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Something Good

One of my favorite Susan Piver quotes, from Susan's Instagram

One of my favorite Susan Piver quotes, from her Instagram

1. Army Corps Denies Easement For Dakota Access Pipeline. I first saw the news on my Facebook feed while I was waiting in line at the grocery store yesterday — I don’t think anyone noticed I was crying. It’s also important to remember, however, that this isn’t over. And in related news, Beloved Horse Blanket Donated To Standing Rock. *sob* And in other related news that might make you giggle, Standing Rock – Ultra Spiritual Life episode 46.

2. An epic scavenger hunt. (Thanks for the link, Shellie).

3. BotJoy. (Thanks for reminding me of this one too, Shellie).

4. WhatDoIDoAboutTrump.com, “a resource hub for people who are upset about the election and want to make a difference. We feature the best campaigns and resources created since the election — in a simple and well-designed format — to help you get active. We also offer tools to help you stay active because we know it can be hard to find time in our busy lives.”

5. Patton Oswalt’s Year of Magical Parenting. Confession: I wasn’t ever a huge Patton Oswalt fan. I liked him just fine, but I didn’t go out of my way to seek out his work. Now though — I think he’s one of the most awesome humans, and any time he writes something or does an interview, I’m there.

6. Japanese Americans Talk About World War II Incarceration. Can we please not do this again.

7. There was some really problematic body-shaming during the “Gilmore Girls” revival. Word.

8. Opportunities for White People in the Fight for Racial Justice, “Moving from Actor → Ally → Accomplice.”

9. Recipe I’d like to try: Curried Butternut Squash Soup.

10. Prison Reform Myths: Shutting Down BS with Michelle Alexander.

11. Justin Normand’s Facebook post, “I’m the Texan who held the “You Belong” sign in front of the mosque in Irving.”

12. DoSometing.org. “A global movement for good. 5.5 million young people making positive change, both online and off. Team up with young people in every US zip code and in 131 countries.”

13. Christmas gifts for the homeless. “What do homeless people want for Christmas? Their responses may surprise you.”

14. Injustice Boycott. It starts tomorrow. Watch this Facebook Live video to get some context, or watch this short clip from Democracy Now. Read this about the boycott’s historical and philosophical framework.

15. You can’t go home again on Rita’s Notebook. “Since November 8, I have felt as if we’re all now living in what we’ll come to think of as After.”

16. Racism With No Racists: The President Trump Conundrum. “The issue there is the definition of ‘racial’ — of or about race — isn’t at all what racism is. Racism is not about race. Everybody has race. And, that’s not how we’re using it. Racism is about racial hatred, animus rooted in racial superiority beliefs that often justify the unfair allocation of resources, both cultural and material.”

17. Gifts for Writers, 2016 on Terrible Minds.

18. This teen is the new leader in the fight against gun violence.

19. Top 43 Meditation Blogs You Need To Be Reading.

20. How my grumpy 75-year-old father learned Instagram to show his love to his three grandchildren.

21. Fuck this Shit, an Advent devotional.

22. What if you could change the world by doing nothing? | Susan Piver | TEDxAruba

23. Being Watched. “New website seeks to register professors accused of liberal bias and ‘anti-American values'” and Professor Watchlist Is Seen as Threat to Academic Freedom. This is some next level bullshit. The sort of thing that leads to this shit, White Power Leader’s New Target: Colleges. And this, I’m a liberal professor and my conservative students terrify me.

24. Supporting fat women in the time of Trump. “We don’t just need you to dispose of the noisiest bully. We need you to challenge the culture that created him.” And why it matters so much: Fatphobia Claims Another Life.

