Category Archives: Something Good

Something Good

1. Poetry: after the photograph from Gaza a poem and a way from Frederick Joseph, The Uptight Scheduler Writes to James Crews and What Can’t Be Lost and Learning to Treasure What’s Here from Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, Luminous on The Weekly Pause from James Crews, I’m So Tired. Aren’t You? from Julia Fehrenbacher, Failing and Flying by Jack Gilbert shared by Patti Digh, she made a masterpiece out of being underestimated by christopher sexton, Diving into the Wreck by Adrienne Rich, and Breathe and Morning Thoughts from Julie Barton.

2. Andrea Gibson, forever and always: Andrea Gibson Saved My Life with Their Instagram Updates on Their Cancer Journey, and Andrea Was Waiting To Give You This Gift, and Grieving Andrea with the One Who Loved Them Longest. And this, shared by Michelle C. Johnson in a recent newsletter:

“It was 2021, and for some reason, I stumbled upon Button Poetry’s website and found Andrea Gibson. I ordered four copies of You Better Be Lightning and waited for them to arrive. I knew I would give one copy to my brother-in-law and keep one for myself. The other two copies would find homes with friends. I didn’t know anything about Andrea at that time, and while I waited for the books to arrive, I did a deep dive into their stories, writings, life, and journey. I was obsessed. I resonate with people who navigate life with such heart and truth. Such rawness and care. Such connection with the more-than-human world. Such wisdom. Since 2021, I followed their journey through newsletters, interviews, and on social media. I watched their squirrel videos. I listened to their voice share about the Earth. I read about magical pumpkins that unexpectedly grew. I soaked in as much of their medicine as I could.

As most of you know, Andrea transitioned on July 14th, just a little more than a month shy of their 50th birthday. I will turn fifty in August, just as they would have, but life and death had other plans for Andrea. In the wake of their transition, their life has come alive in a different way through the innumerable shares everywhere about their life and work, about their way of living and dying. So much of what they have left us with is about loving life—the ugly and beautiful unexpected things. The wonder. The mystery. The web of connection.

So maybe when we die, and leave our bodies in physical form, we don’t lose everything we’ve had; maybe our lives expand. Maybe our relationship with everything we’ve ever loved deepens. Maybe.”

3. Hold On Let Go: Urns for Living and the Art of Trusting Time By Maria Popova. I love this project so much.

4. What do you know about your creative nature? I adore these prompts Jamie Ridler shared in a recent newsletter.

  • What nourishes your creativity? What blocks it?
  • What rhythms supports your creativity? What pace?
  • Who and what inspires you?
  • What do you find compelling?
  • What are your mediums and what do you love about them?
  • Are you drawn more to challenge or to play?
  • Do you find yourself immersed in big projects or loving littles?
  • What themes turn up in your work again and again?

5. 22 Writing Residencies, Grants, and Other Opportunities That Might Change Your Life, a great list from Alexandra Franzen.

6. Quietly Wild, Alix Klingenberg’s new poetry collection is available for preorder. I love what she has to say about writing a poetry collection in these current challenging times, one that is “about the importance of the natural world and the rhythms of the seasons.” She says it “feels like an act of resistance and hope right now, even as it feels a bit like sounding an alarm on a kazoo in a maelstrom of trumpets.”

7. Instructions for Living a Life on The Isolation Journals with Suleika Jaouad. “A Japanese hardware store, a fistful of pens, and a new way of seeing.”

8. ‘Generations of women have been disfigured’: Jamie Lee Curtis lets rip on plastic surgery, power, and Hollywood’s age problem on The Guardian. “The actor explains how she is fighting back against the ‘cosmeceutical industrial complex’ and why she has finally found freedom at 66 years old.”

9. Life lessons: Emmanuel Sonubi on what life so far has taught him. “The acclaimed stand-up comedian, 44, on surviving heart failure and a stroke, leading by example, and learning to agree to disagree.”

10. 10 things I’ve been telling myself, “small reminders that are easy to forget” from Meg Josephson.

11. Introducing The Permission Workbook. “A New Bi-Monthly Feature for Free and Paid Subscribers, Storytellers, and Art-makers” from Elissa Altman.

12. Good stuff from Patti Digh: What in you is ready to be known?, “Recognizing the surprising resonance of soul friends,” and On the other side of the glass, “we are the sum of our secrets.”

13. A megalist of tools for building community, “55 platforms + tactics for connecting off social media” from Elise Granata.

14. Little Truths Studio. I ADORE everything she makes, but the STICKERS?! Love.

15. Never Stop Learning, “A comic about my relationship to climbing (and making art)” from Connie Sun.

16. Journaler’s Routine No. 4: Debbie Millman. “I realized these weren’t just diary entries. They were witnesses to living and persevering.” On The Isolation Journals with Suleika Jaouad.

17. Every Feeling Fully Felt, “Fifteen hours driving, two blissful days, one wondrous life” from Jena Schwartz.

18. Treating Yourself Like Someone You Love from Hugh Hollowell, a recent issue of his Life Is So Beautiful newsletter.

19. Art Under the Gun, another great pep talk from Danny Gregory.

20. A Cup of Soft Fruit, “On the joy of articulating grief” from Satya Robyn.

21. Alchemizing Evil from Julie Colwell. “Repeatedly applying these processes will alchemize the human instinct to blame – the real demon – into the gold of realignment to one’s truth and discovery of the next creative action. As we do this collectively, we have an unprecedented opportunity to shift this time from one of recycling through our worst human tendencies, to creating a new world of heart, vulnerability, and heaven on earth.”

22. the parting glass, “Coming clean on coming clean” from Elissa Altman.

