Without the bad parts), and “I don’t like it.”

8. On Wanta poem from Kai-Lilly Karpman.

9. Living a life we don’t have to escape from from Kaira Jewel Lingo.

10. Eating disorder non-profit pulls chatbot for emitting ‘harmful advice.’

11. From Barbara Kingsolver: (by way of Hugh Hollowell’s Life Is So Beautiful newsletter) “There are days when I can’t live in this country. Not the whole thing at once, including the hateful parts, the misogyny, the brutal disregard of the powerful for the powerless. Sometimes I can only be a citizen of these trees, this rainy day, the family I can hold safe, the garden I can grow. A fire that refuses to go out.” In the same newsletter edition, he shared this (and I’m shook): Antisemitism, False Information and Hate Speech Find a Home on Substack.

12. Activist Micro Action Dispatch | This week’s 10 minute task: Refining Our Focusa great reminder from Omkari Williams.

13. Good things from Lion’s Roar: How to Cultivate Resilience in Tough Times (“Shauna Shapiro explains how to face difficult emotions, re-center, and find calm”), and A24’s “Past Lives” is a Meditation on Love and Longing (“Lion’s Roar Associate Editor Noel Alumit reviews A24’s new movie, Past Lives, the debut film of director Celine Song”), and The Tathagata’s Ten Wisdom Powers (“The Avatamsaka, or Flower Garland Sutra, details the path and practices of the bodhisattva. Among these are ten powers that arise from the awakened human mind. Rev. Heng Sure on how teacher and student alike might realize them”).

14. Pause for Summer from Frederick Joseph, “A poem reminding you all to remember to be alive today.”

15. A great set of prompts to ponder from Alexandra Franzen“What’s something that angers you? Or, something that breaks your heart? How could you channel your emotions into an art project, a book, or solution?”

16. ‘I was the rejection queen.’ “Most wannabe authors would give up the will to write after 98 refusals, but not Bonnie Garmus. The first-time novelist tells Lynn Barber about the female rage that led her to write Lessons in Chemistry and the rescue dog that became one of the book’s best loved characters.”

17. Lifeboat from Jami Attenberg. 

18. Invite others to imagine from Patti Digh. “Our questions make all the difference in the answers we live.”

Please note: I am sitting here having a meltdown because somehow I obliterated items 19-26 on this list as I was working on it and I don’t think there’s any way of getting them back (yes, I checked my drafts) and retracing my steps to rebuild that portion of the list would take WAY too long and be incredibly frustrating so I’m going to start where I am now, call it 19 and move on… *sigh* A few of them were about climate change and white nationalism, so maybe it’s for the best. And, life is just like this: sometimes you lose things, things that mattered, things you can never get back.

19. Penguin Hops On Kayak To Ask For Help(video)

20. Benicio Bryant Singer sings “The Joke” AWESOME | America’s Got Talent 2019 Audition(video)

21. Lost in the Milky Waya poem by Linda Hogan.

22. On Being with Krista Tippett: Pádraig Ó Tuama | “This fantastic argument of being alive.” In related news, Pádraig Ó Tuama reading his poem “The Facts of Life.” (video)

23. Recipes I want to try: Peach Brussels Sprouts Crunch Salad with Creamy Tahini Poppy Seed Dressing and Vegetable Spring Rolls with Peanut Sauce.

24. Uncurated Thoughts 22: Make stuff even if it’s bad! (Instagram Reel on Facebook)

25. 75 Pictures That Make Me Grin Uncontrollably No Matter How Many Times I’ve Seen Them.

26. Sthira and Sukha – Finding balance on and off the mat. “How do we strike the balance between doing too much and straining, and doing too little and feeling like we’re not trying hard enough? Laia explores the concepts of Sthira and Sukha.” I’ve been working a lot with this concept, in my teaching and my own practice.

27. There’s a massive free catalogue of Indigenous films online — here are 5 picks to get you started.

28. Casey Grim’s Video Resume For A Minimum Wage Retail Job Is Everything That Was Right With The InternetHaving worked retail for 10+ years, I really appreciated this.

29. Dog Has Been at Shelter for 500 Days ‘Because of Black-Dog Syndrome.’ This never makes sense to me, but I will ALWAYS pick the black dog.

30. Good stuff from Austin Kleon: Never waste your midlife crisis and Laziness and discipline.

Something Good

1. The One Feeling I Didn’t Allow: When joy feels risky… from Andrea Gibson. “Falsely we believe that if we feel the heights of joy, we will have a longer and harder fall. But joy is not a tall building we can crash from. Joy is the cord of a parachute that can save us.”

2. So, What’s In the eCourse? from Jena Schwartz. “From getting started to getting unstuck, Getting Words on the Page may change the way you relate to your writing practice – and yourself!” This is going to be a great course and Jena is one of the best writers, coaches, teachers, humans out there — so if this calls to you, I wholeheartedly recommended you sign up.

3. American Experience“For 35 years, American Experience has been television’s most-watched history series, bringing to life the incredible characters and epic stories that have shaped America’s past and present. American Experience documentaries have been honored with every major broadcast award, including 30 Emmy Awards, five duPont-Columbia Awards and 19 George Foster Peabody Awards. PBS’s signature history series also creates original digital content that innovates new forms of storytelling to connect our collective past with the present.”

