Monthly Archives: January 2021

Gratitude Friday

The view from here, on the front porch

1. We’re still here. As Mary Oliver wrote in her poem Invitation: “It is a serious thing just to be alive on this fresh morning in the broken world.” Today I am filled with grief, joy, rage, love, and confusion. And I’m still here. I’m not giving up. Don’t you give up either, kind and gentle reader — we need each other. And I mean this so sincerely, to know that there are others “out there” trying to make things better keeps me going.

The view from here, in the back yard

2. Practice. More than ever. I hope you have something similar, something that gives you a safe space to process, a soft place to land and a strong foundation, a still moment to be, to feel all the things.

3. Nourishment, comfort, and inspiration, in all its forms. Friends, family, dogs, birds at the feeder, sunshine, snow, the river, the sky, good mail, music, the pool, the sauna, essential workers, first responders, farm workers, medical professionals and staff, vaccines, clementines, fresh baked bread, pay day, podcasts, movies, TV, books, comedy, indoor plants, down pillows and blankets, soft merino wool, my HappyLight, texting with my mom and brother, hanging out and writing with Mikalina, hanging out with Chloe’, reading in bed at night while Ringo and Eric sleep.

4. The internet and the various devices that connect me to it. I get that we have to be careful, that there is risk and danger, but I am sitting here, connecting with you, sharing pictures I took with my phone, listening to one of my favorite playlists on Spotify using my Bluetooth speaker. I can text and Zoom with people I love but can’t see in person, I can access more content than I could consume in ten lifetimes. Etc.

5. Morning walks. It’s so dark out right now that there aren’t as many opportunity for pictures, but even as I say that, we are moving closer to the light.

6. My tiny family. They are my favorite.

Something Good

May all beings be safe
May all beings be happy
May all beings be healthy
May all beings be content
May all beings love themselves completely
And with great kindness
Just as they are now
No matter what happens

1. I Dream of Pie from my beloved friend and teacher Laurie Wagner. “It’s been a year like that; the life before, the life now – how what seemed like a dream, an impossible way to live, has become so real. The masks, how we line up to enter a store, sometimes getting our temperature checked at the door, the way we reach out toward our screens to touch the people we love.” Check out her Wild Writing Family offering. The practice with her as a guide is magic, medicine.

2. Beautiful Writers Podcast. “Listen in as author Linda Sivertsen (aka Book Mama) brings together the world’s most beloved authors for monthly chats on writing, publishing, deal-making, spirituality, activism, and the art of romancing creativity.”

3. Writer Resolution 2021: How We Heal, How We Grow on Terrible Minds by Chuck Wendig. “So, the resolution for me, and maybe for you, is this year looking toward healing and growing — a rise and return. Not some PHOENIX burn where we go from PILE OF ASH to ANGRY FIRE EAGLE, but something slower, more measured, more deliberate.”

4. is it a resolution or is it capitalism by Anne Helen Petersen. “Americans love New Year’s resolutions because we are perpetual strivers obsessed with self-improvement.” I love Anne’s weekly newsletter and her list of links. From this one, I really liked Hard Lessons on Compassion and When Will We Be Able to Take the Indoors for Granted Again? She also shared a much longer list of her favs from 2020, “A totally unorganized, uncategorized list of writing for a year that felt the same.”

5. 7 Things You Definitely Won’t Need This Year (or ever again) from Be More With Less.

6. Good stuff from Austin Kleon: A Happy New Year’s message from our backyard and 100 things that made my year (2020).

7. Good stuff on Lion’s Roar: A New Year’s Blessing (“Zen teacher Karen Maezen Miller offers some words to help us all start the year off right”), and How to Establish a Daily Practice of Almost Anything, in Six Steps (an older piece I’ve shared before, but it seems like the right time to share it again), and Another New Year (“On the last night of the year, meditating with others is exactly what Natalie Goldberg finds she needs”).

8. Reading lists: The Ultimate Best Books of 2020 List and The Award-Winning Novels of 2020.

9. The 10 best films of 2020.

10. A Gentle Reminder That 2021 Isn’t Going To Be A Magical Cure For 2020.

11. Heart Wisdom with Jack Kornfield – Ep. 121 – Reflect on Gratitude. “Gratitude is a gracious acknowledgment of all that sustains us, a bow to our blessings, great and small. Gratitude is the confidence in life itself. In it, we feel how the same force that pushes grass through cracks in the sidewalk can invigorate our own life. This episode of the Heart Wisdom podcast is a reflection on gratitude.”

12. We Tried Oprah’s Favorite Emergency Kit, And We Love It.

13. Vibrant Botanic Embroideries Embellish the Dried Leaf Sculptures of Hillary Waters Fayle.

14. Robert Jones Jr. Is Son of Baldwin, and More on The New York Times. “The writer’s debut novel, ‘The Prophets,’ is the Black queer love story he longed to read.”

15. Atlanta Homeless Man Saves 16 Animals From Burning Building.

16. Colorado woman hikes 485 miles to challenge assumptions about race and the outdoors.