Monthly Archives: September 2025

Something Good

1. Poetry: Mary Oliver Says and Found Joy and Here’s To You and On Being Alone by Julie Barton, There Is A Road Inside Me and On the Eve of His 21st Birthday and On the Phone, Far Away and Sitting in a Quiet Room by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, Who Am I to You? from Jena Schwartz, Aging Gratefully from The Weekly Pause by James Crews, Yes by William Stafford shared by Patti Digh, Keeping Quiet by Pablo Neruda, and Go Now. Get Born. Live. “On the poetry of my grief, and saying yes” from Megan Falley.

In related news, this offering from Laurie Wagner at 27 Powers, Writing the Resistance: “Praise as protest. Grief as witness. Words as shelter.” with Alison Luterman.

The world feels overwhelming these days. The news shouts at us louder than our own heartbeats, and often it’s hard to know how to respond. Maybe you’ve felt silenced, unsure of what to say, exhausted or afraid of sounding angry or strident. This writing class is about finding another way in.

My friend, poet and essayist, Alison Luterman, has always written her way through these times by listening closely to what’s right in front of her — her neighborhood, her friends and family, the rawness of children growing up, the Vietnamese elders down the street, the Mexican neighbors next door. She writes from her grief and her praise, lifting up the human moments that stitch life together.

For Alison, resistance is about paying attention. It’s about naming what she loves. It’s about the quiet act of bearing witness. It’s praising the very things we cannot bear to lose. Writing the Resistance isn’t about ranting or preaching. It’s about dropping below the noise into the heart of our lives — where resistance shows up as love, attention, and devotion. Come sit with us, and let’s write our way toward what matters most.

2. From Seth Godin: Kinds of reckless and No time?

3. Bad pencils make for good epiphanies from Jenny Lawson.

4. The Death of Social in Social Media, “The Reality-TVification of Ordinary Life” by Frederick Joseph. “That is the fracture line. For me, social media has always been a form of conversation, an imperfect extension of the ways we keep in touch and build collective thought. For others, Miranda included, it has become a stage. A place where ordinary life is recast as a series of episodes, each post designed as content, each follower reframed as a spectator. It is the difference between living in community and clamoring for stardom, between being a person online and auditioning to be the star of your own reality show.”

5. Let September Be Softer from Meg Josephson.

6. Writing 87 obituaries taught me we are more alike than we think.

7. Heaven Is Right Here. Is It? “What to do when love isn’t reaching out” by Satya Robyn.

8. A Whimsical Rebellion. “What if we fill our lives with the most radical act of all: refusing despair?” by Gina Luker.

9. “The fall of autumn,” In which I wax sentimental about the season at hand by Jonathan Edward Durham.

10. Smartphone Free Childhood: the unstoppable rise of a culture-shifting campaign. “With smartphones a near-constant presence in children’s lives, one grassroots movement is pushing back – with remarkable force. Smartphone Free Childhood began with a conversation between two parents and has exploded into a nationwide campaign that’s captured headlines, inspired school reforms and signed up tens of thousands of families.”

11. Wainwright prize for nature writing awarded to memoir about raising a hare during lockdown. “Debut author Chloe Dalton’s ‘dream-like’ book Raising Hare follows the writer from London to the countryside.”

12. How Japanese ‘tiny forests’ are sweeping Scotland. “Grown using the Miyawaki method, fast-growing miniature forests in the middle of cities can bring surprisingly big benefits for people and the environment.”

13. 6 Qualities to look for in housemates (that go beyond splitting rent)Here’s hoping I won’t ever need this advice again in my lifetime.

14. 12 of the Best Fall Foliage Hikes in the U.S.—From Alaska to Tennessee. “If you want to soak in the best that autumn has to offer, it’s time to hit the trail.”

15. The Permission Workbook: On Revenge Writing (A Bad Idea) by Elissa Altman.

16. How do you respond when a famous person whose ideology you abhor is shot and killed? “The same way you respond to every death in a world too full of it” by Garrett Bucks on The White Pages.

17. Why do we collect things? “Desire, nostalgia, loss, and completeness in the personal collections of Joseph Cornell, Peter Blake, and Vladimir Nabokov” from Elsie Morales.

18. Why wisdom can’t be taught by Manfred F. R. Kets de Vries. “So — can wisdom be taught? The sad truth is: no. Not really. It must be lived. And living is rarely a very tidy process.”

19. Stay Informed Without Drowning in Anxiety by Leo Babauta on Zen Habits.

20. If You Want to Simplify Your Life, Stop Doing These 7 Things.

21. Recipe I want to try: Oatmeal Pancakes.

22. 7 signs it’s time to call it quits.

