Gratitude

Image by Eric

1. SNOW!!! We finally got some actual, honest-to-goodness, full on, genuine snow. We had one morning early in the week where it was very cold and there was just a dusting of snow, but a few days later the real storm showed up. They’d predicted 1-3 inches, but we got eight. It was up to Ringo’s knees. We’d had such a long warm dry fall into the beginning of winter that when the snow came, there was still a lawn chair in the yard and our sun umbrellas were still outside.

2. Morning walks. Because of weather and such, I only ended up on one of these this week, which was weird. It was also a late walk because it was extra cold so Ringo and I waited until later in the morning to walk.

3. Family. Mom is still doing good, sleeping more and talking a lot less, but still remembers who we are and getting such good care. Jessamy’s baby is due late January so she had an ultrasound where we can see the baby’s face. I’m going out to Oregon sometime the end of January, to visit and give Mom a haircut she badly needs, start getting her house ready to sell (*sigh*), and if I’m lucky, meet the new baby. 

4. Practice. No yoga this week either, and I’m really starting to miss them. I had a whole plan for a practice honoring the Full Cold Super Moon, but I’ll just bring it next time. Writing on Friday morning was magic, medicine — oh how I adore that group of women! My meditation practice has been easier to find and settle into, which typically happens during this darker season.

5. My tiny family, small house, little life. I’ve still been telling Eric every day, “I’m glad you’re home,” even though he’s been back from trip for two weeks. Really, I could tell him that every day for the rest of our lives, because I am always glad he’s home.  

Bonus joy: lunch at Mount Everest Café with Eric, texting with Chris and Chloe’, other people’s kids and dogs and Christmas lights, reading poetry, down blankets and pillows and coats, wool sweaters and socks, slippers, watching good TV (right now that’s The Pitt on HBO), listening to podcasts, shopping for Christmas presents (I don’t love everything about it but when I think of something I know someone is really going to like, it makes me happy), a big glass of cold clean water, naan and onion pakora, a hot cup of coffee and warm mug of green tea, Panda Peanut Butter Puffs cereal with Fairlife milk, the moonlight reflecting off the snow, therapy, being able to message my doctor and get a quick response rather than having to schedule and wait for and then pay for an in office appointment, being able to schedule or change or cancel appointments online, Hendrix’s school picture (I know I said that already but it’s right here where I can see it and I just looked at it again), making each other laugh, the hydromassage chair, aqua aerobics, getting to see Frank (my gym dad), sitting in the sauna, snow tires, a warm shower, clean pjs, yoga videos on YouTube (because sometimes I like someone else to tell me what to do, without having to leave the house or put on a bra), naps, clean sheets, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.  

5 thoughts on “Gratitude

  1. Kari's avatarKari

    That last photo of Ringo in the snow looks like a painting- it’s magical. And yay for snow!!

    I haven’t done yoga in over a week. I want to gain motivation again, and I’m planning to focus on that in January. 💜🌈

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    1. jillsalahub's avatarjillsalahub Post author

      There’s some AI feature in my Google photos that lets you “remix” and that’s one I made playing around with it one day.

      Because I’m a teacher too, my personal yoga practice can be weird sometimes. I was doing a YouTube video the other day (because I just wanted to be the “student” for once) but I couldn’t turn my brain off and kept thinking, “Oh, you know what would feel good right here?” and distracting myself.

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      1. Kari's avatarKari

        That’s so cool.

        Melanie was over yesterday, and we were talking about yoga and how I’m not really doing it anymore. We kind of dug into the why, and I think I figured it out. Too long to get into here, but actually having the why feels good.

  2. Melanie R's avatarMelanie R

    That first photo by Eric is stunning.

    Glad you finally got some snow! We’ve had a very snowy December for IL. Just got another 5″ overnight so now we have quite the pile on the ground. Going to be a white Christmas for once. It’s pretty, but I’m already sick of shoveling and having to put on boots.

    Hadn’t heard of The Pitt, so just looked it up. Sounds like a show me and Brian would like. We need something new and good to watch, so thanks for the recommendation!

    Your mom looks so sweet and content. I’m glad you’ll get to see her again in January. And perhaps the new baby (aren’t those 3D ultrasounds wild?!), too.

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    1. jillsalahub's avatarjillsalahub Post author

      I love how he was able to catch the stars in that one, or was it snowflakes? A white Christmas is the best!

      You are welcome. I have two episodes left. I really liked it, even though that sort of show can stress me out sometimes. I thought the characters were really good though.

      And yes, the 3D ultrasounds are kind of weird!

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