Category Archives: Something Good

Something Good

1. Poetry from from Out With Lanterns, a daily poetry practice by Julie Barton: Love Letter to Solitude, and Putting Down The Old Dog, and Reboot, and Hurt.

2. 18 Life-Learnings from 18 Years of The Marginalian

3. The same thing goes with humans really: To be flawed is to be real from Jenny Lawson (The Bloggess).

4. “What Does Stephen King Mean for You And Your Career?” from Chuck Wendig on Terrible Minds.

5. Pam Houston Tells Us: About Finding a Reason to Live on Cheryl Strayed’s Dear Sugar, “the occasional series I do, in which I invite an author to tell us five things—not only about their most recent book, but about their life too.”

6. 14,000 Prescription Lenses Dangle like Dewdrops in a Lush Japanese Forest.

7. Resilience is a trauma response, “It’s not all it is hyped up to be” from Patti Digh.

8. Why kids should read obituaries, “These stories are about informative, interesting, and inspirational lives.”

9. The Only Thing That Makes Sense, a new poem from Julia Fehrenbacher.

10. ‘Relax, nothing is under control’ – and other sentiments that changed how you think. “Some words have real sticking power. Not so much the stream of motivational quotes in decorative borders that surge daily through social media. More those gems that – by dint of their poignancy in a particular time and place – hold real power to change things for the better. We asked Positive News readers to tell us about the most inspiring things people have ever said to them.”

11. How Death Cafes Celebrate Life. “In our daily lives, we don’t often openly discuss our feelings about death and dying. So where can people go to have those conversations?”

12. In the Jabalia refugee camp, my sister has reached breaking point. What will it take to stop this nightmare? “Every time I think things can’t get worse in Gaza, they do. But that is what happens when the world turns a blind eye to cruelty.”

13. The Most Magical Story I May Ever Tell, “It started with a pumpkin” from Andrea Gibson.

14. 7 Rules for Midlife Happiness.

15. 50 Conversation Starters to Spark Connection (and Keep Things Fun).

16. Ann Patchett: The Decision I Made 30 Years Ago That I Still Regret on The New York Times. (gift link)

17. The Beauty of Being Alone.

18. 12-Year-Old Kid Has Saved 4,800 Shelter Dogs(video) “This kid became obsessed with saving shelter dogs when he was 3 years old — and went on to find 4,800 of them homes.”

19. ‘Does time heal? I don’t think so’: Richard E Grant on love, loss – and bonking. “The raw intensity and personal honesty that Richard E Grant brought to Withnail and I was real and has never left him. Now the actor and diarist, still grieving the loss of his wife, talks openly about heartbreak, ambition and his traumatic upbringing.”

20. ‘I miss her a lot’: Andrew Garfield telling Elmo about grief was his best work yet. “The star opened about his mother’s death on Sesame Street with a clarity and sincerity rare among celebrities.”

21. Seth Meyers Isn’t as Nice as You Think He Is on The New York Times. (gift link) “Meyers has crafted a comedically precise but genial persona over more than two decades on ‘Saturday Night Live’ and ‘Late Night.’ A new stand-up special finds him reveling in his more acerbic side.”

22. Meditation And Mindfulness Have a Dark Side We Don’t Talk About.

23. 25 Breathtaking Photos of Sakura in Full Bloom Across Japan by Hidenobu Suzuki.

24. What We Lose With The End Of ‘Somebody Somewhere.’ “The tender HBO series debuted in a bleak pop culture era. With its remarkable third and final season, it will leave behind a major gap in nicecore TV.” In related news, ‘Somebody Somewhere’ is about finding your people: Here’s how Bridget Everett found hers.

25. ‘Good Omens’ Season 3 Cut Short Amid Allegations Against Gaiman on The New York Times. (gift link) “The series is the third production linked to the author to face turmoil after allegations made by five women surfaced this summer.”

26. I’m a death expert. I designed eight questions to help you think about dying. “The modern era has eroded the myths and traditions of death. But there’s a way to create your own belief system.”

27. “Juana Maria”, The Mystery Woman Stranded For 18 Years Off The Coast Of California. “She lived in near-total isolation for close to two decades. By the time she was found, her native language had disappeared.”

28. 6 Small, Everyday Things Physical Therapists Wish You’d Stop Doing.

29. 4 Signs You Need Rest—And How To Heal For A Stronger Mind And Body.

30. Luther: Never Too MuchI adore Luther Vandross and can’t wait for this documentary.

31. And finally, a bunch of random stuff I saved on my phone this week.

Something Good

1. When Facing Significant Life Challenges, Is It Even Possible to Look at the Bright Side? on The Gurdeep Magazine. “A positive outlook doesn’t mean ignoring reality. It’s about finding ways to cope and maintain hope while facing challenges.”

