Monthly Archives: August 2025

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. Sadly, Eric starts back to work in earnest next week, so no more weekday morning walks together. It’s been hazy and sometimes smoky with the wildfires burning here and northwest of us but early mornings are usually still okay so we get a walk in before it gets too bad. Still haven’t gotten many mosquitoes on this side of town yet and now it’s getting close to when that season is over for the year, so we’ve still been able to walk at our favorite places, near the water. I saw some yellow leaves this week, so even though we’ve got a bunch of 90 degree days in the forecast, fall is on its way.

2. Practice. Yoga at Red Sage, my Friday morning writing sangha, meditating, writing, and making art.

3. Family. My cousin was released from the hospital and is going back home, Mom still remembers us and we are still sending each other selfies, and Lia is riding her bike without training wheels and lost a tooth.

4. Late summer season food. The natural stuff — watermelon, corn, berries, and peaches, and the traditional stuff — potato salad, burgers, potato chips, baked beans, pasta slaw, and pie.

5. My tiny family, small house, little life. We went to a bbq by a lake with friends yesterday and even though I would always rather stay home than anything else, it was fun. I’ve been loving extra on Ringo because our friend Theresa just found out her ghost faced cattle dog Casper who is almost exactly three years young than Ringo and looks so much like him has cancer — send them some love if you’ve got some to spare. 

Bonus joy: texting with Chris and Chloe’, sharing reels with Shellie and Carrie and Kari, realizing that having friends who blog is almost like having penpals, so many good books, watching TV, listening to podcasts, clean laundry and clean sheets, a warm shower, a big glass of cold clean water, other people’s kids and dogs and gardens, listening to other people’s funny or sweet or surprising stories, making each other laugh, a cooler day in the midst of so many hot ones, Sunday morning Pilates, therapy, how much the bees and other bugs love the blooms on our mint, baby deer and their spots, Sunday afternoons, fry sauce, a good watermelon, our whole house fan and fans in general of all kinds, a/c, the view, how Ringo sometimes chooses to hang out with me even if Eric is home, gummies, grapefruit Bubly water, dogs with spots and stripes, baby elephants, stickers, wi-fi, prescription glasses, naps, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep. 

Something Good

1. Poetry: The Peach by James Crews on The Weekly Pause, In the Airport I Wonder about Enough and Perspective and After a Day in the Garden by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, and Things I Did Not Google Today and Such Suffering and Niksen by Julie Barton.

2. Our Last Conversation Was A Song, “What Andrea left me on their way out of this world” from Megan Falley, song by Andrea Gibson.

3. Drawing Is A Relief. “When I’m overwhelmed, I reach for pen and paper” on CartoonCoonie Comics Blog by Connie Sun.

4. The Goodbye Line, “a public art project that invites people to say the goodbyes they never got to say.” You can listen to some messages on their Instagram page.

5. Mini 1000hosted by Jamie Attenberg. “And a lot can be accomplished in three days. You can experiment with something you’ve been meaning to try for a while. Maybe you’ll be able to push yourself across that finish line at last. Or you can even just check in with yourself in a personal way by regularly journaling each day—I find this a refreshing way to use my time during these writing spurts. And I like to look at all that I’ve accomplished over the past few months and make plans for the future. Whatever you use it for, I truly believe this will be a great way to insert some momentum into our projects during those hazy August days.”

6. This line from Anna Guest-Jelley‘s recent newsletter: “It’s easy to not just push your yoga practice to the back burner right now but to forget you have a body entirely.” *sigh*

7. “How Can I Write At A Time Like This?” Some thoughts on writing at a time like this from Alexander Chee.

8. You Must Learn One Thing. “What might be today’s answer to this inquiry for you?” from Erin Geesaman Rabke.

9. How to prioritize better mental health. “Experiment with these 9 suggestions and trust yourself to know what works best for you.” from Courtney Carver on Little Saturday — “I created this space, Little Saturday, as your cozy corner of the internet, to share what I’ve learned (and what I’m still learning) about living a gentle, simple, beautifully slow (joyful) life, and to help you do the same.”

10. Families in Gaza Are Starving. What Can We Do?

11. 6 Things People Do Differently In Finland, The Happiest Country In The World.

12. 7 Wake-up Calls You Can’t Ignore Anymore from Courtney Carver on Be More With Less.

13. What Happened When I Tried to Replace Myself with ChatGPT in My English Classroom. “Piers Gelly on a Semester-Long Dive into the AI Discourse.”

14. marie howe + sleep + kitchen + garden + guitar + love + ocean = Attempts at Staying Sane at This Moment in Time by Elissa Altman.

15. An Almanac of Birds: Divinations for Uncertain Days by Maria Popova.

16. “I don’t know how to make other people care…” On lamentations (of powerlessness, of isolation, of overwhelm) from Garrett Bucks on The White Pages.

17. Society Makes Caregiving Harder Than It Has to Be, “With apologies to my late husband” from Elizabeth Kleinfeld.

18. Permission To Write About Your Family. “Permission to write about anything in your life, really” from Jami Attenberg.

19. How to love people, a partial list by Jen Lemen.

20. The transformative power of keeping a daily journal.

21. The Complete Epiphanies by Brian Doyle. “A blog about the stories that nourish and sustain us, and the small miracles of everyday life.”

22. Tim Dowling: the old dog snorted with delight – and then she was gone. “Our short stay in the country ended in heartbreak. If there’s a best way for an animal to die, I can’t say I’ve found it.”

23. Leisha Hailey and Kate Moennig Go from The L Word to Authors. “Real-life besties Leisha Hailey and Kate Moennig sit down with Janelle Beck to discuss their joint memoir So Gay for You, which is a New York Times bestseller—and the phenomenon that was the groundbreaking and yet to be equaled show The L Word, which ushered in a new era of lesbian visibility.”

24. And finally, this collection of things I saved to my phone this week.