Monthly Archives: August 2025

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. We had some cooler weather and storms this week, and it was lovely, although humid. Things are turning golden and the rabbitbrush is blooming — which I didn’t know until now is a shrub in the sunflower family. Eric and I both saw the baby whitetails and their mamas on separate walks. Since Ringo typically doesn’t bark at them unless they are running away, the tiny herd Eric saw were walking right up to him, got so close. Ringo also found a new lost toy this morning. It’s just so cute to me how happy and almost proud he seems when he finds one, how he thinks it’s his job to “rescue” them and bring them home.

Video by Eric

2. Practice: writing every morning, meditating in my practice room, yoga at Red Sage, my Friday morning writing sangha which I had to skip this week because of a doctor’s appointment which made it so clear how much I love it and miss it if I can’t be there.

3. Eric, or as he’s being called today, Elfis. Every year, his D&D group invite other players to an all day event with a theme and costumes. This year was disco 70s, so Eric’s character was a karate loving elf Elvis impersonator. He might not dress up for Halloween or Tour de Fat, and he is still a massive introvert, but he goes all out for Stefcon. After at least seven years of this event, our garage looks like the costume closet of a high school drama department. He is such a nerd and I love it.

Here’s a few costumes from years past.

4. The magic and the mundane of life. When I got in my car yesterday on my way to a doctor’s appointment, two hummingbirds stopped to rest in our lilac bush right above where I was parked. 

5. My tiny family, small house, little life. I am exactly where I always wanted to be, doing what I always wanted to do, and my two favorites are here with me. Eric and Ringo have this cute routine when Eric comes home from work where they greet each other and then get on the floor and Ringo gets some extra love.

Bonus joy: Jessamy’s birthday, the baby growing in her belly, pictures of her other two “babies” having fun at the state fair, texting with Chris and Chloe’, Sunday morning Pilates, how good it feels to stretch, how great my primary care doctor is, therapy, a check up of a 20 year old tooth implant that ended with “it all looks good” and also seeing our dental hygienist Teri at the office working (they implied at Eric’s last cleaning with a different technician that she’d retired), Mom doing well even as her primary nurse says she’s “slowly winding down,” Liminal’s spicy sesame bowl, peaches and watermelon and corn on the cob, good TV (I just finished both seasons of Love Hurts on Netflix and really liked it), libraries and librarians, poetry and poets, listening to podcasts, streaming music libraries, listening to music loud while I drive around with my windows rolled down, making a playlist for my yoga class, comedy and comedians, true crime, getting books from the library on my Kindle, onion buns, a big glass of cold clean water, gummies, the way the light shifts as it turns towards fall, night lights, naps, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.

Something Good

1. Poetry: Imagine if schools replaced detention with poetry assignments by Christopher Sexton, The Mower by Philip Larkin shared by Patti Digh, What You Won’t Hear On Cable News by Carrie Newcomer shared on Heart Poems, Even the Wild Rumpus Must End and Past Dusk by Julie Barton, Enter the Temple from James Crews and The Weekly Pause.

2. Capture the Dark 2025: Winning photographs. “With over 2,200 entries, from over 22 countries, together we’ve created a powerful story of the night: revealing its wonder, exploring its mysteries, and inviting others to join us in our journey to protect it.”

3. Turning Neighborhoods into Communities. “How 3 Supernuclear readers became case studies for local connection.”

4. What ‘Food Noise’ Is Really Trying to Tell You from Gina Luker.

5. Why Uncertainty Is Good for Us. “Most of us want to avoid uncertainty, but the latest scientific research is showing that uncertainty may be essential for our overall well-being. Here’s how mindfulness can help us unlock its beneficial potential.”

6. I Stopped Reaching for My Phone First Thing—and My Mornings Got So Much Better. “The ‘no-scroll morning’ routine that keeps me grounded and energized.”

7. Recipe I want to try: I have some tomatoes from a friend’s garden so I think I should make this Bruschetta.

8. The Dog Days And Your Creative Juices, a gorgeous video by Noah Kalina. “On today’s show we talk about how hot it is. Can you believe it? It’s so hot. I can’t do anything. But I did go out one morning when it was foggy. There was one day that was fine. But will it ever be fine? Or is it just the Dog Days? I call my dad and ask him about burnout and feeling guilty about not doing work. He gives some pretty good advice.” 

9. Wisdom from Patti Digh: The quiet power of choice architecture (“designing my life for better decisions”) and When a broken bridge is a signal (“You are recoverable”).

10. Conservative Christians Are Saying, “To Hell With Jesus” on The Beautiful Mess by John Pavlovitz. “I’m willing to go out on a theological limb here and say that if you’re applauding the harassment, fining, and arrest of homeless human beings, you’re not a Jesus Christian. I mean, you can go to church as often as you want, you can stick as many WWJD bumper stickers on your car as you’d like, and you can drop all the scripture quotes into your social media profile that your heart desires—but if you’re celebrating the elimination of reduced lunches, food stamp programs, and low-income housing, well, let’s just say your religion is short one Jesus.”

11. Step The Fuck Up or It’s Over, “Silence, Fascism, and the History Unfolding” by Frederick Joseph.

12. When fear hums beneath everything, “Connection as Survival” from Alix Klingenberg.

13. A Life With Less Pleasure Reading, “If a life has no space to read for pleasure, is that life too full?” from Anne Helen Petersen.

14. Aha! from Seth Godin.

15. I Thought Grief Would Destroy Me, “Instead, I Made My Partner Into A God” from Megan Falley. 

16. Raccoon spotted riding alligators across Florida lake. 😆

17. Baby skunk stomps(Facebook reel) It’s embarrassing how many times I’ve watched this video, but he’s SO cute! 🥰

18. Urgent Surgery for Abandoned puppy GoFundMe.

19. Positive Obsession: The Life and Times of Octavia E. Butler, a new book by Susana M. Morris. I had no idea this book was being written, and I’m so excited — you may not know this about me, but I ADORE Octavia Butler and every single thing she wrote. In related news, Exploring Octavia Butler’s Beginnings as a Sci-Fi Trailblazer (“Susana M. Morris on the Early Writing of a Literary Icon”) and ‘Positive Obsession’ Is a Fresh Look at Octavia E. Butler (“A new biography by Susana M. Morris reveals the struggles, passions and triumphs that shaped the science fiction icon and her books”) on The New York Times (gift link).

Side note: I sure wish when a new book was released, you had the option to get a hardback or paperback copy, because I don’t like hardbacks but in this case and so often, I also hate waiting.

20. Serena Williams built her legacy on defiance. Why lend it to Ozempic culture? “From Compton outsider to American nonpareil, she came to embody resistance to toxic norms. But her embrace of GLP-1 drugs feels like capitulation to ideals she once rejected.”

Just to be clear: I believe in body autonomy. People living in a body have the right to do whatever they want — “your body, your choice.” AND I find this whole issue and the surrounding conversation fascinating and complicated. 

21. And this collection of random things I saved to my phone this week.