2. Ambition & Fear, “& Samarra Khaja on reclaiming joy” on The Isolation Journals with Suleika Jaouad.

3. Why we need help doesn’t matter, “All that matters is that we do” from Rita Ott Ramstad on Rootsie. (Thanks for linking to my lists, Rita 💛. The kitchen cabinets are gorgeous.)

4. Good stuff from Courtney Carver on Be More With Less: Ditch These 5 Habits Today If You Need More Ease and 10 Little Reflections About Simplifying My Life.

5. This Is What It’s Like to Live in Asheville After Hurricane Helene from Outside. “Our national-parks columnist, a 20-year resident of Asheville, was there when Hurricane Helene’s floods wiped out entire towns in western North Carolina. Nobody expected a storm like this.” In related news, How You Can Support Communities Hit by Hurricanes Helene and Milton.

6. Reason for Living #4: Time is Beans, “guest essay by Jenny Odell, author of How to Do Nothing and Saving Time.”

7. ‘I’ve dealt with anti-hillbilly bigotry all my life’: Barbara Kingsolver on JD Vance, the real Appalachia and why Demon Copperhead was such a hit. “As the Pulitzer-winning author’s little-known debut – about the 1983 Arizona miners’ strike – is published in the UK, she discusses the roots of division in the US, her wild childhood, and putting the story straight about where she’s from.”

8. Heaven, Hell, & Holy Body Norms, “The Christian church’s obsession with thinness, and how it impacts all of us.”

9. Can Staying in Your Comfort Zone Actually Be Healthy for an Introvert?

10. Poems from Julie Barton: Reincarnate, Ghosting the Publisher, Failed Revolution in the Grocery Store, and Overfilled.

11. A vessel, “…the sea is so big and my boat is so small” from
Pádraig Ó Tuama.

12. Good People Won’t Be Voting for Donald Trump, “I’m sorry, that’s just how this is” from The Beautiful Mess by John Pavlovitz.

13. 8 Self Editing Tips, “….and how to let your younger writer self into the world from Laura Lentz.

14. Who I am and how I got here, “Welcome to Play is the Opposite of Survival Mode, a newsletter by Britchida.”

15. Decisions as effort from Seth Godin.

16. Shut Up, Inner Reviewer from Jami Attenberg.

17. The joy of clutter. “The world sees Japan as a paragon of minimalism. But its hidden clutter culture shows that ‘more’ can be as magical as ‘less’.”

18. Five Essential Books For Understanding Native American History.

19. Elizabeth Strout on Complicated People.

20. What Happened to Kmart? (Incompetence, Fraud and Greed)In related news, Kmart through the years, in pictures. I was a Kmart kid.

21. ‘Horrifying’ mistake to take organs from a living person was averted, witnesses say.

22. I Studied Queer Pornography in Law School and Was Told the Subject Would Ruin My Career on Open Secrets. “‘Because Fat Girl’ author Lauren Marie Fleming on pursuing her career passions despite the naysayers.”

23. Son writes humor-filled obituary for his dad: ‘He is God’s problem now.’
“The obituary of the Texas man who died at 74 lampooned his eccentric life and mishaps.”

24. 18 Simple Habits That Will Make You Happier and Healthier.

25. How To Pursue Mindful Engagement This Election Cycle.

26. Science-backed mood boosters to (almost instantly) snap you out of a funk.

27. How to Detangle Your Productivity and Self-Worth.

28. How to Stop Checking Your Phone Every 10 Seconds.

29. 4 Things That Are Not Your Responsibility — Even If Your Anxiety Says They Are.

30. The Cure To Stream Only 2024 Concert Live On YouTube.

31. Cliff Cash: The Long Road(video) “Cliff Cash titled his first special ‘THE LONG ROAD’ because it reflects his 13-year comedy journey, filled with twists and turns…’The Long Road’ is, in essence, a love story—a road comic who has fallen deeply in love with life’s journey: the challenges, the next adventure, the sound of laughter, the pull to say something meaningful, to do something that matters.”

32. ‘Modern Love Podcast’: Amelia Dimoldenberg Can Teach You How to Flirt on The New York Times. (gift link) “The YouTube host who has perfected the art of charming celebrities on her popular show, ‘Chicken Shop Date,’ thinks dating should be way more fun.” 

33. ‘I was on the way to a funeral when the idea came to me’: 2024’s Booker-shortlisted authors on the moment inspiration struck.

34. Bird Divinations: Yellow-Crowned Night Heron, a gorgeous print and poem from Maria Popova.

35. It Took Me 7 Years To Bury My Husband. Here’s What I Learned About Grief During That Time. “I have no real memory of the months after his passing. … I’d ‘wake’ to find myself at the grocery store holding a box of his favorite cereal with no idea how I got there.”

36. For the Grieving, the Global ‘Wind Phone’ Movement Is a Lifeline.

37. And finally, this random collection of things I saved on my phone this week.