25. The FLASH drives from Seth Godin. “Fear, loneliness, anger, shame & hunger.”

26. Good stuff from Lion’s Roar: Among the Bodhisattvas at Standing Rock, and What About the Cost of Retreats?

27. You Don’t Have To Like Me—You Just Have To Believe I’m A Human Being.

28. Leah Remini: Scientology and the Aftermath. I didn’t get to watch this yet, but I’m going to.

29. You’ve Been Trumped, a documentary. Again, as above, I didn’t get to watch this yet, but I’m going to.

30. Episode #43: Are You Authentic, or Are You A Fraud? A podcast I want to listen to. Jamie always has good stuff to say. “In this episode Jamie reveals the magical 3 p’s: Presence, Peace and Power and how these lead to authenticity within yourself. You will also learn the tell-tale symptoms of when you are being a fraud and not living into who you actually are.”

31. Coping with Chaos in the White House. This sounds right to me.

32. “Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack“, Peggy McIntosh’s classic essay about White Privilege.

33. Good stuff from Jena Schwartz: “How Can I Help You” and Other Three-Dimensional Questions, and The Art of Becoming a Boring Writer (and Embracing It), because this:

…when I’m no longer oriented towards the next shoe dropping or the next big drama, writing requires a new kind of courage and creativity.

It’s the creativity to recognize that everyday life is teeming with writing-worthy moments. And it’s the courage to show up not only when everything’s chaotic, not only when I’m in a place of unrest or searching or heightened emotion or shifting ground, but from inside of everyday life, against a backdrop and in the context of extraordinary conditions. Because for better or for worse, the world is not short on extraordinary conditions.

And later in the same post, “The whole having-a-body thing, being-in-relationship thing, and making-a-difference thing? Dude.”

34. David Rees breaks down how much money he’s made freelancing for 15 years.

35. My Grown-up Christmas List from Curly Girl Design. “Needless to say, this list has been eye opening and a tiny bit sobering. Full of practical things, things-that-I-wish-just-happend-for-me things, and things-that-would-just-make-my-daily-life-happier-or-easier (or, have fewer holes in it) things, this list is not glamorous, but I am willing to bet one or two of these things is secretly on your list.” The first thing on the list, for sure.

36. I Read 50 Books by Women of Color This Year! I’m keeping this list to add to my own, (which is already more than I could possibly read in one lifetime). In related news, 6 Podcasts Hosted By Women of Color, Because There’s Life Beyond Ira Glass, I Promise.

37. 20+ Comics That Capture Life With Anxiety and Depression.

38. Wanting to lose weight isn’t shameful. “Practitioners who offer weight loss may not understand the necessity to heal relationship with food and body in order to create the conditions that make body acceptance possible. Once you heal that stuff, the concept of weight loss is way too tiny to fit all the radical self-care you will employ to honor all that you are.”

Something Good

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1. A twist on the mannequin challenge, DOGS! This one is my favorite, because Cattle Dogs are the best.

2. Recipes I want to try: Zucchini Carrot Fritters, and Slow Cooker Butternut Squash Soup, and Loaded Fried Mashed Potatoes, and Twice Baked Sweet Potatoes with Broccoli, and Pull-Apart Holiday Monkey Bread.

3. Kendrick Eagle: Message to President Obama. “A message from a young Indigenous man, Kendrick Eagle, who met President Obama in 2014 and was promised the president would have his back.” #NoDAPL In related news, Dispatch from the front lines at Standing Rock: Call your President. And if you don’t know what to say when you call, this might help, Official Press Release for Oceti Sakowin, or Cory Booker’s letter to the Department of Justice. And, At Standing Rock and Beyond, What Is to Be Done?, which asks, “What kind of machine produces violence to meet prayer, and prison in return for demanding resources to simply live? What kind of machine responds to those trying to protect their water by spraying them in subfreezing temperatures with water?” And this, Sioux Tribe Leader Responds to Army Corps Eviction Letter With Ominous Warning to US Gov’t. And this, Portraits from the Standing Rock protests. Also, did you hear that a group of military veterans are going to Standing Rock to offer support the water protectors? This post made from Zhooniya Ogitchida me cry.

