Monthly Archives: October 2025

Something Good

1. Poetry: My Body Knows Its Limits by Page Hill Starzinger and At Last the New Arriving by Gabrielle Calvocoressi (I love the ending lines of this one: “What a prize / you are. What a lucky sack of stars”) and Do You Consider Writing to be Therapeutic? by Andrew Grace on The Slow Down with Maggie Smith, Drought and I Want Beauty by Julie Barton, Your callings will keep calling: Listening to what returns, Letter Four {Falling Gently} from Alix Klingenberg on Earth & Verse, You, the Light by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, Saying Yes by James Crews shared on Heart Poems, Helper by James Crews, Keeping Quiet by Pablo Neruda shared by Patti Digh, How to See the Milky Way by Sarah Williams shared on The Marginalian, and blessings, like by Maya Stein. In related news, The Most Romantic Poem on Cup of Jo, (don’t miss the comments section), and Joy Harjo Answers the Orion Questionnaire, “In which we get to know our favorite writers better by exploring the sacred and mundane.”

2. We Are Asking the Wrong Questions About Belonging from Mindy Tsonas Choi. “How do we be and belong with one another in all of our differences? This, is the question of our time.” Amen.

3. 27 Things That Feel Better Than Scrolling Social Media by Courtney Carver on Be More With Less.

4. Good stuff from Patti Digh: What the heart makes in the dark — The pearl is the oyster’s autobiography and What are your hinges? The snow that saved my life. She also shared these links to some other cool stuff: An Existential Guide to Making Friends, and Where writers write — 12 Booker Prize 2025 nominees share their writing spots, and Kazuaki Koseki’s Dreamy Photos Capture Japan’s Forests Shimmering with Fireflies.

5. Wisdom from Danny Gregory: “The quest for the perfect studio, the perfect atmosphere, the perfect sketchbook — those are just forms of procrastination. They can get in the way of making things, not making them easier.”

6.  Good stuff from Jamie Attenberg on Craft Talk: What if I Told You Perfection Was Impossible, and Coffee and Water and Bigger Truths, and Strike While the Iron is Hot, which includes this lovely pep talk:

“You must type while you can type, you must handwrite while you can handwrite. If you are waking up in the morning thinking about something specific related to your writing, then you must honor it. Honor your creativity, spirit, inspiration, artistic self. Always make the time to write. Make the time to make your shit. Do not get in your own way, make room for yourself instead. It’s not just your head you’re tending to here. It’s your heart, it’s your belief system, it’s your whole self when you write.”

7. Good stuff on The Beautiful Mess by John Pavlovitz: Our Town’s PRIDE Festival Was a Beautiful, Joyful Celebration of Community. Then, The “Christians” Showed Up, and Yeah, It’s Hell Here, But Heaven is Still Within Reach, and We’re all ANTIFA, Donald.

8. Conscious Change Collective. “A project of the Garrison Institute’s Spirituality and Social Change Program and Circles for Conscious Change, the Collective is a collaborative field of actors applying inner work and spirituality towards social change. We aim to support a more conscious and cohesive field of action by bringing together organizations and communities to share wisdom, practices, and strategies — strengthening connection, visibility, and momentum for transformative impact.”

9. Let’s Talk About AI Art on The Oatmeal.

10. Nature Gets a One-Star Yelp: The Funniest National Park Complaints.

11. What’s Really Going on With Those Elaborate (Parent-Decorated) College Dorm Rooms? by Anne Helen Petersen on Culture Study.

12. Four Places to Rest. “How our Buddhist refuges can work for non-Buddhists too” by Satya Robyn.

13. Poet Kim Stafford on Instagram.

14. Two Years After Cormac McCarthy’s Death, Rare Access to His Personal Library Reveals the Man Behind the Myth on Smithsonian Magazine. “The famously reclusive novelist amassed a collection of thousands of books ranging in topics from philosophical treatises to advanced mathematics to the naked mole-rat.”

15. 50 (Short) Rules For Life From The Stoics.

16. A Day in the Life of a 102-Year-Old French Yogi. (video) “For decades, Charlotte Chopin has been teaching yoga in Léré, a village in France. At 102 years old, she maintains a simple approach to aging well.” AND, she didn’t even start doing yoga until she was 50 years old.

17. Wisdom from Kari on A Grace Full Life, in response to the question “what is the most important lesson life has taught to you?”:

to stop waiting for life to get easier and instead find meaning right in the middle of the hard parts.

Amen.