4. WORK APPROPRIATE Podcast | My Industry is Failing: Veterinary Medicine Edition with Karen Fine“For those of us who are pet lovers, a good vet clinic makes all the difference. But for those working in vet clinics, things can be really hard. In fact, veterinarians have a risk of death by suicide at a rate 2-4 times that of the general public. How did things get to be this way, and what hope is there for improvement? Dr. Karen Fine, DVM and author of The Other Family Doctor, joins host Anne Helen Petersen to answer listeners’ questions about working in the vet industry – and how pet owners can offer support.”

5. My Benihana, Myself“What learning to flip shrimp tails and build onion volcanoes taught me about the gift of performance, and its emotional toll.”

6. How to Be More Alive: Hermann Hesse on Wonder and the Proper Aim of Education“It bears repeating that what makes life livable is our ability — our willingness — to move through the world wonder-smitten by reality.”

7. Throwing shade or throwing light? from Seth Godin.

8. When The World Crumbles, I Eat Cereal from Frederick Joseph. “And so, I implore you to find your bowl of cereal. Your symbolic refuge, the simplicity of your past becoming a sanctuary in the complex present. You will find that there is a certain kind of magic in these memories. They do not promise to fix the world, or mend our broken spirits overnight. What they do promise is the strength to carry on. They remind us of our resilience, our capacity to dream, our ability to find joy in the simplest of things, and our inherent knack to defy the darkness and create our own light.”

9. Something Worthy of the Sea from Summer Brennan. “An essay with two poems.”

10. DMs from New York City on The New York Times. “Messages, Graffiti and Hand-Written Notes From Across New York City.”

11. Sigur Rós – Andrá (Official Video)“I wished to show how Sigur Rós is the soundtrack of our lives through happiness, pain, hope, grief, and love. The short documentary, Andrá, celebrates the way in which Sigur Rós captures and channels the humanity that unites us all.”

12. 7 Things To Let Go Of For A Happier Life from Courtney Carver at Be More With Less.

13. Tiny Love Stories: ‘I Left Any Room She Entered’ on The New York Times. “Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.”

14. How to Make the Most of Your Alone Time as an IntrovertAll of these make sense to me, but the “take solo trips” for me mostly means “walk the dog” or “go to the grocery store” but I’m also slightly agoraphobic, so…

15. America’s unique, enduring gun problem, explained. “The factors that lead to tragedies like the Philadelphia shooting are deeply ingrained in US politics, culture, and law.” 

16. People Who Take Regular Daytime Naps Tend to Have Bigger, Healthier Brains, Study FindsHave you noticed my big, healthy brain?

17. Toni Morrison Lists the 10 Steps That Lead Countries to Fascism (1995).

18. New Interactive Fort Collins Colorado Mural Is Stunning and Promotes Mental HealthI shared a picture of this last week but didn’t know its story.

19. What’s a Luddite? An expert on technology and society explains.

20. Enchanting miniature animal sculptures by Katie Doka.

21. Abandoned Materials Are Upcycled Into Charming Bug Sculptures.

22. ‘Please Be Seated’ by Paul Cocksedge. (Instagram reel) “‘This work was an instinctive response to the space and the rhythm of people through it, based on early sketches by hand. It solves the practical problem of creating an artwork that fills a public square and engages passersby, without obstructing the space.’ ‘Please Be Seated’ features 1,152 reclaimed scaffolding boards. Each one has been planed, sanded, and cut to become part of a series of huge curves and concentric circles.”

23. These wild animal encounters are crazy! (Facebook video)

24. Simple Anxiety Hacks for Dealing With Crowds.

25. Things I want to watch: SmartLess: On The Road | Official Trailer (video) and Dreamin’ Wild | Official Trailer (video).

26. Roller Kingdom Commercial. (Facebook video) So bad it’s hysterical. 

27. Modern Love: Kissing a Fellow Janitor Amid the Trash on The New York Times. “After two assaults, I sought healing on the coldest, driest and windiest continent on Earth.”

28. Obituary for a Quiet Life“When the notable figures of our day pass away, they wind up on our screens, short clips documenting their achievements, talking heads discussing their influence. The quiet lives, though, pass on soundlessly in the background. And yet those are the lives in our skin, guiding us from breakfast to bed. They’re the lives that have made us, that keep the world turning.”

29. The Thread Vibes Are Off from Anne Helen Petersen. “This is pretty much what Threads feels like to me now: a place that’s ostensibly interesting (look, so many people are already here!) but is actually totally boring. It’s “fun,” but definitely not funny… It’s not entertaining or clever like TikTok. It’s just new and there, like a bowl of sub-par chips and store-bought guac at a party, asking “Aren’t you hungry? Aren’t you? Aren’t you?””

30. PBS Short Film Festival 2023“Since 2012, the PBS Short Film Festival (originally named PBS Online Film Festival) has been a platform and partner for promoting short films from independent filmmakers that are presented by public media partners and PBS member stations. Many of the films cover social issues that traditional film festivals tend to shy away from such as identity, culture, family, and race.”

31. The Tyranny of Good. “Good is an internal tornado and an external affair—you are working off an imagined external judge and jury, or as Anne Lamott once described—you are treating everyone in your life like a flight attendant trying to make all of the passengers happy. But if you can tolerate this messiness. If you can tolerate the terror of being what you have been calling ‘bad.’ You can come to understand something crucial: good is a very, very small world.”