“I am a 10 year, 2x war veteran. I am not a protestor, I am an Ogitchida, I am here to protect these people from you. I am a defender of the constitution. I came to see this for myself. I seen the rubber bullets, I seen the gas, I seen the attack dogs, I seen the water at freezing temperature. I seen the riot gear and the violence inflicted on so many U.S. citizens. I seen how you’ve been mistreating my people. I am the first of many warriors to come.”

4. Making America White Again from Toni Morrison. “The choices made by white men, who are prepared to abandon their humanity out of fear of black men and women, suggest the true horror of lost status.”

5. Gaslighting Is a Common Victim-Blaming Abuse Tactic – Here Are 4 Ways to Recognize It in Your Life. In related news, 7 Tactics of Emotional Abuse Used By Trump Supporters Post-Election.

6. A Thanksgiving Blog (for people who suck at Thanksgiving).

7. President-elect Trump finds himself learning what the job really entails from SNL.

8. Christmas Time Is Here – Daniela Andrade ft. Cutest Dog in the Galaxy. It’s time. This, on repeat.

9. The 10 Best books of 2016, according to The Washington Post.

10. How You Can Help The Standing Rock Sioux Fight The Dakota Access Pipeline. Please, please, please, do whatever you can. In related news, Thousands of veterans are traveling to Standing Rock to stop the Dakota Access Pipeline — and this man is leading them.

11. Secret Life of 4 Year Olds: Cuddles and Coleslaws. OMG, these kids are so cute.

12. 13 Intersectional Grassroots Organizations To Donate To Right Now.

13. 6 Quick Questions to Help You Simplify and Free Up Time for What Truly Matters.

14. “Self-help,” from Matt Haig’s Reasons To Stay Alive.

15. The Mental Habit of Feeling Rushed & Overwhelmed from Zen Habits.

16. How one restaurant nourishes the soul.

17. Two Kinds of Quiet from Jena Schwartz.

Take your anger, your grief, your fear, your overwhelm — whatever states you find yourself cycling through — and let them be guides. Show up without knowing what you will write or say. Trust your instincts: join up with people you can learn from and move away from people who make you feel unsafe or crazy. And if the quiet of really listening for where you belong is trying to get your attention, let it.

18. How To Be A Person by Shane Koyczan, (thanks to Kirsten for reminding me). And if that isn’t enough, Instructions For A Bad Day by Shane Koyczan

19. Closer – The Chainsmokers ft. Halsey (Boyce Avenue ft. Sarah Hyland cover). I love this version. And if you really listen to the lyrics of this song, it’s the saddest thing ever… “We ain’t ever getting older.” *sigh*

20. Wall of Us. “He promised a wall. He will be stopped by a wall of us. Four concrete acts of resistance delivered to your inbox each week.”

21. A wish from Maya Angelou, “My wish for you is that you continue. Continue to be who and how you are, to astonish a mean world with your acts of kindness. Continue to allow humor to lighten the burden of your tender heart.”

22. Body Positivity is Political and Other Things to Know & Do.

23. Why I Left White Nationalism.

There are millions of Americans who don’t understand why anyone might worry about the effects of this election. They see it as ‘feelings’ versus their own real concerns. Those of us on the other side need to be clear that Mr. Trump’s callous disregard for people outside his demographic is intolerable, and will be destructive to the entire nation.

24. Safety Pin Box, “a monthly subscription box for white people striving to be allies in the fight for Black Liberation. Box memberships are a way to not only financially support Black femme freedom fighters, but also complete measurable tasks in the fight against white supremacy.”

25. Garbage singer Shirley Manson on beauty and social media. “There’s so much pressure on young women to be beautiful, to put a photograph up on social media and have people go, ‘Wow, you’re so beautiful.’ Unfortunately it’s such an empty pursuit, really, to be told you’re beautiful.”

26. Dogs are the best. These 9 hilarious comics remind us why. Not that I needed the reminder.