18. Monarch butterfly gets a life-saving wing transplant on Long Island: “It was so intricate.”

19. Notes from The Middle of Nowhere by Laurie Wagner. For 12 years, we wrote together almost every week. I joined her Wild Writing Family after she stopped teaching regular classes but have to confess I haven’t taken an active part yet, because every time I see a video of her reading a poem or hear her voice, I want to cry. I miss her. The same thing happened with Susan Piver, when her community grew beyond the capacity for personal relationships and she stopped leading retreats at what is now Drala Mountain Center. Then the same thing happened with my mom, her still there but also not, at least not as she was before.  

20. Our Brains Evolved to Socialize—but Max Out at About 150 Friends.

21. The Permission Workbook: The Perfection Problem. “Overcome it, or you’ll get stuck in creative quicksand forever” by Elissa Altman.

22. Why everyone is lifting weights – and how to get started (whatever your size). “Are reps or weights more important? Is it good if it hurts? How should I structure my workouts? Everything you need to know about resistance training, from the experts.”

23. “It’s Okay But It’s Also Really Not.” When Dystopian Fiction is No Longer a Thought Experiment. “Yume Kitasei Explores the Different Forms Dystopias Can Take, On and Off the Page.”

24. The art of moving on when you don’t get closure: 7 truths you’ll learn the hard way.

25. Sorry, dad! Colin Hanks says John Candy was the ‘nicest guy in Hollywood’ on NPR Morning Edition.

26. And finally this collection of random things I saved to my phone this week.

Gratitude

1. Morning walks. This is the time of year when because of the cooler temperatures and more moisture, the sky turns magical, which is why most of my pictures this week were of the sunrise. It was really cute this week when we walked at Kestrel Natural Area because the last two times we’ve walked there, at the very same bend in the trail, we’ve run into my friend Mary Ellen on her morning walk. Well, apparently she’s now also Ringo’s friend because as soon as we got close to that particular corner, he started to speed up, and when he saw her round the bend, his whole body started to wiggle and he was whining, and as soon as we caught up to her, he started barking and tugging on his leash. He does the same thing when we get close to Theresa’s studio, another friend he gets to visit on one of his morning walks with me.

2. Practice. I was back at Red Sage this week and we had a dog friend practicing with us who reminded me a lot of my first dog Obi. We considered skipping our Friday morning writing practice this week. There were only three of us and two of us are big fans of canceled plans and never feel like we have enough energy or time for the day ahead, but we rallied and I’m so glad we did. The poems we wrote to were amazing, the fellowship was as magic as always, and turns out I really needed it. I’ve been meditating extra, doing my regular sitting practice and also a body scan meditation every day, as I’m doing a solo version of the eight week MBSR (Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction) program created by Jon Kabat-Zinn using his meditation app and his book, Full Catastrophe Living: Using the Wisdom of Your Body and Mind to Face Stress, Pain, and Illness — because, y’all, being human is hard.

3. Fall. It is officially full on here. I’ve been wearing hoodies and wool socks, using my favorite down blankets to cuddle on the couch, getting in to bed and at first actually being cold (I sleep so much better when it’s cooler), being constantly stunned by the golden trees and sky, saying to Ringo “hurry, get back in here, it’s cold out there!”, and in general enjoying slowing down. If I were an animal, I’d probably be one of the ones that gets real fat and then hibernates all winter.

These are some of my favorite pictures of fall, when the world slows down and turns golden for a brief moment.

4. Mom. Still there, still getting good care and company, still smiling, still remembering us. My brother said recently, as we were talking about how she was sleeping more and quieter in general, “but I can still make her laugh.” 

5. My tiny family, small house, little life. It was Eric and I’s 32nd wedding anniversary this week. The smartest, best thing I ever did was marry him, and I’m so grateful, so lucky. Ringo’s belly continues to get better and I’m so grateful for that.

Bonus joy: library books I can check out online and load on my Kindle without ever having to leave the house, getting in the pool, the hydromassage chair, sitting in the sauna, Liminal’s spicy sesame bowl, therapy for both my mind and my body, a massage with Dana, groceries, good TV, listening to podcasts, hot coffee and green tea while I read and write in the morning, cheese, oats, the way the top of Ringo’s head smells, a dog sigh, puppies, other people’s kids and dogs, the last of the blooming things (Seriously, my Rozanne/Cranesbill geraniums never stop! And, the bees love them), strawberries, a warm shower, Grapefruit Bubly, Reese’s seasonal shapes (which I like WAY better than their regular cups because the shapes have more peanut butter and less chocolate), toast, libraries and librarians, poets and poetry, comedy, documentaries, gummies, down pillows and blankets, open windows, my Shakti mat, naps, reading in bed at night while Eric and Ringo sleep.