23. When the Ink Smears Ever So Slightly, “On rededicating yourself to your work” from Jami Attenberg.

24. Sometimes It’s Not Jealousy. It Just May Be a Sign to Redirect, “Athena Dixon on finding pleasure in the joy of others.”

25. Creating Closure When the Universe Won’t Give It to You, “Another lesson in radical acceptance” from Elizabeth Kleinfeld.

26. Unbecoming from Jenny Lawson. “This week’s doodle is dedicated to everyone who is still figuring out who they are, instead of being who the world insists that you should be.”

27. The 100 Best Podcasts of All Time, an incomplete list from Time — I am gobsmacked that My Favorite Murder and Mike Birbiglia’s Working It Out didn’t make the list.

28. Emerging Form Episode 143: Shelley Read on Becoming a Novelist in Midlife. “In this conversation, Shelley shares with us how her journey from poet and non-fiction writer shifted into fiction with a single moment of observation and wonder. She shares with us how she crafts scenes, her penchant for playing with language, why she didn’t share with anyone about what she was doing for many years, how a love affair with her main character drove the whole novel, and what she has learned about her own creative process along the way.”

29. The Age of Incarceration. Reflections from the last survivors, reporting and visuals by Morgan Lieberman, and calligraphy by Chiyo Sanada. “During World War II, the U.S. government invoked the Alien Enemies Act, ultimately incarcerating more than 125,000 people of Japanese descent — including many American citizens. The act uprooted and split families, causing them to abandon their homes, businesses, and communities. It has been 80 years since the war ended and they were released. In these testimonies, nine of the last survivors of Japanese American incarceration reflect on their stolen youth and how this injustice impacted the rest of their lives.”

30. How I cut my screen time by 80%, a video by Makari Espe.

31. How To Stay Soft During Fast-Paced Seasons.

32. Sam Cannon ArtBecause of things like this:

33. Artists in Their Own Words: Barb Markway.

34. ‘You think God didn’t make gay men?’ Comedian Leslie Jones on religion, grief and getting famous at 47 on The Guardian. “She was Saturday Night Live’s oldest hire, then faced a torrent of abuse after her role in the Ghostbusters reboot. She talks about the deaths of her mum, dad and brother – and why she’s given up dating men.”

35. Need an Escape? Tune Into Noah Kalina’s Ambient Landscapes Where Almost Nothing Happens.

36. And finally, this random collection of things I saved to my phone this week.

Something Good

1. Poetry: Letter to the Others in the Dark and Right in the Middle of the Day from Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, a love letter to the ones who cry in languages no one’s ever translated from christopher sexton, Love letter from the afterlife from Andrea Gibson shared by Patti Digh, and On Non-Attachment from Julie Barton. And also, these:

2. Remembering Andrea Gibson. My social media feeds have been flooded this week with all things Andrea, and if it were up to me, they would stay that way forever. Here’s just a few things that were shared: 

~From Tiny Pricks Project

3. Looking, “and looking at your looking” on Poetry Unbound by Pádraig Ó Tuama.

4. Good stuff from The Beautiful Mess by John Pavlovitz: Confessions of a Radical, Woke Leftist and The I.C.E. Atrocities Should Be the Final Straw for Decent Human Beings and What to Do If You’re Losing Your Faith.

5. 7 Simple Shifts to Trade Overwhelm for Joy on Be More With Less from Courtney Carver. Also on Be More With Less, 10 Gentle Ways to Break Up With Your Phone (Without Missing It) from Tammy Strobel.

6. From Seth Godin: Lunging and Resilience is a practice.

7. The Everything in Everything. “The biggest puzzle of all right now – what on earth to do about it all?” on bimblings by Josie George.

8. Put down your need for validation by Laura Lentz on Writing at Red Lights.

9. Procrastination can wait from Danny Gregory.

10. Scrying the Photograph, “Using images to access the unseen,” a cool writing exercise from Alix Klingenberg on Earth & Verse.

11. Everything Is Fine And So Am I, “Postcards from the edge of despair,” a comic from Connie Sun.

12. What it means to stay open-hearted in a wounded world on Nonviolence Radio. “Canticle Farm co-founder Anne Symens-Bucher on grief, forgiveness and the wisdom of environmental activist Joanna Macy.”

13. This “Snail Mail Swap” Is Rewriting Adult FriendshipsI miss having pen pals.

14. 99 Compliments That Are Meaningful And Memorable.

15. Why memento mori is the ultimate life hack. “A mid-flight scare reveals how embracing death can bring purpose and meaning to everyday life.”

16. Sweden’s Secret to Well-Being? Tiny Urban Gardens on The New York Times. (gift link) “Known as koloniträdgårdar, they provide city dwellers access to nature, fresh produce and community.”

17. ‘Too loud’, ‘too messy’, ‘too much’ … why should women be expected to shrink and shut up? on The Guardian. “As Lena Dunham’s new show reminds us, whether they’re at work or on a date, women are expected to tone it down if they want to get on. What if they refuse to play ball?”

18. What Would a Real Friendship With A.I. Look Like? Maybe Like Hers on The New York Times Magazine. (gift link) “Chatbots can get scary if you suspend your disbelief. But MJ Cocking didn’t — and wound up in a relationship that was strangely, helpfully real.”

19. Bridget Everett on how she ended up as “Somebody Somewhere” on CBS Sunday Morning.

20. Maddie, a Coonhound Who Awed Instagram by Balancing on Things, Dies at 14 on The New York Times. (gift link) “In thousands of photos, Maddie stood tall and seemingly unbothered atop fences, cars, road signs and tires, garnering 1.2 million Instagram followers along the way.” Good girl, Maddie. 🐾💔

21. And finally, this random collection of things I saved to my phone this week.