Monthly Archives: August 2012

Three Truths and One Wish

1. Truth: Confidence is the antidote to fear. It is medicine for the poison of anxiety and worry. And it doesn’t mean being cocky or puffed up about yourself. It means open-hearted faith in your own capacity for natural wisdom and compassion, belief in fundamental, basic goodness. It means resting in the knowledge that everything is unfolding exactly as it should be, and that everything presents an opportunity to love more, to learn to practice and get stronger.

2. Truth: I will know what to do when the bad stuff happens. It will be bad, hard, brutal, and maybe even terrifying, but I will be able to handle it, make the right decisions, do the right thing.

3. Truth: I don’t have to live in the someday moment of terror right now. I don’t have to actively reject it, plan for it, worry about it, or anticipate it. I can surrender, let go and be present in this moment. This moment when he is here, I can see him, reach out and touch his physical form, a body that right now is surprisingly healthy and strong, alive.

One wish: That everyone suffering from physical illness, whether it be chronic, temporary, or terminal feel some relief, experience love, connection, and joy in this moment.

August Break: Day 29

This is a picture of me and my oldest niece, (who knows what we were eating, but we were enjoying it). It was taken ten years ago. She turns 14 today. When I look at this picture, I see how much younger we both were, and wonder at how much more innocent.

In the past ten years, we’ve both been through some really hard things — some of them happened to us but some of it was self-imposed suffering. We are both smarter and stronger for it. My wish on her birthday is that in the next year we each experience more love and more joy. Happiest of birthdays to you, Love Bug!