Monthly Archives: August 2023

Something Good

1. Wisdom from Danny Gregory“Money and value are not the same thing. You can be a billionaire and still be a miserable egomaniac who’ll never be satisfied. Or you can live simply, draw in a handmade sketchbook with a cheap pencil every day, and feel like the richest person who ever lived.”

2. Spell Against Indifference, a poem from Maria Popova.

3. Sunrise, sunset. “Being part of a place, witnessing the turn.”

4. Speaking up from Seth Godin. Also from Seth, The convenience fee.

5. The Wisdom of Respite.

6. The End of the “Social” in Media from Frederick Joseph. “How mainstream social media lured us with connection, then sold us out.”

7. Being with Love, Death and Grief: Tara Brach and Frank Ostaseski(video) “Grief is our natural way of expressing loss for what we love, and learning to open to grief serves the deepening and widening of our loving. This event, given at the Upaya Zen Center on June 25, 2023, includes short meditations and talks by Frank and Tara, and powerful sessions of questions and responses.”

8. Poetry from Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer: When It Rains and This Land.

9. Celebrating 27 years without a net from Patti Digh. “I started my own business in August 1996. Here’s what I’ve learned about working as a solo entrepreneur since then. Part One.”

10. Pep Talk from Maggie Smith. “You’re not for everyone.”

11. The Door Opened“Nancy Hamilton’s enlightening poem ‘The Door Opened’ revels in the glory of openness and emptiness, and overcoming illusions. A meditative narrative on overcoming barriers to inner peace and truth, this poem shows us that perhaps the obstacles we thought existed perhaps were never even there at all. ‘I wrote this piece inspired by an experience I had on retreat where what I was experiencing in meditation was mirrored by what I saw in the material world at the same time,’ Nancy informed The Dewdrop.”

12. 19 of Your Gardening and Landscaping Questions, Answered by a Plant Expert.

13. 99 Ways To Love Yourself A Little Better.

14. I only travel solo because I need to schedule nap time on vacation.

15. Melbourne’s trees bombarded with emailed love letters“City council gives identification numbers to its 70,000 trees which allow admirers to write Dear Tree letters – and get replies.”

16. Recipes I want to try: Pasta with Tomato Pesto and Garlicky Breadcrumbs, and Zucchini Patties, and Korean Beef Bowl Meal Prep, and Brownie Bread.

17. Wisdom from Maya Angelou: “Every person needs to take one day away. A day in which one consciously separates the past from the future. Jobs, family, employers, and friends can exist one day without any one of us, and if our egos permit us to confess, they could exist eternally in our absence. Each person deserves a day away in which no problems are confronted, no solutions searched for. Each of us needs to withdraw from the cares which will not withdraw from us.”

18. An Opulent Kintsugi Installation by Victor Solomon Gilds a Dilapidated Basketball Court in Los Angeles.

19. ‘I wanted to be small and not seen’: how Shallow Hal almost broke Gwyneth Paltrow’s body double.

20. Solitary confinement and $7,999 tickets: Inside the chaotic plans for Fyre Festival II“The sequel literally nobody asked for.”

21. Women In Their 40s Need To Eat Differently, And I Promise It’s Not Just To Make Them Look Younger.

22. Maui Is Still in Crisis. Here’s How to Help“Support the survivors of the wildfire by donating directly and by following these activists and organizations for real-time updates on what’s needed now.”

23. What to Read When You’re Seeking Wonder in Times of Grief.

24. Miley Cyrus Cried While Filming the “Used to Be Young” Video Because She Was Watching Her Mom on Set.

25. Cozy up in Tokyo’s ‘Midnight Diner’ for the TV version of comfort foodIt’s a really good show.

26. ‘Trail of the Lost’ is a gripping tale of hikers missing on the Pacific Crest Traila book review.

27. Sidewalk GardenI love this SO much.

28. Good stuff from Austin Kleon: Will this enlarge me or diminish me? and Writer’s block is trying to tell you something.

29. How Sensitive People Can Deal With the Pressure They Put on Themselves to Be ‘the Best’Clearly I needed to hear this, because it made me cry.

30. Don’t check the clock! 15 ways to get back to sleep when you wake at 3am.

31. Wisdom from Kurt Vonnegut: “And how should we behave during this Apocalypse? We should be unusually kind to one another, certainly. But we should also stop being so serious. Jokes help a lot. And get a dog, if you don’t already have one,” (by way of Hugh Hollowell’s weekly Life Is So Beautiful list).

32. José González – El Invento (Official Music Video). This gorgeous video and song were shared in A Grace Full Life’s What I Kept August 2023 post, which is also worth a look. She always shares such sweet things.

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. I’ve been calling it “river medicine” when we get to walk by the water. This past week, I could start to see the tiniest bit of fall creeping in, although it’s also greener than it’s ever been this late in the summer because of all the rain we’ve had. We saw a heron and heard an owl one morning when we walked along the river. I also noticed that the narrowleaf cottonwoods, one of my favorite fall color trees, are losing their leaves from a fungus (again, because of all the rain) but my friend Jim assured me it makes the leaves drop but doesn’t kill the tree. The other days we walked at the cemetery, which I could call “death medicine.” 

2. Family. My dad is still here/there, still under hospice care, and in related news, my mom had a stroke last week and is in the hospital. Seriously, it’s so awful it’s almost unbelievable, bordering on ridiculous. Thank goodness it was a “small” stroke, but she is still going to need some time in a rehab, which means my brother and nieces, my mom’s siblings and friends are all helping out, taking care of Dad and visiting with Mom. I’m so grateful I got to spend the time with them I did recently, and so glad that there are so many other people who love them who can offer their support when I can’t be there. 

3. Practice. It really is the only reason I’m still standing, still here, not losing my sh*t right now. This past weekend I did a restorative yoga teacher training and it made me realize that even now, STILL, I deny myself comfort and care, that I still have work to do when it comes to really and fully loving and honoring myself. 

4. Massage with Dana. Even though I’ve been seeing her for the past eight years and no one else, that’s still what I put on my calendar when we have a session, “Massage with Dana.” She really is the best. I trust her, we make each other laugh, she’s so kind and smart, I can talk to her about anything, and it’s incredibly healing to work with her. 

5. My tiny family, small home, little life. I love it here, so much.

Bonus joy: figuring out that if my Kindle library loan is due back but I’m not finished and can’t renew it because someone else has it on hold all I have to do is put my Kindle in airplane mode and they can’t take the book back, being able to get books from the library for my Kindle, the library, books, sharing books, Tour de Fat because even though I complain about the complete chaos of it every year I’m glad that people are willing to be weird in public and bring their kids and dogs along, I’m also grateful that I made it though another Tour de Fat without killing anyone on a bike because half of them are drunk and the other half aren’t paying attention, rewatching Iron Chef with Eric, fans of all sorts, tomatoes and raspberries from the garden, the Rocky Mountain Bee plant in our front yard, being able to text with Chris and Mom, the texts Chloe’ sends me and the Instagram reels Shellie shares with me, that Chelsey understands exactly what I’m going through, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.