23. Why Everyone—Yes, Everyone—Should Join a Book Club. “Linda-Marie Barrett on the Pleasures of Reading in Community.”

24. Former poet laureate Ada Limón says artists must band together during ‘dangerous times.’

25. Japanese concept “Mottainai” made me rethink the way I eat, shop, and even say goodbye. “Less waste, more flavor.”

26. “The most INSANE Bohemian Rhapsody Flashmob you will ever see…With 30 musicians and singers in the STREETS of Paris.” (Facebook reel)

27. “Why are their five holes in it?!” (Facebook reel) Spoiler Alert: they aren’t able to figure it out, but it’s pretty funny watching them try.

28. And finally, this random collection of things I saved to my phone this week.

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. They were a bit shorter and darker this week, but still my favorite time of day. I was delighted when I turned off my headlamp at one point and looked down and saw Ringo and I’s shadows cast by the light of the moon.

2. Ringo. For the first time in over a year, Ringo had a wonky belly this week. His troubles first started for him when he was only six months old and took until he was ten years old to fully sort out, an ongoing combination of allergies and sensitivities and dietary indiscretions. With the help of Dr. Kelly Gaffney and Dr. Bronwen Foster, we have finally gotten him to a place where he doesn’t have to deal with that every few months. We were surprised and sad that it happened again, but probably shouldn’t have expected it never would, and with the help and care of his “support team,” he’s feeling better. When something like that happens, it’s hilarious how happy it makes Eric and I when his appetite comes back and his poop is “normal” again and he feels better.

3. Vaccines. They save lives; that’s a fact. I got both my flu and COVID shots yesterday, in the same arm, at the same time. My only “side effects” today are a sore arm, but that happens with the flu shot every year. According to the paperwork, without our insurance coverage, it would have cost us $340! So, I’m grateful for health insurance too. I had to point to something from the list of specific high-risk conditions that make you eligible for the COVID shot, but it was clear that it was only a formality, something they were required to do, but also something they weren’t concerned about and not anything they confirmed or recorded anywhere, in fact I’m not sure if the person checking me in even looked at what I’d pointed at — they clearly want people to be able to get vaccinated if they choose. My friend and her little guy had COVID already last week, and apparently it is coming in early and hitting hard in our area, so I decided sooner rather than later was best. And I got rainbow bandaids! 

4. Sane minds and open hearts. I bet you’d agree with me, kind and gentle reader, that this week in the world has been rough, (and yes, also so many of the weeks and weeks and weeks and months and years and lifetimes that came before it). Being human is never easy, has never been, and for those of us trying to be good humans, seeking to ease suffering in ourselves and the world, this week took some extra effort. I hope that you have some sort of practice in your life that helps you hold on, community of whatever sort that supports you, and I’m grateful that you haven’t given up.

I was especially grateful this week for my yoga friends at Red Sage and my therapist and the women in my Friday morning writing sangha. One of the poems we used as a writing prompt on Friday morning was The Forgotten Corners by Jeff Foster, and it was such a good reminder for me, that even though the suffering in the world overwhelms me and I feel very small and helpless, it is worth staying and there is always something holy, even if it is only doing small things with love, in the life I already have.

Feed the cat.
Fold the towels.
Clean the lint from the dryer.
Say thank you for someone’s kindness.
And mean it.
This is the temple – Not on some distant mountaintop, but here,
in a messy kitchen, in a real apology, in a long exhale
when you’re stuck in morning traffic.
Enlightenment isn’t an escape.
It’s seeing, really seeing, what’s right in front of you.
It’s staying.
Even when it’s uncomfortable.
Even when it’s brutally mundane.
There’s holiness in every breath.
In doing the small things with love.
In the life you already have.

5. My tiny family, small house, little life. The main and best reasons I’m not giving up.

Bonus joy: sending another card to my mom (telling her about the weather and my boring days and how busy Eric is at work feels like the “before time” when we would email or text each other), crying when I feel sad, walking by Your Best Day Ever on Monday mornings to say “hi,” how it comforts Ringo when he’s at the vet to sit right next to me, how the tech who took him back to draw blood for some tests said when she came back that “I have never had a dog run so fast to get back to their person,” how something about being in the exam room with the low windows kept Ringo calmer while he was there and the little girl who came up to the window to say “hi” to him and how hard his tail wagged when she did, texting with Chloe’ and Chris, sharing memes and reels with Carrie and Kari and Shellie, my “Liked Songs” playlist on Spotify, good TV, tarot, making art, the spaghetti Eric made last night, plain bean and cheese burritos, Sunday morning Pilates, sitting in the backyard with Ringo, bees, naps, poets and poetry, comedy, true crime, listening to podcasts, libraries and librarians, other people’s dogs and kids and gardens, pie (it’s getting time for apple!), the last few Palisade peaches, roasted veggies, onion buns, a big glass of cold clean water, a warm shower, a big salad, book club, making each other laugh, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.